TOPIC: Hungry Wolf log

Havent approached that many girls these days and already see that some anxiety did come back. Being consistent and keep on approaching every day is the key factor in improving in this area.

Also this is important.
Noticed that when i skip a girl because of the anxiety i start to feel really bad right after. As shes the only girl in this world.
Do you remember this feeling when you started? And how to prevent this? Because when im out and this happens, it ruins my mood which is really important.

-I know that some guys already said that i should do the AA program and i agree. But im not gonna do it in a 15k people town obviously.

With a goal of moving to a big city, im just doing what i can here. As i already said, if i get lucky and find a girlfriend, it would be perfect.

Okey this approach kinda ruined my entire day.

As i kept getting really positive interactions at the beginning as i started approaching last 3 approaches were terrible.

This is the second time i creeped the fuck out of a girl. In a very crowded street i just approached this teen that was sitting at the desk. I Just said hi and she looked me with the terror in her eyes as she saw a ghost or something and just get up and left.
This is the second time the same thing happened. Earlier these two young girls around 17 yo also was scared the same second i said hi.

This makes me feel bad and angry at the same time. What the fuck dude? There is no way im that ugly...

Maybe i should stay away from younger girls that are under 20? I dont know dude... i could bet my life that i didnt do anything creepy.
But getting this reaction for the second time, kinda killing me....
Im even thinking maybe it was the same girl that was scared earlier a couple of days ago but i cant really know.

As i said, i felt amazing today but this made me feel like shit. Im even getting paranoid that im gonna get reported to the police as some pervert. Kinda thinking that i should even stop going out in this shitty little town.

Young girls can be really shy and scared. They are growing up in a society that teaches them at a young age to keep to themselves from strangers and that dudes who talk to them during the day are paedos who want to rape them. Dont take it personally dude. Ive had girls do the same to me. Instead of Hi try to say in a more relaxked tone "Yo watsup"

Don't get discouraged, I creep out girls all the time haha.

In fact, the last 10 approaches I did were all bad reactions, and one number was bunk.

Just keep approaching.

Yeah I know the feeling. Just expose yourself to different situations. I feel like shit too tonight, because I had pretty bad reactions today too and I make a point of always persisting. Two chicks, even though they initially reacted positive, got weirded out during the convo which is kinda even worse, because it means I'm good looking but my social skills suck. One actually called me horrible.

Thanks people.

Didnt know what to do with myself so i ended up drinking vodka to feel better a bit and went to gym.
I have switched the gym because from the last one i have tested the waters with pretty much every somewhat cute girls.
In this new gym i went last night, everyone was looking at me because i look the way i do, and there was this girl that gave me long EC at first and then i catch her looking at me a few times.
The thing is, my buddy told me that shes married. And i didnt know if the bf is there and who is the guy so i did nothing. Went to this gym again an hour ago but she wasnt there. Ill ask buddies when shes usually at the gym so i catch her again.
Some girls are hotter but this one just arouses me... when i walk by her my body just reacts crazy and i feel some crazy rush.

Even if she likes me it will be hard to open her up so she gives me her # because of the people in gym that already knows her very well. She may end up faking and pretending that she does not want me but ill see.

Btw here are 2 new pics, bad lightning but who cares

Because i already feel better ill go out again now

I completely feel you Hungry Wolf. I am in like the same position, just that I have already lost my vcard. The last cold approaches I did where at night when I was out alone. I think it was July 2015. That night really scarred me. I looked as good as I could, way above average, approached 2 girls, they wouldn't even talk to me. I creeped them out whatever.

That really bugged me deep down inside. The one lay came from a friend's girlfriend who introtuced a girl to me, which I managed to pull so quickly. I never pulled, escalated and fucked a girl before, but this felt so easy compared to approaching.

So here I am. In the best shape of my life, looking better than ever before, big city, good logistical place and lonely saturday night again. I see below average guys who look like dip shit with decent girls all the time. I always laugh inside and think what the fuck is wrong with me.

Since you are already approaching girls, Phenibut/Kratom could even help you more.

I take 1000 mg Phenibut to sleep really good. Drink at least 1 liter water. Morning 3000 mg Fast or Moderate Kratom. Awesome feeling. Worked for me several times.

Bro you are jacked as fuck and probably very masculine looking. You're prolly gonna creep out a lot of girls if you keep approaching

But this is not a bad thing. Big masculine guys like us are polarizing. My last lay was this sexy ass bitch that I approached who was working at the mall with her tits poppin' out. Dude the girls in love with me, blowjobs finishing in her mouth, comes over when I want... But before I approached her I got yelled out by some stupid bitch in another store, and then I creeped out this other girl too so hard I swear she thought she was gonna die when I said hi to her and started running away. She was prolly too young for me to be talking to but sometimes I'm not sure so I like to find out

Point is, don't let this bother you too much

^^^ If you want even further proof beyond what I just wrote above, that creeping girls out usually doesn't have anything to do with how attractive you are, then check this out;

Even my own cousin (a 15 yr old girl) says that if she didn't know me she would be creeped out by me. I asked why and she said because I look 'tough'. She also tells me I look good and knows that I date lots of hot chicks... So yeah creeping out girls has become a normal part of life for me that has lost all forms of negative connotation for me

As a matter of fact, I like it, because it lets me know that I'm behaving in ways that other guys literally can not do (out of fear my man, out fear... Fuckin' pussy ass bitches is what they are bro)

haha dude, that interaction with that gym girl was hella funny. I'm glad you shut her down like that.

Honestly man, lately ive been demotivated to do any approaches. My friends in the netherlands studying and I dont have any one to go out with and just relax (rather than going out specifically to approach). Even though im no where near the size i want to be muscular wise, I always say well if i get bigger, ill get more interest from woman. Clearly that isnt the case since its not happening for you.

Just go out with your mate and try to hi five some girls as you walk past. Your probably going to get rejected at the beginning and the funniest thing happens. It's like you dont give a fuck after that and your like whatever and you get in the flow of doing it. You naturally start laughing more and have fun with your friends and it feels like your biggest fear just vanishs.

Point being, just make a fool out of yourself in a playing kind of way. Go up with your friends to randoms at the park and sit next to them. Make vlogs where you intentionally talk to others. The first approach is always the hardest. Its like a mental block.

GL dude

Even though im also new at this two very important things id like to point out which will help you.

1.Stop seeking for perfection until you start taking action (because obviously if you do, you may wait until you are in your grave)
2.You dont need or WANT anyone to go out with. Yes you may feel more comfortable at first with your buddy but eventually he wont be able (or simply dont have interested as you) and you will end up sitting at home just because your buddy is bussy?

Ill tell you how this all started. I was reading GLL for so much time but was not taking any action so basically it did nothing to me. (no shit?)
Then i had that need in me to go out and get a real girl but was scared a bit. So i started going with friends. But i wanted to go out every day, but obviously my buddies could not. And also they talk too much about gym, drinking and other things that i dont find interesting when going out. Im just thinking about pussy these days haha and i got only one friend that has the same interest (hes at around 30 girls or so).
So basically you must start going out solo because you dont want to be dependant on anyone. And also i dont want now anyone with me... i can go whenever i want, they talk about stupid things and i would not even approach anything, even buddies will say its fucking weird and other stupid talk.
At first i did just walk and could not approach. But soon enough here i am i can approach from time to time... sometime i pussy out and feel bad but who cares, i see im improving.
Im like 1000 times better than when i started and you can do it too, just need to do SOMETHING at least but if you just sit at home nothing will happen, we all have tried that

About high fives.. that is kinda weird in my country. And im only in 15k people town so i can not afford to make a fool of myself too much.
I was thinking about it at first, maybe not high 5s but something similar but i just ended up being more comfortable actually approaching a girl in a nice guy manner than doing some weird drills.

Hungry Wolf wrote: Also this is important.
Noticed that when i skip a girl because of the anxiety i start to feel really bad right after. As shes the only girl in this world.
Do you remember this feeling when you started? And how to prevent this? Because when im out and this happens, it ruins my mood which is really important.

I still feel like this every time I don't approach a girl I find attractive. It's not because I feel or think she's the only one in the world or because maybe something might have happened with her, but because I didn't do what I really wanted to do. Because I let fear or my ego hold me back from talking to her.

The only way to prevent this is by approaching every girl you find attractive.