TOPIC: How Being a Bouncer Blew Up my Sex Life [CONTAINS EXPLICIT MATERIAL]

Hey everyone, I'm tiphat.

For those of you who don't know me, I used to be a regular member here, but have been pretty busy recently. I'm 21 years old, 6'7", 250 pounds, a former D-1 football player and current competitive boxer. I've also had sex with over 200 women. Now, some of you may be shaking your head in disbelief at this point, but I always try to provide tangible proof of what I can.

here's me


Here's some of the things I'm known for




Now that that's out of the way, before I returned to school this year (finally!) I spent 10 months living and working in Florida. The blonde bombshell in the video was my "girlfriend" during my later time there. I met her thanks to bouncing. In fact, I met the majority of the girls that I slept with in Florida thanks to a combination of Tinder (which I've written a brief guide to that I plan on updating and elaborating on soon) and bouncing. I'm lucky. My size made me stand out and I got in with the head of security at a local college bar in Florida. Being a bouncer changes everything for you. Women realize that while you're working you're not able to hit on them like every other guy in the bar. This made women go out of their way to talk to me. I met girls in the bar and had sex with them the same night after my shift.

It wasn't just while I was working either. Because I worked at several local college bars (I was able to market myself after getting the first one), I was a familiar face. I became acquainted with the party crowd from the school and girls began to wonder who I was when I would walk into a bar off duty and have a group of guys high fiving me and offering to buy me shots. I was spoiled. Being a bouncer put me in a position of power which is another thing that was sexy to the girls I was with. If I was interested in a girl, all I had to do was smile and wave her over. We would chat and then I'd either arrange plans to "hangout" after my shift or I'd get her number and we'd hangout another time.

To prospective doormen, here's my advice:

Know your state laws. I was working at 20 years old as a bouncer in Florida. Florida generally seems to be pretty lax on a lot of things and working security was no exception. I was not licensed, nor was I part of a security company like some states and locations will require. I simply was hired on as an employee of the bar.

Talk to the head of security. This is exactly how I got my first job. I was friendly and approached the head of security when he wasn't too busy. I showed that I had some knowledge about bouncing when I asked if you had to be licensed to work at the door. He ended up offering me an opportunity almost immediately. He gave me his number and I called the next day and had a job by the end of the week.

Build your reputation. The bar I worked at was known for fights and rowdy college students. I was a no nonsense kind of guy at first and respectfully but forcefully regulated when need be. This made me well known to other management and heads of security at other bars so that I could work other nights. However, I got sloppy and spent too much time socializing eventually. This ended in me being let go from the first job I got. Luckily, I had made friends with a former manager and he offered me an almost full time job at his new, higher class bar, which is where I met my would be girlfriend.

Speaking of upper class bars, I would say avoid working those if you're looking to be a bouncer at a young age. Shoot for college bars. They tend to be more lax about the rules for bouncers and you'll be exposed to hotter, younger girls. Just beware of getting too carried away while you're on the job or you might get fired like I did. Now, I still got laid a lot when I moved from the college bar scene to the more adult establishment, but it wasn't quite as easy.

If you really want to maximize your opportunities, observe who the popular regulars are at the bar once you have the job. I would see a group of guys come in all the time who were always surrounded by the hottest girls in the place. I casually started conversation with them one day and eventually got invited to party with them. Remember, you are in a position of power. When you reach out to people, they will naturally be receptive. It is a reciprocal relationship after all. Being friends with a bouncer gives them benefits as well. Anyway, I hope this was somewhat insightful or interesting. Feel free to PM me any questions or comment below. I plan on being more active again, especially during the upcoming break from school

Welcome back tiphat. Just a quick question - do you have an approximate date as to when the tinder guide will be out?

tiphat wrote: Speaking of upper class bars, I would say avoid working those if you're looking to be a bouncer at a young age. Shoot for college bars. They tend to be more lax about the rules for bouncers and you'll be exposed to hotter, younger girls. Just beware of getting too carried away while you're on the job or you might get fired like I did. Now, I still got laid a lot when I moved from the college bar scene to the more adult establishment, but it wasn't quite as easy.

Agree with this. I work a club on the main strip downtown as well as an upper class bar. I definitely meet more young girls around my age bracket that were dtf at the club than I do at the upper class bar where it is more older dudes with money and older girls (late twenties ranging to thirties) who are more in a gold digger mentality.

Make more money at the upper class place especially with tips so I preferred working there, but definitely did better with women at the club. I think I have legit only tagged 1 19 year old from the upper class bar and it was a very rare instance that a girl that young was there, at the club though you literally have young chicks hanging off your nuts randomly certain nights making it stupid easy for you to do a bathroom pull or hit them up later in the night when you're off shift.

I can't give any definite date but some time in December for sure

Thats sick man.

Im interested in getting involved with the night scene but problem is that Im 5'8", so I think my chance of being a bouncer is non-existent.

Would a job as a promoter be equally as good?

Any tips or comments would be appreciated.


Edit: By the way, thanks a lot for uploading this info. Its been known that the bouncer job gets a man mad pussy, but its great to see a member of the forum CONFIRM it for us, rather than always going by speculation

awesome man, can't wait for that tinder update

I definitely think being a promoter can help. You'll be able to interact a lot more that way too. Most of the promoters I knew didn't seem to be pulling as much though

Fuck bro.. I'm 28 and haven't seen no where near that much tail... Your lucky to have that height dude.... My father is 6'5".. I turned out to be 5'10, which sucks balls... To bad we all can't be bouncers.

King T wrote: Fuck bro.. I'm 28 and haven't seen no where near that much tail... Your lucky to have that height dud.... My father is 6'5".. I turned out to be 5'10, which sucks balls... To bad bad we all can't be bouncers.

Lets not turn this thread into a pity party man.

Im 5'8" and ive banged 49 girls at 23.

Play to your strengths and minimize your weaknesses.

Yes I'm lucky. I have a few noticeable genetic advantages. You may never have sex with as many women as I have. But I'm not here to compete with you. I'm here to learn from others and hope others can learn from my experiences too.

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The promoters at my work know a stupid amount of hot women and could easily tag a lot of them if they wanted. They are extremely social though and very good smooth talkers. As a bouncer I just stand there and can do just as well with a quarter of the effort and social skills because I'm not running around frantically all night trying to setup huge groups with VIP tables and dealing with giant groups trying to get hooked up every two seconds.

Yes you can do very well as a promoter, but you also will have a much bigger workload than a bouncer IMO. Half the night I just stand around so I actually get the opportunity to chat for a while with girls I'm interested in, while promoters will only have a few seconds to talk, then have to run and go do something else a lot of the time.