TOPIC: End of 2015 Help Idan to get laid last stand thread

You didn't answer how many people where in your city. This is very important.

Hey Idan,

Glad to see that you are still at it.

If I were you, I would ask the girl out on the spot. It will save you a lot of time.

Always assume the sale.

Your mindset should be:
Lets fuck now, if not now then we fuck at a later time.

Figure out the girl's logistic.

1) If she has some time now. You should be thinking of ways to get her to a spot to fuck:
"I'll make you a coffee/drink"

2) If she's not free at the moment, see if she's down to chill later in the day:
"Hey lets grab a drink tonight around here at 8."

3) If she's not free the same day you met her ask:
"When are you free?"



I'm curious to know if you have any other interests in life besides sleeping with hot girls.

I'm saying this because you can't revolve your life around girls because it's going to get you burnt out and maybe even bitter at girls if you don't see the results that you want.

From my experience, girls are really interested in me when I'm busy focusing in other aspects of my life.

Getting girls is a part of my lifestyle now and my happiness isn't dependent on girls.

Good luck mate

@ Rosseau

Thank you my friend - this is exactly the kind of answer I was hoping for. Your schedule is similar to how my mine has been lately:

Wake up - 8-9 hours on number 1 goal
1 hour in town to get shopping - approaches in transit
1 hour in gym - i never approach in the gym because all the girls have boyfriends and I am there to work out anyway
Approaches in transit back home.
Now that I think about it, if I can squeeze in 10 approaches a day that should make 300 a month.

@Leopard

1.7 million in a large capital city in Eastern Europe

@ Mr. Q

Mr. Q, what you have just touched upon just now is PURE GOLD. It is so bang on I can't express it enough. When I was approaching all day I felt like a total loser because at that point I had no other interests (well I did but I wasn't partaking). As well as suffering from introvert serotonin burn-out just about every other part of my life staled also.

Now a days I like think I have a rich life. This is critical because when you spend 183 days a year on a ship your perception of time is such that you feel like life passes by at lightning speed and you feel so compelled to live life to the fullest when you are on dry land. I go to the gym or practice martial arts and yoga every day, I am learning a slavic language as my primary goal, I love improving my cooking skills, I try to take advantage of living in Eastern Europe and take a city break to a different city every fortnight. I did move to this new city/country last year and i don't actually have any friends or social life here at all but I've managed to keep myself busy to distract myself from this reality and make it feel like I have a good, busy lifestyle.

I have really started to view bedding girls as part of my lifestyle just like the gym. I use the 'transit' to the gym and shops where I go every day to fit in the day approaches and it even feels more natural somehow. Right now I am moving apartment and I am trying to find a good studio apartment right in the city center next to the malls, clubs, bars and everything. My mindset has been

'Without fail approach up to 10 girls every single day until you get at least 2 phone numbers and do it every day.; This should result in 60 new numbers a month which should lead to at least one bang.'

I am thinking maybe your advice is what I should take now. Up to now all of my approaches were indirect 'directions to a pet shop or printing shop' which has lead to getting numbers but long, painful text conversations rather than dates.

Hmmm apparently Christmas is coming. That must be why the Ukrainian babe, tomorrow and Wednesday's dates flaked on me within the space of 2 hours.

Pfff, this is very painful to read.

You are talking to people that don't like you. You have to find the kind of people that likes you.

You should try other countries. Start with putting your location on tinder in another country, like every girl and see how many matches you get. Less than 30 matches in the first 24 hours is not worth it.

Idan,

Hope all has been well. Have you applied the feedback I gave you from that skype call we did way back? Letting girls know you sometimes act standoffish/arrogant when your nervous?

Either way, it has been 2 years of you posting on GLL without result. Your in good shape, so your looks aren't the problem. You have decent style, so thats not the problem either. Your clearly doing things wrong as you hit on these girls there is no other explanation. Additionally we have been unable to diagnose and fix these problems via internet forum. I would encourage you to book a trip and work with me, its time to take this seriously and get the girl problems handled.

@ Leopard

Just for shits and giggles I tried Minsk in Belarus. We'll see how many matches I get...
Sounds like you are on to something. Ultimately I left my own country primarily so I could go somewhere where I'd have better results with the girls. I may very well need to do that again. I recently broke up with my girlfriend (who was my first and only bang) whom I ended up becoming extremely close with. Needless to say I am in a very bad way emotionally and the constant rejection and flaking is wearing me down quite a lot.

@ FS Ronin.

Where in the US do you stay FS? I'm actually planning a trip to Florida in January - don't know if you chill anywhere near there? Yeah I've made a conscientious attempt to apply what you said. Out of the 220 girls I approached (I realise that number is fuck all I know) I got 49 contacts but these were all from indirect, non aggressive game which I believe is why I get so many flakes but who knows. Likely there is tons of shit I am doing wrong.

The girl who flaked on me on Sunday hit me up with a message asking if I can meet tomorrow night. I told her the bar and the time. She said she prefers to go for coffee on a first meet-up. Woopdedoo

I travel A LOT.

I have experience hitting on girls and friends/family in the Tampa, FL area, so I can do training there if your interested.

I have a sale going right now (jan/feb) with big discounts if you come to Providence, RI... Thats the closest city to me ATM.

Pmed you FS-Ronin

Right now I am trying to decide if i want to meet this girl for tea - she is essentially telling me she is not dtf if she doesn't want to drink.

So far no dates arranged yet after all those flakes. The remaining girls, I am still waiting for replies.

98% of my lays from day game and online come after tea or coffee, so the fact that she doesnt want to drink means nothing.

Go on a date with her man. Kiss her, invite her over for a movie, and have sex with her.

OK I will do it - nothing to lose right?

Can you describe to me how a typical coffee date you have looks from start to sex? It might just make all the difference when I go on one today although I won't have any expectations.