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I have seen this many times in GLL Posts, if you are better looking OR COOLER .. without the girl knowing your background life/information to see your status.. Is there a way in which just by talking to the girl , she will know that you are cooler than her?
I Recently joined lets say 2 main social circles and i will meeting every one in the circle.. I want to be perceived as the Guy who is cooler than most people! .. how does a girl find out if you are cooler than her? is it looks? the way you talk or even saying crazy/ballsy/cocky stuff when you are making small talk?
I know this doesnt matter in regards to what GLL teaches but I am really curious and interested and I must find out how a girl knows if you are cooler then her just by talking to her,
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
You generally portray having a cool life. When you talk to girls you casually mention cool parties, clubs, drugs, music, clothes stores, apps, whatever is in, not because you read up on this stuff and then purposely say it in conversations but because that's your life, that's what you embody, that's what you talk about. That is how a gal feels that you're cooler. Maybe you regularly get into this real exclusive club, know a regular event that she hasn't heard of, or live in the trendiest neighborhood in town with the most nice bars and cafes where you sometimes chill with your friends. You catch trends before she does..
Social skills of course. When girls think you're cooler they'll comment on you knowing everybody or calling you Mr popular or something. Style is part of being cool and above all the general super chillness that comes with knowing you got your act together, you're going somewhere and people feel you.
When you're in Europe, cool city trips and festivals in summer are important for the cool people. Less important is having a lot of facebook/instagram/snapchat action going on. But typically the guys that are perceived as even cooler than them by cool girls, are effortlessly seen in a lot of pics because they have media hipster girls as friends that take a lot of pics.
Hard to explain, basically a girl thinks you're cooler when you just effortlessly blend in with all people that are in and they like you
Hipsters are by definition what's cool in today's landscape. Just a fact
If you have better style than a girl, it usually means you're more cool
If know a lot about music/read music blogs, know a lot about good foods (vegan shit, umami etc) and culture in general than you are probably more cool than most girls
Other than that, it's life experiences. It's pretty obvious Chris has more life experience/is more interesting than most girls he talks to
Other than that, it's abundance mentality; if you care less about the situation than the girl, you are more cool
It's not about acting like a side show caricature of a douchebag
So talk about trending stuff? topics as in new songs.. crazy weekend events (even if i made them up ) .. and seem like a positive person (no hippie) with good style.. this is what i got out of the replies on this thread. Am I on the right track?
Have you never watched a movie? Do you have aspergers?
I'm not going to go into how to act if you're cool, because that would be acting
LOOK GOOD. Go to urban outfitters or something and ask someone with that works there to dress you. Go to metropolitan areas and hipster watch
HAVE TASTE AND BE CULTURED. Read Pitchfork religiously and listen to all the music. Notice people on tour and remember the dates near you. Remember the venues you go to that seem to especially have cool people in attendance. Go back. Talk to the cool people. Read the New Internationalist religiously, know what's going on in the world. Look for activist meetups near you. Remember the meetups where there is an abundance of cool people. Go back. Get to know the cool people. Yelp 'vegan', learn veganism, become a casual vegan. Watch Cowspiracy on Netflix, learn how eating McDonald's and drinking milk means you hate Earth
Once you find yourself able to pick out the posers and thinking that Pitchfork is too mainstream, you'll know you're on the right track
LOL let me take you inside the life of a hot girl in her 20s
-Wasting time on social media (instagram, pintrest, twitter, Facebook)
-Playing games on their phone
-Working a job they hate to barley get by
-spending money they don't have on clothes and shoes they don't need
-spending more time on pintrest or instagram
So let me ask you this.... how much harder is it to be cooler than that? Seriously...
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