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1.How do you approach a girl that is moving towards you?
A lot of times i connect eyes with a girl but the thing is we pass each other pretty quick and the situation goes away in a matter of seconds... i dont know what to do, just turn around and run for the girl that already passed me? Is there a general rule or something how it should be done? Im just anxious about those angels and shit... also im afraid to freak out girls running for them from behind.
I only have approached girls that are staying in place and not moving... but when i see them moving i kinda got the mental block in my head "ok shes moving... its harder" .
2.How good your place must be so you can bring your girl home? Because my fathers place is not that good... hes really messy and i really gave up on cleaning for him... my room is good and clean though, but not the rest of the house so much.
I will move, im looking for an apartment but i might have a girl here too.
I'm not a "player"; my lay count is actually low compared to most guys on here (10), but I can tell you from experience, just saying "excuse me ma'am", then just saying whatever you want after that works really well.
I haven't refined my approaches yet, but what I've been trying to do lately is that when I see a cute girl coming towards me, I slow down. This way she has more time to notice me. While I look at her(trying to make eye contact) I say Hi( she notices me), so even if I turn back to talk to her, she's already away of me.
Another thing you could do, is to find spot with traffic, and check the girls that pass by. They'll have even more time to notice you. If you smile and say hi to them, they're more willing to reciprocate...why? because if the girl knows she can leave( thus feeling safe) she'll be more expressive. When girls walk, and most of them walk really fast, they are on guard.But if they walk by you, they'll feel like you won't chase them and be more open to reciprocate your eye contact/smile, or saying Hi.
You could also walk by bars that have tables by the window, smile/wink at girls, they'll reciprocate more that way, because they feel safe being behind the glass. You can then go in and talk to them(I've done it only a couple of times)
As far as house... if cleanliness is a mental block for you, then go ahead and clean at least the area of the house that leads to your room. Personally I'd self sabotage myself and cause my AA to increase when, I didn't have my car or apartment cleaned.
Having excuses to bring her home also help, something to show or share with her. Having special drinks has worked for me. Or walking by your apt if your are trying to get her close to your place, point it out where your apt is, go somewhere close, then walk back and invite her to your place.
I just let her pass me, wait a few seconds and then run around her, standing right in front of her and stopping her in her path. Saying something like "hey, this is really random, but you just walked passed me and i thought you were really cute and wanted to say hi". Most girls get happy and its easy to start a conversation.
Don't startle her or turn in in front of her with to short distance, she need a little time to notice you and stop.
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