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Think what hinders my gains in terms of handling my approaching anxiety the most is that im overly picky in terms of who am i approaching.
I tend to only approach those girls that i find really attractive and those i see very rarely in my shitty town despite going out so often.
And this is constantly happening but at least now im aware of it.
What im talking about is that a girl is showing me interest and im basically rejecting her.
I dont know what is wrong with me and why im doing that, when i think about it now no wonder i suck with women.
A few days ago i went out (i do every day) and saw this hot blonde girl with perfect ass but thought shes super hot i will skip her, and as im walking i notice her looking at me and as i looked at her she looked away.
It was fucking obvious that she was into me, but i didnt approach her.
Now an hour ago this super hot girl in yoga pants i noticed and i was like holy shit shes hot as hell, and she started walking towards me and smiled and she was basically promoting something. But there was other people and she just talked to me... And i did nothing?
I really hate myself. And i keep approaching some shitty girls that are obviously non DTF or whatever.
Girls in my town especially younger ones hates to be approached.
Even average girl here think shes a fucking godess... i hate those girls.
Which all boils down to me saving up money and moving. And thats the first thing BiB said in his only post here...
I HATE THIS COUNTRY AND I HATE MY JOB AND I HATE FUCKING MONEY LITERALLY HATE IT.
I gave myself a goal to move and have a period where i will basically only focus on fun and fucking girls, for some period of time.
And later i will move to USA and focus on money.
What im doing now is cutting and im already at below 10%, in a couple of weeks i will have a 0.001% body and will take some pictures.
Dude.....you're considering moving to the US from Europe and you're struggling with women??
I don't remember but I think you're from Serbia - a country with tons of extremely hot girls. So you speak Serbian and maybe some other slavic languages, which opens up a lot of Eastern Europe for you (WAY better than the US for women)
You're actually extremely lucky.
I recently had a 2 year dry spell in Toronto, Canada without any women. I went to Eastern Europe and banged one of the hottest girls I've ever seen in my life within 2 weeks, from basic guy day game. A girl you'd see with a pro athlete in North America. I also approached a very hot 19 year old girl in the day and had a date with her the next day where we made out. Then I had to leave the country. Just WAY easier than North America.
Like you said in one of your earlier posts, the guys in Eastern Europe have no game at all. From what I saw, the girls are extremely hot and the guys aren't good looking. I don't know how that works. A lot of them are alcoholic and depressed or angry or something. So the girls are so amazed if you're a normal guy. In North America, you need amazing game. That's why game was invented here, specifically, in my city, because it's the worst/hardest city.
I was shocked to see so many ugly, weird, losery (by North American standards) guys with smoking hot 10's in Europe. It's amazing how much easier guys have it over there. That's why GLL has created this, because in North America, you have to be a really amazing guy to get hot girls. In Eastern Europe, you can be a complete loser. By the way, the girl I banged told me she was so impressed by how I acted around her. She said the guys there are either extremely shy and weird and scared of her, or the Russian guys who are super emotional and needy and aggressive.
So, you're extremely lucky. Move to Zagreb or learn Russian or Polish if you haven't already and move somewhere there. I wish I spoke a slavic language. Man, literally I can walk around my huge North American city ALL DAY and not see ONE hot girl. Where I was in Europe, I was seeing like 50 hot girls a day, easily.
Brother i walk for hours in my town and barely find any girl that is somewhat decent looking.
And girls here from small town are disgusting. They all just want to reject you and even some average girl think she deserves the best and the richest man. They mostly go for money and status here...
I just cant wait to escape from this shit and move, cant even stand the attitude of these girls here.
My short term goal is to move to Belgrade and play with girls but i need money for it and im working for 400$/month.
My long term goal is to move to US and live there and earn money.
Yes, maybe your town sucks. But you're close to so many amazing cities full of hot girls. European women are way better than North American.
And if you think of it this way - you want to move to the US to make money. You want to make money so that you can get a hot girl. Why not just stay in a place with hotter/easier girls? Definitely try out Belgrade. It makes a huge difference to be somewhere good. In a good city, you can really start to get momentum since there are girls everywhere.
I will force myself to write on my log again because its too damn helpful. So many good people here and it is really helpful.
Now this girl made me feel really bad.
I was walking in town dressed to the max as always, i really do look better than average faggot from my town and noticed a cute girl on the bench with a guy. But this girl just kept fucking looking at me and that kind of look as shes about to say something to me but at the last moment she refuses.
In my head i was thinking that this girl wants something from me and also the face was very familiar, i knew ive seen her somewhere...
And fucking shit... 2 mins later i remember that i approached this cute sexy teen on the street.
She was smiling and was all green light and when i asked for number she said that she never gives away her number to people. WTF? Last few girls told me the exact same thing. They offer me facebook which i dont have. And this girl told me shes heading to her brother that time... and now im thinking that on the bench it was not her bf but her brother and she wanted me..
Fucking weird girls... they reject me for some unknown reason that even she does not know why and they know they like me?
Now we both feel like shit. And i feel like shit because i couldnt remember her to at least say hi... well not just hi but id talk to her but i just did not remember her.
Btw i kinda stopped bothering with girl for about 2 months when my hormones were shit from my cycle. (same as Terminator did)
I ditched away all steroids, im now on just 250mg of test and feel awesome and my mood is stable.
I did not have any success with girls so far. I approached like 20-25 so far total and only two numbers. These two were almost close dates. One was sexy as fuck and was texting and almost had a date but my friend told me that shes doing drugs and yes she was. Another one was close too but did travel to another country... fitness freak girl.
I just want one cute girl and thats all... but seems so hard to get.
Also i met 3 guys that fucked way too many girls than they count.
One 50 years old divorced with two little kids now and entire town is talking how he banged some super hot chicks when he was younger... but actually he still fucks girls that are 20. He is super bad looking and he does not have teeth, literally. I must talk to this guy more, hes really cool.
And another two guys, one of them is my old friend from school, we were best friends as kids... he was on heroin but is very rich and in his phone he showed my around 30 photos of naked girls that he fucked.
And his friend that i met in a bar, this guy full phone of videos and photos of girls he fucks.... We sat at the bar for around 30 mins and this entire time he was talking about sex and girls he fucks... i felt so miserable for the rest of the day lol. When i said to my friend that one guy on forum that fucked 50 girls said... he just started laughing and said 50 is fucking nothing... the thing is, this guy is not a liar.
Something that i catch from these guys is, they are really edgy, both have a little bellies and around 17% bf... good haircuts and well dressed. They are really confident and good vibe and they literally does not give a fuck about anything. Talking really loud and laughing and their confidence overall is super high. They literally cant do anything to girls they want. This my friend when we was talking he stood up and went to this girl bartender girl and started squizing her legs kinda hard but playfully... i could see that it made her horny.
I went outside and now im going again.. i must force myself to approach more girls. Hope i see that little cutie again... i really liked her.
Now looking back in my log BadIdeaBear only made one comment "you need to move to a bigger city" and its so fucking funny how that one comment hits the nail.... it would solve everything. Whenever i go to Belgrade in 1 hour i see 50 beautiful girls and my mind is blown. In my town i see this amount of hotties in about a month. I dont have money to move but im trying my best to save up.
Ive been out almost whole day and havent seen almost any girl worth approaching.
Im so fucking frustrated with my life... working all day with the worst idiots you can image and hearing their voices for the rest of the day and i barely got money to just survive.
The plan was to save up and move out of this shit hole called town but apparently its not working out.
Im eating the cheapest foods i can and still i cant make it..
My looks are not the problem and even my AA is not the problem... its just my shitty town with only one street.
Im really wondering how i got so much energy and drive to go out every single day and work so hard after my shitty job... and im just not giving up. If i was in a big city id find at least a couple of girls i could bet my life on it.
All day im thinking about girls and all i want is a normal girlfriend and i cant find any as im fucking cursed to not have a gf...
Im literally doing all i can to make this and its just not working out... my worst fear is that i will be forever stuck in this shit town and in this miserable life draining job... but i just dont see any way out.
If someone got some advice please say, basically if i could make more money it would fix all my problems.
Chris just posted on his getalife website about jobs you can do anywhere. Maybe best thing is to do move location get an average job until you figure your career out.
I can relate when I was in the army I was posted to a shitty small town for 3 years the ratio was like 4 guys to 1 girl due to being such a large military presence in the area. This was the most depressing time of my life it was like fucken dejavu everyday.
Once I left that place a new chapeter started and gained a self entitlement of freedom.
Whats the worse thing that can happen if you move locations can it get much worse ?
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