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Just to echo on this, a few weeks back I went and partied out at Buckhead a couple nights in a row and approached bucketloads of chicks with zero success. I mean I got some phone numbers, but that doesn't mean jack shit. The volume is there, but not one was DTF.
Something that happened in my life reminded me of this thread on GLL.
I was in Athens a few weeks or so with a girl that has recently become my girlfriend because a friend of ours was about to graduate and she wanted us to chill with her for the week. We went out to the bars and man, where do I even begin, horrible M:F ratios for a college town. My girlfriend was the hottest girl at almost all of the bars we went to there. At one of the bars I leave her to go to the bathroom and when I come out, already a group of 4 guys are surrounding her and trying to get at her. I grab her and go, the guys keep yelling random shit at us.
I've been in college towns before and I have never seen that kind of desperation and sleaziness. Just walking around we saw so many fatties and uggos all over the place, ffs, I thought that the school was supposed to have one of the best looking student bodies in the south.
It didn't just stop at the bar there either, one of the guys smacked my girlfriend on the ass and then ran off. Strong WTF, he was fast too and I tried chasing him for a bit before he ran across a busy street and to the other side. Then I come back to my girl and already she is running towards me because a couple of sleazy guys won't leave her alone, she was legitimately creeped out. I kept her by my side and we had a few drinks but decided to just bail.
I got a very sketchy and odd vibe about that place.
Chad2192 wrote: Just to echo on this, a few weeks back I went and partied out at Buckhead a couple nights in a row and approached bucketloads of chicks with zero success. I mean I got some phone numbers, but that doesn't mean jack shit. The volume is there, but not one was DTF.
It probably isn't you, I've had some degree of experience with Georgia girls and they are very flaky, sketchy, and prudish. I think it has to do with the people there being very religious and trying to keep up the whole "good Christian" act.
I was talking to a friend of mines in NYC who works at a media firm that recruits a lot of recent college grads from all across the country. We talked and he told me about girls from various schools act in different ways. The girls he said were the absolute worst were Georgia girls and I asked him why, here is what he had to say:
1. Overestimate their own attractiveness. Tons of 5s and 6s that walk around thinking they are 9s and 10s. He told me that some of the least attractive girls he has known were usually from Georgia but the looks were not the only problem.
2. Constantly try hard to fit in with the "cool kids" in the room to the point where they come off as very desperate doing so.
3. Are rude and bullish to most other girls and people not in the "cool crowd" in any given area. Will aggressively pick arguments with people and try to get under everyone's skin. He gave me an example of how one girl slipped while getting something and one of the Georgia girls (a former sorority sister at UGA) kept teasing her in front of everyone about it, she was loud too but people found the whole thing to be rude.
4. Always meddling in everyone's affairs, they need to know what is going on in everyone's life and if they find an embarrassing rumor about a person, they will be the first ones to gossip about it.
That is just one firm he works for though but I see that others on here have had somewhat similar experiences.
^^ 2, 3, and 4 are so spot on, describe UGA girls and Georgia girls in general down to a tee. These girls live in a state where the average woman is hideous so anything not fat and facially deformed is automatically a 7. Take these girls out of Georgia and to a place like California or Florida, where the girls are actually hot, they get a reality check fast. After that, they will resort to 2, 3, and 4 as girls from other states (who are objectively way better looking than them) get all the attention.
I mean lets face it, there has not yet been a Miss USA winner coming out of Georgia despite the state's big size.
This thread bums me out. I've lived in Georgia (metro Atlanta) for the majority of my life and I disagree with the majority of statements in this topic. I'm also curious to know the lay count of each of you and how long your visit in Georgia was for, as to that might lend some insight as to all the bitterness. I see beautiful women day in and day out here. I have my whole life. I work in Atlanta and live in the suburbs. I'm a white guy, who wasn't in a fraternity, and I'm seldom met with disrespect or attitude from girls or guys. Atlanta is more prone to be black dominated. Drive 15 miles in any direction and its predominately white. I'm still trying to make sense of where most of these remarks are coming from. I've got 29 years living here and I call bs.
DieBenny wrote: This thread bums me out. I've lived in Georgia (metro Atlanta) for the majority of my life and I disagree with the majority of statements in this topic. I'm also curious to know the lay count of each of you and how long your visit in Georgia was for, as to that might lend some insight as to all the bitterness. I see beautiful women day in and day out here. I have my whole life. I work in Atlanta and live in the suburbs. I'm a white guy, who wasn't in a fraternity, and I'm seldom met with disrespect or attitude from girls or guys. Atlanta is more prone to be black dominated. Drive 15 miles in any direction and its predominately white. I'm still trying to make sense of where most of these remarks are coming from. I've got 29 years living here and I call bs.
I have lived in other parts of the south and I have lived in Georgia, both Athens and Atlanta. As for my lay count, I've gotten laid a couple of times with tourists and transplants but other than that, I've had a tough time. Now it isn't just the getting laid part that bothers me, it is the fact that people in places like Johns Creek, Peachtree City, Dunwoody, Rosswell, Marietta, and Alpharetta are some of the phoniest and most two-faced people I have ever met out of any place I've lived in.
The people in the state are so two-faced, arrogant, snobby, and tough to get along with. Not only that but the bars in Buckhead and Brookehaven are loaded with former sorority sluts that walk around with the high school girl mentality.
I am white too and I have had a rough time dealing with the two-faced people here. Not only that, Atlanta has a horrible flashy baller culture which annoys me. Guys making 50k a year walking about acting like they are the young Donald Trump.
It may be hard for you to see as a life long Georgia resident but as someone who lived in other parts of the south before being unfortunate enough to be in Atlanta, it fucking sucks. Not only that, you also have to deal with so many bible thumpers that try to make you feel like a criminal for wanting to have sex with random women.
This thread on reddit described Georgia perfectly:
Sandshark wrote: EXPERIENCE: Lived in Louisiana for most of my life, some experience in the rest of the South. Lots of friends and family members that went to different colleges in the South, lived in different Southern cities, etc.
I'm inclined to agree with DieBenny. I'm sure Georgia is mostly like Louisiana or Alabama (places where I have more experience), and I think you guys are blowing things out of proportion.
The "two-faced" thing is considered basic politeness. From an early age, Southerners are taught never to tell strangers to fuck off, to hit them, to loudly confront them, to blatantly ignore them, etc. Those behaviors aren't considered "honest" and "direct" like they are in some places, they're considered white trash.
So that's just a cultural difference that you'll have to get used to--Southerners, especially Southern women, will pretty much always be nice to your face even if they think you're weird or annoying. Unless you're their close friend or family member, then they'll be brutally honest / bitchy to you lol
The "no casual sex" thing is true. My mom, all my sisters, and most of my friends (guys and girls) back home think that any girl having casual sex, or in a fuckbuddy type of relationship, either has low self-esteem, is ghetto, and/or has STD's.
Very few sorority girls are actually sluts. There's too many social consequences, where all the other girls and guys will find out and call you a slut, and possibly kick you out. The vast majority of sorority girls have sex with 5 guys or less over their 4 years of college.
As far as the arrogant/snobby stuff, I've never noticed Southern people acting like that. Do you dress like them? Obviously if you look totally different from them, they'll be able to tell that you're not "one of us." Just wear a polo, some croakies, and a UGA hat and you'll be good to go haha
Sand, I am a southerner like you too man. I am sure things might be different in Savannah but dude, Atlanta and a lot of Georgia are just different. I've been to Bama and New Orleans as well, in those places I noticed that people had some empathy but Georgia seems to be the worst of all worlds. The prudishness of the south along with some of the backwards conservative traditions mixed in with the arrogant, condescending, and snobby behavior you would expect to see from east coast blue bloods.
If you get a chance, just stay in Atlanta for a bit and you will get a feel of what I am talking about. One of my good friends is from Tennessee and he has the same complaints as well.
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