TOPIC: Hungry Wolf log

From your first post, I gather that you live in a small town and also have confidence issues.

The BEST thing you can do is to use Airbnb and internet dating.

From your town, pick the closest largest city and book an Airbnb. Prior to visiting that city, create a dating profile as if you lived in that city and set up some dates. You have the looks part down pat...use that to your advantage by making an online profile (looks are EVERYTHING on the net). When you arrive in Big City, Serbia you will have dates lined up and should be able to take it from there. Combined with online dating and running basic guy game in a big city, you will get laid Splurging a little on the Airbnb and travel costs might be worth it to sample the big city without the constant big costs.

Havent been posting anything these days.

BUT IF I DONT POST DO NOT THING FOR A SECOND THAT I GAVE UP !!!

Hahahah... btw i had a conversation on skype with a buddy from Serbia that is good with women and he told me that i already know everything and theres nothing to be said i just have to continue taking action.
And that is true. Thats why im not much on GLL anymore and asking dumb questions... all whats left is going out and doing.

A couple buddies told me that my approach is bad. They have either got told by me or even saw me approaching a girl and thats why they say their opinion.
I just keep going direct approach same as Chris does and most people here but im not having any success so far.
Ive approached like 10-15 girls approx.
Ive seen a couple of girls i already approached walking with their boyfriends. Their boyfriends looks like complete shit and thats what frustrates me the most.
Everyone here has a girlfriend. Fat guy, weak guy, acnes, bad posture, shitty dressed... all this shit, and im just frustrated that all those shitty guys are walking with girlfriends while im on some creepy getting laid site and dont even have any girl at all. I keep thinking what is wrong with me and why is this happening.
Think that direct approach does not work in little towns. Here social circle is everything.

Two hours ago this approach made me really fucking mad. Well nothing new, im mad most of the time but listen...
Noticed this girl walking with a fat girlfriend and i followed them and approached.
Direct approach, she enjoyed the compliment... made some small talk but she said that she has a boyfriend.
What made me angry is that she said "wow its soo cold" so she can walk away. And also said that shes from another small town here and i asked what is she doing here she said just going in pubs with a friend...
These delusional pieceo f shit girls are really making me mad as fuck.
First of shes in fucking yoga pants walking and whining how its cold and its obviously winter and snow outside.
Dressed like a slut with no clothes on her whinning how its cold. And has a boyfriend and walks from pub to pub dressed like a whore again... what the fuck??? Is this real life? Are all women like this? This is an example of the worst kind of women that exist. This should be only fucked and kicked in the ass. She probably commented behind my back that im a creep that hits on women... i bet. Delusional and manipulative trash... what she is saying and what she is doing are complete opposite.

Having no success at all so far. But at least my social freedom is growing. Think id have sick success online but i dont have any pictures. Im thinking to go to a bank and borrow money so i move asap from this depressing town. It would take ages until i save up enough cash... i will see.

Also i will tell you that im motivated as fuck to make this work. And i really want it so badly to have some girls to fuck. Taking action every day and feeling bad if i skip a day when the weather is shit.
If im in some big city, id be outside approaching women 10 hours a day and would get laid for sure... even by the accident.

Yo man put that body to use.

With your body and knowledge you could easly find a job in a bigger city.
You could be a personal trainer/bouncer / stripper - whatever it takes.

And in a 15k town you wouldn't be a big player anyway since people know each other and girls that would know that you're a player wouldn't fuck you since they'd be scared of being labeled as sluts.

Not gonna lie, i was not motivated to approach lately because my libido is shit. When prolactin is high, you are depressed, no libido, no motivation and shit. Yes i did a couple approaches that i did not write here, but its nothing compared to like two weeks ago where i was like a fucking Hungry Wolf, literally could walk for hours to search for women. My motivation was crazy and now its shit.
But its all fine, when my hormones come back to normal ill be a horny dog again.
Im still going out daily, but im just not that much motivated to approach as much as i was, not even nearly.
Ill push myself more tomorrow, even though i dont feel like doing it.

You should approach when you feel like shit so that when you feel good, you will be amazing. Keep approaching until it becomes second-nature!

NoStringsAttached wrote: You should approach when you feel like shit so that when you feel good, you will be amazing. Keep approaching until it becomes second-nature!

When im feeling like crap i think even if i approach her she wont like me because my vibe is shit.
But i should give it a try, maybe i get lucky.
And also my priority should be to beat AA instead of trying to find a perfect gf or get laid.

I never understood this whole AA thing.

I started approaching girls because I wanted a girlfriend. And actually I started by being indirect because that's what PUA told me to do. I admit at the beginning I was terrified to approach but I did it anyway because I refused to not take opportunities and after a while the lack of results from indirect frustrated me so I said "fuck this shit ! Imma tell these girls I want them, no more bullshit !" It took me 10 direct approaches to be comfortable with direct approaches and that was it.

So probably 50 indirect approaches to be comfortable with approaching + 10 direct approaches to be comfortable with direct. And that was it.

I know AA program is overrated and exaggerated because AA is natural and you cannot make it go away ; you actually just learn to live with it and approach anyway. Nowadays I still feel some anxiety before approaching a girl but I'm so used to it because I already did it 1500 times at least.

If you commit to approach at least 3 days per week with at least 3 girls per day of approaches, then after 3 months your AA should be gone.

Also you need to realize that approaching is a numbers game. There is 95% chance that you are doing nothing wrong, so you should keep your approaches short (just say you are interested in her and ask for her number and then go away) and mass approach instead of doing few long approaches. Of course don't approach women that seem cold and/or bitchy.

Leopard is right. I still feel anxiety before approaching. The difference now though is that I don't let it stop me from approaching.

Your lack of motivation is a feeling just like anxiety and right now, you are letting it stop you from going out and meeting women.

Leopard wrote: I never understood this whole AA thing.

I started approaching girls because I wanted a girlfriend. And actually I started by being indirect because that's what PUA told me to do. I admit at the beginning I was terrified to approach but I did it anyway because I refused to not take opportunities and after a while the lack of results from indirect frustrated me so I said "fuck this shit ! Imma tell these girls I want them, no more bullshit !" It took me 10 direct approaches to be comfortable with direct approaches and that was it.

So probably 50 indirect approaches to be comfortable with approaching + 10 direct approaches to be comfortable with direct. And that was it.

I know AA program is overrated and exaggerated because AA is natural and you cannot make it go away ; you actually just learn to live with it and approach anyway. Nowadays I still feel some anxiety before approaching a girl but I'm so used to it because I already did it 1500 times at least.

If you commit to approach at least 3 days per week with at least 3 girls per day of approaches, then after 3 months your AA should be gone.

Also you need to realize that approaching is a numbers game. There is 95% chance that you are doing nothing wrong, so you should keep your approaches short (just say you are interested in her and ask for her number and then go away) and mass approach instead of doing few long approaches. Of course don't approach women that seem cold and/or bitchy.

What is your way to slash anxiety then?

NoStringsAttached wrote: Leopard is right. I still feel anxiety before approaching. The difference now though is that I don't let it stop me from approaching.

Your lack of motivation is a feeling just like anxiety and right now, you are letting it stop you from going out and meeting women.

Yes that is exactly true.
Now i see that was not approaching only because i had no motivation to do so. But when im motivated and horny i dont care about AA i do it anyway.
Today im starting hard again.
Because im feeling good again. More horny and motivated, which is a sign that my hormones are getting back to somewhat healthy levels.

And thanks for you posts btw they are kinda short but helps me a lot.

moveon wrote:

Leopard wrote: I never understood this whole AA thing.

I started approaching girls because I wanted a girlfriend. And actually I started by being indirect because that's what PUA told me to do. I admit at the beginning I was terrified to approach but I did it anyway because I refused to not take opportunities and after a while the lack of results from indirect frustrated me so I said "fuck this shit ! Imma tell these girls I want them, no more bullshit !" It took me 10 direct approaches to be comfortable with direct approaches and that was it.

So probably 50 indirect approaches to be comfortable with approaching + 10 direct approaches to be comfortable with direct. And that was it.

I know AA program is overrated and exaggerated because AA is natural and you cannot make it go away ; you actually just learn to live with it and approach anyway. Nowadays I still feel some anxiety before approaching a girl but I'm so used to it because I already did it 1500 times at least.

If you commit to approach at least 3 days per week with at least 3 girls per day of approaches, then after 3 months your AA should be gone.

Also you need to realize that approaching is a numbers game. There is 95% chance that you are doing nothing wrong, so you should keep your approaches short (just say you are interested in her and ask for her number and then go away) and mass approach instead of doing few long approaches. Of course don't approach women that seem cold and/or bitchy.

What is your way to slash anxiety then?

Just do it.

Just approach this first girl and tell her she is cute. If you are super anxious you can just admit it to her "excuse me, I'm very anxious about telling you this but I just saw you and I think you are cute".

Do it 50 times and it's enough (maybe 100 but it really only took me 50 approaches). Like I said the anxiety will not go away, you will just be able to live with it. "Ok, so I already did it 50 times, I can do it one more time."

Ok, so I know some guys will be really petrified just at the idea of telling the girl you are interested. So, first just approach girls in a socially acceptable way. How ? Just ask her for informations. It is socially acceptable to approach strangers in the street to ask them for information.

So do it 30 times. You will see that some girls are rude and will not even stop and you will see that some girls will stop and answer you.

You did it 30 times ? Wonderful, now you can move on and tell them you think they are cute. Maybe just add that you are super anxious, girls will be nicer. Do it 30 times. ("Excuse me, I'm really nervous but I just wanted to tell you that you are cute. Have a good day.")

Then approach 30 more girls and ask them for their number.

That's it, you don't need more.

1. 30x indirect apporach by asking informations. ("I'm new here, do you know where X is ?")
2. 30x "I'm nervous but you are cute".
3. 30x "you are cute, do you want to meet again ?"


There is absolutely no need to do crazy things that will embarass yourself in front of other people, because like I said anxiety never go away, so don't do stupid things. For example, what's the purpose of shouting out loud something in the bus ? That's useless for your goal of getting a girlfriend. I would not do it. People that do that are crazy weirdos that do drugs or are drunks.

Yes and the most important thing also is to actually make decision to approach a girl. What i mean by that is i catch myself just walking and when i see a girl i check her out and pass her.
But instead i should consciously make a decision and do it.

Hunk said the most important thing in getting laid is when you see a girl to simply start walking towards her. And as you do it, it would be more awkward to not approach than to do talk to her.

And yes its true. As i make a decision and start walking to her, its 50% done.
And also hesitation should be avoided at all costs. The more you hesitate the more anxiety builds up.
See her > walk towards her and approach.
Doing it like a robot is the best way. But once our brain start working, we are fucked.