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Just going out but simply end up walking for hours and not catching a single attractive women. Pretty frustrating feeling when you want something really bad and do your part but there are still other factors that you cant control and that are completely against you. (my shitty town)
Seems like in little towns all somewhat attractive girls are taken and unwilling to do anything outside of their relationship.
I see so many couples where girl is obviously a lot better looking than the guy.
So many shitty looking guys with hot girls here, it really frustrates me.
Id really like to find a girlfriend to chill with before i move to Belgrade, it would be the perfect case scenario.
When i will be able to move it all depends on how quickly im able to save up cash. I need at least 500$ in cash for it and im paid 400$ per month.
Also noticed when you start going for this its really a lonely way, because like 95% people are jealous, negative, living inside the box and its kinda hard to find anyone that will understand your goals and you as a person.
I got only one friend that gets me, really awesome dude and hes really good with girls himself.
Today i did go to get some tan and do the blood work. Im tanned as fuck btw. On my way back home i noticed around 3 lets say hot girls giving me eye contact. But for some reason i didnt feel like approaching. I just felt like theres no need to approach.... i hate that feeling. Seems like i can only approach when im a horny dog.
Also im getting eye contact like all the time. Im at the point where i think its meaningless. Maybe they are just looking because im also looking at them. Maybe they are looking for some other reason... but it makes me think that theres no way so many girls are giving me eye contact simply because they find me attractive. But i havent still approached a single girl that gave me EC. When they walk towards me and we pass each other i just find it very difficult to turn around and run for her.
Also today noticed that there are actually quite a few girls and women that are showing me attraction. Some of them whenever i see them, like this cashier women and this little neighbour girl. But the thing is, they are not hot at all, so i dont like them.
But thats not the point. The thing is im not sure if its because im not good enough so im only attracting those average girls or its that there are also some hot girls that are interested in me but are just trying so hard to hide it.
Also, from my previous post i said that i approached this 17 yo hot girl in yoga pants. I saw her today with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is a 16-17 yo ugly fuck. Im literally disgusted by it. I just dont get it how did this little fuck get this kind of girl?
I kept seeing it all the time here. Very hot girl with super ugly dude. Like all the time. And that REALLY frustrates me a lot. Sometime i start to think like what the fuck is wrong with me that i cant get a girl and im a still virgin. And all those ugly fucks are fucking girls that i dream about. Plays with my mind and really killing me....
Oh almost forgot... today did only one approach. This girl in mini skirt followed her and approached... not much to say, simply non DTF girl.
I should read my log often so i remember myself that its really not scary to approach girls. At the very worst, nothing really happens. No rude interactions whatsoever. Most girls are not interested, but all of them were just smiling and were really polite at the very least.
Also should expose myself to more and more "difficult" situations. Like girls in groups, girl with parents, with guy etc.
Hungry Wolf wrote: But for some reason i didnt feel like approaching. I just felt like theres no need to approach.... i hate that feeling. Seems like i can only approach when im a horny dog.
Try to stop wanking? Will make you fucking horny and give you that drive you talk about.
Hungry Wolf wrote: Also im getting eye contact like all the time. Im at the point where i think its meaningless. Maybe they are just looking because im also looking at them. Maybe they are looking for some other reason... but it makes me think that theres no way so many girls are giving me eye contact simply because they find me attractive. But i havent still approached a single girl that gave me EC. When they walk towards me and we pass each other i just find it very difficult to turn around and run for her.
Are they holding EC for a longer period or just a quick glance? Nonetheless, I have the same problem. I have a hard time to run after a girl who just gave me hard EC and this is exactly the reason to just stop looking of EC and approach everyone you find attractive. I think Rousseau have fucked more girls that didn't give EC than girls that did.
Basically, allow yourself to approach girls that doesn't give you EC
Hungry Wolf wrote: But thats not the point. The thing is im not sure if its because im not good enough so im only attracting those average girls or its that there are also some hot girls that are interested in me but are just trying so hard to hide it.
Remember, hot girls usually have more opportunities when it comes to men and might even be used to attention. No big deal, approach them and you just showed them that you're not an average guy who just dreams of talking to her but actually have the balls to do it - puts you in the 10%.
Hungry Wolf wrote: Also should expose myself to more and more "difficult" situations. Like girls in groups, girl with parents, with guy etc.
They're really not more difficult, you just think they are. Some of my best results came from girls with their moms or friends. I think it's because it can be scary for a girl to be alone when a guy approaches them, but when they're in a social group it makes them feel safe.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Thanks boys for writing on my log really means a lot.
Btw no wonder why im not so interested in girls lately, my prolactin was sky high from the NPP.
Will drop it from my cycle and since its a quick ester i think libido will be back very soon.
Wasnt even paying attention on my libido... but its def shit these days compared to how horny i was until just recently.
I dont watch porn and dont fap.
Just wanted to congratulate you for approaching. I just started approaching too recently. I think as long as you keep approaching, your results will be good sooner or later. Your looks are good for sure.
Definitely move to a bigger city like everybody else said (Belgrade or somewhere else if you want--if you've always wanted to change countries now is the time to do it) but still approach in the meantime. Hopefully by the time you move your anxiety will be gone.
Yes that's the thing Mike C also said and i think its one of his most valuable videos where he talk that to key to success especially in this thing is to be consistent not to work hard.
I really took it to heart and try to put me out there as much as possible and keep the momentum going.
I was out today for a bit but noticed that im just not that interested in girls in general. But as soon as i took the blood work paper and saw how high my prolactin was i realized that my libido is complete shit these days.
Theres just no more hunger for pussy and life that i had just until recently. But it will come back quickly as i said.
Well anyway here is a little story from the gym today.
I saw this new hot girl for the first time.
And here is the interaction:
Me: Whats up? Whats your name.
Her: What kind of question is that? (in the most disgusting bitchy tone of voice)
Me: I just noticed you're new here so wanted to meet you.
She: So you tell it to everyone new?
Me: You are really some unfriendly person?
Her: No but im just here to workout not to talk to people.
Me: Wow i see you are really serious about it! You must be working out for like a month right? (me being sarcastic)
Her: Is that an insult to my look?
Me: No its a compliment! (still being sarcastic)
Then she tried to tell something but i just turned my back and left as im talking to some trash....
This was the bitchiest girl ive ever met in my life. I noticed that girls from small towns that are above average are super bitchy and rude.
Then this most annoying guy in the gym thats always there because cleaning and putting weights in its place came. This guy was on heroin and is super skinny.
And she was asking him for advice about gym. He was her personal trainer and she was friendly to him.
I think she wanted to make me jealous not sure. I just hope he fucks her so she can get hepatitis or some shit...
Heroin addict personal trainer to a hot bitch? Is this real life?
Ive never met such a disgusting person in my entire life....
Also im super tanned and also dehydrated now the bloat from my body and when i look in the mirror i look like a fucking statue.
Veiny, tanned, muscular, perfect posture... but im at the point where i think theres no difference in looking good or looking like complete shit when i see what happens in real world.
Hungry Wolf wrote: Veiny, tanned, muscular, perfect posture... but im at the point where i think theres no difference in looking good or looking like complete shit when i see what happens in real world.
That's your mind fucking with you right there mate. Obviously looking good is just one part of the equation. It doesn't mean just because you look great you'll suddenly start getting laid left and right. Just look at all the virgins on bb.com. I just befriended this guy who's beta as fuck, much worse looking than me yet the chicks he's banged are far beyond what I've ever gotten. Instead of getting discouraged, I aim to learn from him all I can and incorporate it into my own skillset.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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