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Unless your 5 minutes away from your apartment, theres no need to go further than high fives and hand shakes during the day....
Barely ever do girls get approached during the day. A high five/handshake will get the job done i promise. Age: 21
Lays : 33 daytime approaches: 34 Cities: Cleveland, OH (until August 20) Nashville, TN (August 20 - may 10 -one more year undergrad) Chicago, IL (hometown) Scottsdale, AZ (2nd home) Scottsdale AZ |
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@ Phenibut God:
1. you don't have balls, you have phenibut. I know the difference. 2. Scotty is not in jail because he has all the emotional intelligence you apparently lack. 25yo, 5'11", 77kg/170lbs, 9% bf
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I think we may be seeing part of the deeper problem manifesting here.
Perhaps OP, you are genuinely not aware of this, or perhaps you are being dishonest with yourself and / or with us; however: It is clear, that from the manner in which you are pushing back against persons, whom are merely trying to help... indeed, whom you yourself asked for help. That your social graces, and calibration clearly need... work. You seem really angry, and this is not a judgement, as it sometimes takes one to know one, an I used to be pretty pissed off myself. I agree wholeheartedly with some of the previous comments, stating that various levels of this lifestyle and the lifestyle itself are not for everyone. But perhaps taking a step back, for introspection and assessment, is what is really required. Before resigning or pressing forward. Keep it real, Vincent P.s. Not saying yay or nay to your social P.E.D., but try coming off of it for a while. Get to know your own abilities (without it) faster, and see what you are perhaps missing in your current... mindset. I only recommend this because you got kinda snippy up there in its defense (which in my book can be a red flag). End the end, this is ultimately YOUR business, but don't you want to explore, every possible avenue that may help you resolve this? ![]() |
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Where exactly do you think you are? The BB.com misc? Are you here to better yourself or to pick internet fights? "People love sociopaths" Is that why you're creeping girls out, getting banned from public locations, being threatened with arrest, and having problems working with others at your job? Hell, this is the 2nd thread of yours I've seen where you ask for help and then raqe-quit when you aren't told what you want to hear. And that's excluding the thread where you went full misogynist. All of these problems should speak worlds to you that you have an internal problem you need to fix. You read all these comments as personal attacks on you, but the majority of the guys here are only trying to help. One doesn't need a degree in psychology to see you have major ego and anger problems. Instead of working on girls, you should be working on those first. Seriously, if you actually think "people love sociopaths", you have some MAJOR goddamn issues The problem is not "everyone else" or the girls you're talking to or society. The problem is your perspective. And until you realize that, you'll continue having these problems. Every goddamn day. Get in there.
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at the end of the day 'worrying about X when I'm approaching girls' is approach anxiety.
you are encouraged to just beat this first, with either the AA program or general "let's get a drink tonight" basic guy thing. it wasn't 2.5years(?) until I could do this screening thing Please no Private Messages. Post thread on with the word "Chris" or "GLL" in it if you absolutely need to get my input. Thank you for your understanding.
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one last tip from my side (in case you’re reading this nonetheless):
go join a boxing/MMA gym and do some full-contact sparring with the most skilled and toughest guys there. doing this helped me personally a lot to reconsider the delusional ego I had once created for myself, and especially to get back in touch with my fears. sparring against guys who could knock/choke me fucking dead within half a minute always is a most humbling experience for me. physically forcing yourself onto little girls really doesn’t require much balls. you seem to be in good shape! I’m sure you’d enjoy martial arts. fear is something you should be grateful for because it is the most crucial tool you have to improve yourself. if your way of dealing with fear is to take phenibut, ask yourself: is that courage? is courage "acting without fear", or "acting in spite of fear"? 25yo, 5'11", 77kg/170lbs, 9% bf
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Never, and I state NEVER, have I ever approached someone in a friendly manner and almost get arrested!!! The worst that every happened was the girl blew me off, ignored me and once in blue moon I got told off. But 95% of the time, the response was very positive, even when there was clearly no interest on her part. Most find it as compliment, even if they are not interested in you and most will be friendly (or at least won't act negatively), because it's not normal human nature to not to be friendly.
It is not normal to be immediately mean, ugly or rude to someone that is generally nice unless that person is acting weird or completely inappropriate, so maybe you are confusing nice and touchy, with being an ass hole and/or a groper? There is a difference between touching and groping, and I assume you know the difference, but maybe not? Groping will indeed get you arrested at some point if you are not careful! Particularly with younger girls that may not have a lot of sexual experience, which out in the day is a very real possibility. Never grope or touch a girl in a sexual way until you have at least had a decent conversation first if you are doing daylight game. That should be common sense! Try being nice, and maybe shaking their hand and holding it as long as possible, or just a light touch on the shoulder or arm once you have some rapport going with the girl. Don't just walk up and start trying to be sexual with them in day game. Why would anyone want to have you arrested for being friendly and nice? Arresting someone for being friendly is not normal, so something not normal is happening on your approach if you are getting that kind of response. |
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+1 That is some fucking insightful shit right there Every goddamn day. Get in there.
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I'd like to note that this conversation is a great example of a guy that won't and can't get girls.
Drugs Super Persistence Unable to even talk to a girl without being banned Defensive Unwilling to change The best ideas this guy had got him--- NOTHING Chris is being nice when he's passively suggesting this is not for the OP. I'd say get out now. You are a fucking embarrassment. You don't belong here. This isn't a free world. People kill people who are dicks in real life. You can't get laid, OP. You never could. It's who you are. You stink like shit. I can smell it online. Bet you the girls can smell it too. If you are this guy in real life and reading and agreeing with his words, I ask you to quit the forum, please. This is not for you. I don't want people like you in this world. At least, If you are going to do this, have some fucking respect. For everyone. Including those here. You don't belong. You do not belong. You are a pussy who gropes people. You are what makes this world sucky. Groper. Nothing more. Not getting laid. That's all there is for you. Back to video games. Your best thinking got you banned, bro. Your best thinking is all you've expressed. No luck. No love. No chance. Later. |
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Also, being afraid of cops means YOU ARENT DOING THIS RIGHT.
You are harassing people. That's why you are pissing your pants. If the girls liked you then you wouldn't be afraid. You are afraid because what you are doing is wrong. You are molesting little girls. That's gross. Screening isn't grabbing girls and dragging them to your car. It's finding a girl that likes you. In what fucking world does dragging little girls into alleys mean screaming. Sociopaths do that too. I initially disagreed with Chris that aggressive game can't be taught. It's not because it can't but people are too dumb to apply it responsibly. You clarified that for all. Also, stop dragging Scotty's name through the mud, bro. Stop believing the myths and go game. You'll soon realize that without the focus on changing yourself that anything he talks about can't be done (the big stuff). Be a better man or fuck off. |
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I have news for you guys, getting the cops called on you doesn't mean you're doing it wrong, and it doesn't mean you're groping people. I was doing the "Do you know how to get to Sesame street?" drill on a college campus and I got the police called on me. I didn't have any negative reactions, I only asked like 3 girls and they all thought it was cute. However someone who was WATCHING saw me go up to multiple girls and called the cops because that is the world we live in now. White knights everywhere. If you watch Chris and Scotty's infields, THERE IS A VIDEO WHERE THEY BAIL OUT OF A MALL BECAUSE SOMEONE WAS CALLING THE POLICE.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
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