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Chris I read your story and heard that you went to Emory straight out of high school so I decided to join this site to talk to you about my situation. You're probably more familiar with GA than I am as I have only been here for a little over a year.
I did my undergrad at a big state school in Florida and I had a blast, even outside of my college circles I met a lot of good looking and approachable women who were warm to cold approaches and just cool women overall. I found that people in Florida were very cool, laid back, and accepting of you if you were a cool guy. Spent my summers in South Carolina (Charleston to be exact) and found it to be just as amazing as Florida too.
Now I am going to grad school in GA and I have to say, been here for a year and it is a complete disappointment. I have somewhat more time on my hand than I did during undergrad but it seems like people here are a lot more cold, unaffectionate, and rude compared to other areas of the south.
Approached girls here as usual like I did in Florida and SC where I managed to get warm responses but in GA, it has led to some major blowouts. Girls here are definitely a lot more colder and stuck up than the girls I met in Florida and South Carolina. I also notice that people here talk a lot of trash, do rude things like roll their eyes, and are quite confrontational over small things as well. When you try to talk to any of them in public they just stare at you and give you that look of "is this guy crazy?". They will look at each other and laugh as you're talking to them which I never ran into in Florida and SC.
I've run into a lot of religious crazies here who make no sense to me, they preach about the bible yet these are the same people getting wasted on a Friday night. Lots of fake nice people here too, the ones who will be really nice to you at first but then act like they don't know you. I am finding it very hard to make friends here as well.
The only people I have had a good experience with in Georgia are the black people here, the whites here embody all of what I talked about in the thread.
I need to ask, is it just me or is something up with Georgia girls and the people here?
Georgia is among the worst states in the entire country for guys that are into white girls. For one, there aren't that many white girls in the state to begin with, it is a mostly black state. Then you have the obesity issue since it is the south and you get almost half of the white girls that are fat. Now for the rest that are remaining, you have a lot of stiff competition for them. A white girl who is a 6 in California would likely be a 7 in Georgia because cute white girls are just hard to come across in the state compared to other states. White girls in GA have an inflated value, which is why reality hits them hard when they move to other states.
Now we get to the people of the state in general, a lot of the people in the Atlanta area have this entitlement complex to them. You get a lot of transplants from other regions bringing their snobby and arrogant attitudes with them, these are usually people that couldn't quite cut it in more competitive parts of the country (northeast for example) so they moved to the ATL.
You also have the Hollywood culture going on in Atlanta as the music scene (rap especially) has been huge there and they are doing Walking Dead (#1 show on television) there as well. Due to all of this, you're getting the stuck up California attitude mixing with the traditionally conservative southern culture. You end up getting snobby girls that act like princesses and douchey guys that are trying to prove themselves. Georgia has to be one of the worst states in the country to run game in unless you're into black girls.
Florida is way better, the people are nicer and the girls are much more attractive, not to mention that they have better football teams
The worst part about the deeper parts of the south is how many religious and morally righteous nutjobs you have. While I do respect Christians, we don't have too many good ones around these days. It is frustrating to deal with people that will shove the Bible in your face in order to defend all of their wrongdoings. People are also quite nosy and will try to ruin you if you want to have a good time with partying and drinking.
Georgia girls are probably the worst from my experience, the only chill girls you meet are black girls. White girls in Georgia that look good have a Mt. Everest sized ego. Always pouting, condescending, treating everyone as below them, and massive entitlement complexes that will put that of an Arab prince to shame. The guys take themselves way too seriously and are sensitive compared to men from other states, guys from the Atlanta area are probably douchiest guys in the entire nation.
All that being said, you can meet a lot of good people from the more rural parts of the state. Problem with the state is that the parts which are supposed to be fun and have a lot to do (Atlanta for example) are usually loaded with some of the most hostile people around.
White girls in Georgia, especially those from the Atlanta area (also found in Athens which is an extension of Atlanta for the most part), tend to have this sense of obnoxiousness and entitlement you don't commonly see in white girls in other southern states. I have had a great experience with white girls in South Carolina and Tennessee but the ones in Georgia seemed to come off as much more status hungry than your average American women. A lot also have this attitude and arrogance that you don't commonly see in women in other areas, especially not other southern states.
It isn't just the girls, while the guys you meet from the more rural parts of Georgia are some cool dudes, the ones from Atlanta and its suburban parts (especially if they are white) are typically confrontational and arrogant. I think it might have to do with so many white girls in Georgia being some major prudes, there aren't too many good looking ones in the state.
Chris used to attend Emory, think he might have some experience with whats going on.
There is no way I could see this thread and not commnet I've lived in Georgia since 06. If your into black girls you will find them. I'm a black and you really don't need alot to get pussy out here. Now if your picky then it may be hard. But girls out here are just looking for there prince charming it should be real easy especially if your not from here. You have to to go to Buckhead or alpharretta to get the white chicks even Kennesaw has some bad white chicks. I've worked in almost every mall in North Georgia. In my opinion GA is the perfect city to practice AA. Or pickup in General. Hey if u ever want to link up bro hmu on IG @oshyne1287
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Atlanta has a ton of quality when it comes to black women, hands down the best in the nation. I saw so many good looking black girls there, especially some of the more lighter skin variety. Even if you aren't into black girls, Atlanta will make you think twice about your preference. The best part about it is, a guy of any race out there can do well with black girls there. I have seen guys of all ethnic groups get some quality when chasing after black girls there, sometimes even getting girls who were objectively out of their league.
Guys of more foreign minority groups like Asians, Indians, and Hispanics can do well in Atlanta as long as they go after girls from minority groups.
As for getting white girls, Chris I have to respectfully disagree with you on that. Atlanta has a heavy Nascar, post grad Greek Life, and old money/country club culture among a lot of the whites. I wouldn't say its impossible but it is damn near it. Only exceptions are if you were in a fraternity during your college years or if you played football during your high school years, other than that, you're SOL if you're into white girls.
A black guy can do well with white girls in Atlanta as black people are seen as more "normal" but if you're one of the more foreign minority groups, head down to Florida if you want white girls. I have never met an ethnically foreign (indian, arab, Mexican, etc.) guy that did well with cute white girls in all of my years in Atlanta. Now as a Hispanic guy (mestizo), I had a lot more luck in Colorado and Florida when it came to getting hot white girls. Part of it had to do with there just being more attractive white girls there but the other half had to do with the fact that no one cared if I talked to or dated some cute white girl.
It was night and day, who knows, maybe this post is sour grapes on my part as well.
If you want white girls in Georgia, you better be white or black or else you won't have much luck. Though I will admit, I did meet some Asian guys (Korean, Japanese, Chinese, etc.) that did alright because they were seen as the "good minorities" but the more brown ethnic groups are unwelcomed by whites there. Lets just say that Trump is quite popular there due to his rhetoric and I am glad I moved out.
One other thing to keep in mind, if you happen to be dating a cute white girl then don't move to Atlanta or GA in general with her. I knew a darker Sri Lankan guy who moved down from New York, British accent, and was mercilessly harassed by some of the local guys for dating this beautiful blonde he moved down there with. A few guys often aggressively forced themselves on to his girlfriend, openly made race jokes towards him, and put him through a lot of uncomfortable situations for it.
bigpoppa2387 wrote: You have to to go to Buckhead or alpharretta to get the white chicks even Kennesaw has some bad white chicks. I've worked in almost every mall in North Georgia. In my opinion GA is the perfect city to practice AA. Or pickup in General. Hey if u ever want to link up bro hmu on IG @oshyne1287
The white girls in Georgia pale in comparison to white girls in most other areas, definitely harder to find good looking ones here compared to Florida for example. One other thing I do not get about white girls here is their standards in guys. In most other places I would see cute white girls with aesthetic Channing Tatum type of white girls or quality ethnic/black guys. Here in Georgia, I tend to see a lot of cute white girls with some low quality white dudes. I am talking about nice pretty blondes dating fat guys.
On the surface you would think that it is easy to do well with white girls in GA because the competition is not nearly as rough, white guys here aren't generally top tier compared to their counterparts in other states; yet it is not like that at all.
It really confuses me compared to other places where just looking good and having game could get you a cute white girl while here, you see fat and low quality southern dudes with cute white girls and I've known a couple good looking guys with charisma who were struggling.
I think it's because the women here settle. They know how hard it is to find a decent guy. For every girl you see with a man there are about 30 single women waiting to be snatched up. And most decent looking guys are probably players out here. You literally just have to be slightly above average to get some pussy I'm GA. Basically if you have your shit halfway together you'll get pussy. It's strange but I like it.
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bigpoppa2387 wrote: I think it's because the women here settle. They know how hard it is to find a decent guy. For every girl you see with a man there are about 30 single women waiting to be snatched up. And most decent looking guys are probably players out here. You literally just have to be slightly above average to get some pussy I'm GA. Basically if you have your shit halfway together you'll get pussy. It's strange but I like it.
I disagree man, that has not been my experience at all. Now this is just talking about gaming white girls, girls of other races are a lot easier. Problem is that I am just not interested in black girls and usually only go for white girls.
What I have witnessed is good looking and charismatic guys from other areas having a tough time while overweight chubby polo wearing southern men are dating hot girls. It seems like the post grad fraternity crowd from SEC schools is what dominates the bars in Buckhead as well. I tried to find a bar-tending gig but a few of the guys told me that they tend to almost exclusively prefer former fraternity brothers from SEC schools for those gigs. The former fraternity brothers aren't too open to making friends with "yankees" and outsiders either.
I see ugly and below average guys with cute girls because they happened to be a part of the fraternity scene back in college. So status here is weird to where you can get cute girls if you were a frat boy back in college, regardless of looks. The state is decent if you are open to going for black girls but other than that, it is beyond horrible if you want white girls.
I don't think those girls are settling, they just have a different standard for what is hot. Former SEC frat boy beats charismatic and handsome guy from outside of the south every single time.
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