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September 25th
31/36 6approaches and 4 numbers I managed to wake up early again today. I'll probably take some phenibut today. I dont think im strong enough to not drink around those guys. Im pretty sure that you have to be more aggressive and confident to get the really hot girls. Ive noticed that some really hot women ignore me, or dont really give me the time of day. I have to be more aggressive with the really hot girls, like not taking no for an answer. I have to persist and make them talk to me. Im gonna scope out a place to fuck today, before my date at 5:30. Im sick of losing lays on the first date due to shitty logistics. A lot of these girls could be fucked on the first date, and i know it. A girl that rubs your cock is open to sucking it, and if shes open to sucking it shell probably fuck you. I think the 5:30 date is bailing. That would be fine though, cause ive got another lined up. I talked to another old date today at the bus stop. Im realizing that its pretty silly not to talk to these girls. I can just make friends with them. Today, a girl told me that i always seem really happy. I like being told that a lot. Im heading back to the school now to hit the gym before i go on my dates. Im probably gonna try to push the 2nd one a bit further into the night so i can possibly fuck 2 girls tonight. Man the one date is at 6:00 and the other at 7:30. Its probably going to be impossible to fuck the 1st one. I kindahave a bad feeling about this. Both of these chicks are probably gonna bail or something. I got 2 more numbers and the one girl so fucking hot. She invited me to a party tonight on campus. She was so fine. I got another number outside the gym. She was cute, not sexy and she had nice big tits. I just had the date with the 18-year old. She was beyond non-DTF. I still dont get screening at all. Im still going on so many damn dates and it bugs me |
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rousseau, do you hit up chicks that you went out with before, that maybe didn't go anywhere? like sending a "hey, how's it going you" or "yo, long time no see. you just crossed my mind"
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@manly, sometimes i do. I never used to.
September 26th 31/36 I feel pretty deflated. I went on 2 dates back to back yesterday and still didnt get laid. Im honestly very sick and tired of dates. Im sick to death of them. Im sick of not getting laid. Its completely clear that im not screening these girls at all. When i open with telling them youre "sexy" and touching them, i feel like it doesnt even screen them. They respond positively and then we hang out and then they dont put out. Last night, the hot latina came over and she was looking so SEXY and she wouldnt fuck. She wouldnt even rub my dick. She would make out and let me touch her everywhere, but she absolutely would not fuck. Man, im so frustrated right now. I had so many close calls this month but i didnt get laid at all. Instead i just got fucked around. Im sick of this. Im too nice or something, why dont they have sex with me on the first date? |
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Bro,I should not be the one giving advice to you but I will KJ for a moment here:
You are going through a dry phase.Think of this as a moment to step back from your approaches and reflect on them. Maybe you need to do the week 7 and week 8 drills again..When stuck in a rut, go to the basics as Mike says.. Just hang on,I know the feeling.. Bang after GLL 28/20
Total bangs 32/100 Team Bald & Beard. "I will be in top the 5% of men,who get laid 2-3 times a week,with different girls"
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Patience, friend... Grim Reaper, Chris, Hollow, they all went a month plus without getting laid after already becoming advanced and you are still in your first year... There's nothing wrong with you, just bad luck or factors that are currently out of your control
You already beat your goal early and you will most likely hit 20 or even 25 this year without sacrificing quality
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Thanks for the encouragement guys, it really
makes me feel better, for real. I take this shit so seriously and personally sometimes. |
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Me too but we gotta be reminded that its just a game and when its all said and done there will be nothing lost (only gains)
By the way don't feel like you have to do the sexy thing, only if you want to... It worked really well for me in July but not so much right now ( looking back I'm thinking that all those girls were just available and anything would've worked, but then again I'm not really sure ) Sometimes I wonder if the sexy thing is scaring away potential notches but then it again I think the only truly important factor is taking action |
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Ya, personally I like saying that theyre sexy for my social freedom and confidence. But maybe, there is a better way to screen them like saying that "im not looking for a relationship" or something.
I think saying theyre sexy maybe does scare them away a little bit. I get a lot of non-responders when I text them later. I always say to myself that its better that way because im scaring away girls who are non-DTF. But i think maybe we do scare DTF girls with the "sexy" thing, because some girls may find it really crude for a guy to say initially. |
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September 26th
31/36 3 approaches today and 1 number. I freaked one girl the fuck out LOL. Bad reactions are mostly a reflection of the girls state of mind rather than anything that you do (within reason) I have another date tonight at 8:30. Im not that excited for it because the girl is kinda average. Shes a 7. When girls are down to fuck, im going to be more aggressive from now on. Im going to arrive to each date beforehand and scope out a place to fuck that way i can fuck them if theyre down if my logistics are bad. Im sick of losing out on notches and its not going to happen again. Im also going to push way harder for the close when I have girls in my bed. Im going to do every thing I can to turn them on so they fuck me. I texted the asian girl i almost fucked on tuesday. She seems really receptive and cool. Im gonna see if i can make plans with her to seal the deal. Ive gotta meet the white girl tonight whos kind of a hipster. Im gonna pound her pussy in my bed tonight. Im at her place right now. I forgot to bring a condom though, cause im a dumbass. Ill probably fuck this chick but well see |
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September 27th
31/36 7 approaches today and 1 number I forgot to bring a condom last night, so i couldnt fuck that chick. Oh well. Im never going to forget a condom again. Never leave the house without one. Im not going to make a big effort to try and bang this girl. She was only a 6. Im hardly attracted to 6's, like I could barely get my dick up for this girl. I pussied out a couple times today on really hot girls. I approached 1 girl though with a fantastic ass. The number i got was from an asian girl. She wasnt as hot as i thought, i wasnt wearing contacts. Ive got a lot of dates coming up with a ton of sifferent girls so im going to start filtering these girls out a bit. I really gotta start screening hard. Im tired of non-DTF girls. Im going to screen them for real as much as I can, through text and upon approach. I have a date tonight with a girl from Tinder. I told her I wasnt interested in a relationship and she responded in the same manner that the other chick did last night. I have a feeling im going to get laid a lot pretty soon. I approached a hot 16 year old. I thought she was 18. I still went for the number haha. Not a very good day of approaching today, but thats ok. I really regret not approaching that bombshell that was sitting there by herself, damnit. i just approached a big titted 18 year old. She was not interested lol. I approached another tight assed 18 year old. i just made up for a shit day by approaching a couple of hotties. All i can do is my best every day. My manager came with me today to show me what im doing wrong when im pitching. It was pretty eye opening. I have a feeling im going to get a lot better at sales so i can make way better money. I have a feeling a lot of the weird shit I do at doors is the same as when i hit on girls. I definitely cant go it alone when I hit on girls forever. I need other guys to show me my blindspots. Just had a tinder date. I had fun. Like always though, the girl you vibe with the most most is the girl who is the least DTF. Just let go brother. Stop obsessing over sex. Learn to enjoy your time, and love life. Ill get what i want with hard work and patience. |
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September 28th
31/36 7 approaches and 1 number. I woke up at 3:30am, and i cant get back to sleep. Its because of the drinks i had with that girl. I woke up feeling depressed. Alcohol depresses me a lot. I had 2 drinks and a half, and now im second guessing everything about myself, doubting myself, and thinking about failure. Im not so sure I want to take these girls for drinks anymore. Alcohol is dog shit. Despite these dumb thoughts, im going to have a a good day today. Im going to think positively abd im going to be confident and happy. I just got a number from a super non-receptive Korean girl. Its funny, thats what i dont get about screening. This girl will probably end up riding my dick, despite the fact that she didnt pass any of the tests. She didnt respond positively to anything I said. Im going to make 3 sales at work tonight. This is the start to the period where I start making awesome money without putting in insane hours. If i could make 300$ per week while only working working 15-20 hours, that would be extremely awesome. I should really go to work everyday of the week. I mean thats what I should be doing if Iwant to make serious money while im still in school. I was just reading hunks lay reports and. I realized that one of the reasons im not gettig laid is because 1) i dont have a car, 2) im not escalating hard enough when i have the girls backto my place 3) im not leading the girls enough to my house. I should literally be pulling my dick out of my pants and putting it in her hands or mouth, while I finger her pussy. Rather than asking to take them to my place, i should kind of just lead them to my place. Hold their hand while im pitching the idea of coming to my house and in an assertive way. Im going to get 1 more number before I get groceries and go home. Im probably going to trim my beard, it looks stupid when i see what i look like in pictures. Today, I didnt approach a couple hot girls, because I honestly feel like Im running out of girls to approach on campus. I had a pretty good day in the gym. Im 182lbs today and I deadlifted 330x6. All my lifts are improving. My squat is a lot slower though. Im excited to work tonight so i can make money, i have a feeling its going to be a good night. I have a date right after to, so that should be alright. Im going to pull her back to my place like a boss. I think I might walk through the mall one more time to do another approach. Im not completely satisfied with my performance today. I approaches a really beautiful 17 year old. I was being weird though for some reason. I did 7 approaches today. I did the best I could considering my swagger is a little off today. Now im going to get some groceries before I relax at home and read my book before work. Im going to a party tomorrow night with my coworkers. Im kinda nervous about it. I hust gotta keep it real and not buy any booze or anything like that. As long as I dont buy alcohol i shiuld be more than ok. This is a great opportunity for me to make friends and what not. I cant keep saying no to opportunities like this. I gotta branch out to become a better person. I cant just cold approach my whole life, i have to work on other parts of myself. I had a decent today deapite not having my full swagger. All i can do is my best everyday. I feel kinda frustrated again, by my average results with daygame and selling. I definitely need mentors to take my shit to the next level. I cant just be a lone warrior. Tonight, i should do french homework and read my book for a bit. Im going to wake up early tomorrow morning, probably like 8:00am. |
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I know exactly what you mean about alcohol. As soon as I stopped drinking my paranoid and depressive thoughts started disappearing in line with my increasing self-esteem. I got drunk a couple of weeks ago and not only did I feel depressed while hungover, I felt depressed while drunk as well. It isn't classified as a CNS depressant for nothing. If people wanna drink it, that's fine but I'd rather not be depressed
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