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Note: I'm being a bit of an asshole today. I really don't like guys like the OP recently. Lol, not that I'm any better. It's probably flavor of the month for me. Being angry at crazies.
Edit: An interesting self test for the OP (or anyone else) is if you can make yourself believe "Rape touching is okay" and "I'm doing the world a favor with this. This benefits me and otger people" and then feel free of fear of punishment then it was not the cops you were afraid of but your own beliefs which were knocking on the door telling you to cool it down.
Leave those beliefs behind, bro, and rape-rape-rape-TOUCH.
Yeah I was cool with the cops. They thought it was fucking hilarious. The first one to show up was a girl, and when I told her what I was asking people she almost busted out laughing. Unfortunately they still had to tell me to get off campus and write me a warning. All in all I think they were really amused.
Count: 111 (30 from cold approach since finding GLL)
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Let's not start needlessly flaming. Any criticism given should be constructive
That said, OP has proven himself- as far as his time on this forum goes- to be a self-admitted misogynist with a possible dependence on phenibut. He regularly asks for advice and then aggressively insults people who don't give him an ego handjob. He's expressed difficulties with working with others in the past, and was fired (or warned, don't remember) for being insultingly rude with a customer at a customer service position. And he thinks people love sociopaths
Badideabear: I'm not surprised that happened to you. Here in Korea, I have friends who have experienced the same thing. White knights everywhere. But there is a difference between being a well-adjusted, reasonably emotionally healthy dude who understands basic social rules and getting negative attention from jealous losers, and a maladjusted guy like OP
I'm sure i'm not the first one to say it, but he needs to make his emotional/mental health his #1 priority right now. He is clearly in no position to be pursuing a GLL lifestyle. I'd suggest he be banned for bringing his toxic shit in here, but i feel bad for him. The dude needs help
Every goddamn day. Get in there.
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Basically, you live in your head. You lack social insight. You come off as a loner or sociopath(to various degrees).
I'm not saying you aren't 100% correct, but I want people to be careful with self-diagnosing themselves.
The symptoms you describe (loner or feel like one, live in your head, introverted-you didn't say that one though) is 25-50% of males.
one of the biggest problems with PUA is that they convince guys that they have all these problems (it's a sales method), which they don't have. it worked on me, I thought I had all these issues and my biggest problem was I needed to stop trying to solve problems I didn't have.
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I only had problems getting laid early on. For me, I couldn't flirt worth a damn and the girls would lose interest. The married ones on the other hand....
For me, I realized my predicament initially when comparing myself to the natural that was my best friend. Usually it was the girls who took the lead and asked me out etc etc. I always found it weird that I could not pick up on their interests.
Asperger's runs in my family . That's all I am going to write.
OP will figure it out. There's not only one approach to pickup. If that is his avatar, maybe he could look less like a skinhead and more like George Michaels or that English soccer player. Change up the vibe or something.
EDIT: I even had issues with the married ones. I could not get my words out, carry a conversation, or pick up on the little things. Thank God I was a bit attractive.
I can definitely relate to your anger. I get pretty angry a lot to. Not as much lately, though because I've been getting laid a lot. I can definitely tell you that pussy is the cure for a man's anger towards women. In 2014, I was getting flaked on A LOT, and some days I would literally just walk around with a cloud over my head all day. I had so much anger towards women, feminists, men's issues, and myself.
It helps me to take a step back and realize that this bitter anger comes from a place of being wounded, and it comes from a place of being a man who isn't getting what he wants in life. To be an angry person because of not getting what you want is really pathetic. I recognized this in myself, and I hated that about myself. I knew that the only reason I was mad at women is that I wasn't getting what I wanted from women.
I knew that whenever I started bitching to myself about how men get falsely accused of rape, it was a result of me not getting what I wanted that day. Maybe I got rejected 10 times in a row that day, or maybe I got flaked on. Last night I got laid, and I can definitely tell you that while I had her great body beneath me the last thing I had on my mind was men's right's issues. After I get what I want from women, how peculiar is it that I suddenly love all of them?
The truth is that if this sort of thing is happening to you repeatedly, it's you, not the girls or the feminists. I approach in between 3-15 girls every single day, and I've only had 1 girl get super angry at me. I touched her hand and she flipped out at me. To be fair though, my game was weak. I should've stopped directly in front of her, rather than touching her hand as she walked by.
For you, I think the next step forward is really coming to terms with your anger man. I look at my anger as a positive. If your anger runs super deep, it means that you have a huge capacity for passion. I look at it that way, and it makes me feel better.
1) Come to terms with the fact that you're negative, and this negativity comes from a place of bitterness
2) STOP READING RED PILL BULLSHIT LIKE RETURN OF KINGS.I used to read this shit EVERY SINGLE DAY, and it poisoned my mind. Every time I have sex with a new girl, I feel a little bit of this bitterness leaving me. It feels good.
3) Approach girls, and respect them as human beings not just as cum receptacles. This respect will come after you've banged 20 girls in a years time. Youll meet cool girls that make you realize that girls arent pieces of shit. Be sensitive to their experience. Avoid aggressive screening, until you've mastered 'basic guy game'
Lastly, I understand your frustration with a lot of the guys who post on this forum. 60% of the guys who post here are virgins (Chris actually did a poll and it's true). With that being said, it doesn't mean their advice to you isn't valid. Maybe not their advice regarding how to get women, but their advice regarding your attitude and the way you lash out at others.
I think this will be my last post until I get laid again.
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