TOPIC: Rousseau's log, random stuff.

July 17th
11/36

Im going out again tonight, but tonight im going to go to the bar that is close to my place rather than go to the city. Im going to stay until the bar closes and try to pull.

Im wearing a decent outfit today. I look pretty cool, especially with the white shoes. The outfit needs work though. I think it would look better tucked in and with a white belt or something like that, to make it look flashy. I feel like just a shirt isnt dressy enough. A guy needs to add a vest or jacket to give it that finishing touch.

Im stoked for my pants to come back from the tailor. Theyre gonna fit so well, and ill look awesome.

Im pretty stoked to start working at Guess to. I really could use the money, and the experience of course.

Ive been practicing french for the past few days, and im actually kind of enjoying the homework a little. It makes me feel productive. I shouldve been doing the homework right from the beginning. I should be fine though. There are 6 more assignments for me to do well in, so i should be able to do good on a couple and pass the course. Its all up to me though, i gotta do real good on the last few assignments, and study for a couple hours everyday. Ill make it through, i always do.

Im going out right now to hit the gym, and do some approaches at the mall.

I posted the outfit but tucked in. It looks wrinkly, because it isnt tucked in properly.

I did 7 approaches today and got 3 numbers. The first one seemed really down by my approach. I did a lot of touching and held her hand for awhile. The second girl seemed kind of down to. I really want to fuck some more girls soon

Ive got 3 dates planned for tomorrow How awesome would it be if i had sex with 3 women in one day, all from daygame?

That means i have to wake up in good time tomorrow so i can do some homework and then go to the gym. I should probably prepare meals for tomorrow as well so i can save time.

The second girl just bailed unfortunately, so it looks like ive only got 2 tomorrow. I got another number just now though, so im gonna try and get her out on a date tomorrow.

I feel like im about to level up or something. Im grinding so hard, and working so hard with hardly any results. There is going to be a point where i suddenly just break through and start seeing crazy results. I know it has to be coming soon.

I just found 100$ in walmart!!!!lol. It was hanging out of the machine. Lmao haha

My mind is really fucking with me right now. Its coming up with all these reasons to stay home, and making me doubt myself and what not. Fuck that though. Im on my way out the door.

I hate this tendency i have to just start talkjng about how negative im feeling.

Im going out tonight, because im a negative creep. Im a negative creep who wants to get laid. im gonna burn this bitch to the ground tonight with creepy shit. Im gonna go around creeping girls the fuck out all night, until the bar closes. When they turn the lights on, theyre gonna see me with my hand down some broad's pants, fingering her cindy woo hoo.

Edit: i went out and had a pretty good time. I get pretty much zero anxiety when im out now. I got there at 11:45 and started hitting the first girl that i saw. She was super receptive to me, but then her friend tokd me she had a man. I bailed and started talking to these other bitches who said they were lesbians lol such a pussy way of rejecting someone.

I talked to another girl that was a rude BITCH. Probably the rudest girl ive met in nightgame lol. Iwas like "are you italian" then she goes on this massive rant about guys assuming her ethnicity. She freaked out about it, and i thought she was gonna stab me hahaha.

I ended up talking to this super hot girl 9/10 italian with big tits and we were vibing somewhat. I pulled her away from her friends and we chatted for a bit. I tried to kiss her but she wasnt having it. Im not sure what i was supposed to do. It seemed like she was non-dtf, but yet she was still talking to me and letting me touch her A LOT. I left the bar at 1:20. Maybe i shouldve waited and seen if that girl wouldve came home with me? It honestly didnt seem like she was going to. I couldnt get a makeout or anything. Our vibe and chemistry wasnt that strong either.

I really wanna pull one of these girls. I feel like the girls that givr me the time of day during nightgame are significantly hotter than the other girls i hit on in daygame.

Anyway, im gonna head out tomorrow night to, except ill probably go to the city tomorrow night so i can take advantage of bigger volume venues.

12/36

July 18th
12/36

Im going out again tonight.

Both girls flaked on the date today, so i only have the one at 8:00pm tonight.

Now ive gotta do some homework, and then hit the gym, do approaches, and then get groceries before i go out tonight.

@Chivas989

5-10
And ya, my AA log is stickied in the AA forum section.

Im trying to decide if i wanna rock the jean jacket or not.

Ive done 10 approaches today with zero luck lol. Im starting to think im never gonna get laid from cold approach again. Like honestly wtf? 36 numbers this month and 10 dates and 0 girls. Like wtf?

I started to think and actually i have a pretty solid night ahead of me. Im gonna see a movie with a girl and possibly get laid, and then go out in the night scene to work on my skills. Things really arent bad for me, im just being a baby because girls wont fuck me lmao. If you take a step back, how much of a deal is it really? Wah wah, girls wont fuck me

Its all good. Just keep grinding and things will work out for me.

I just got a number on 12th approach. It was a chubby girl, but axtually a hot chubby persian girl with a small waist, a cute face and giant titties. I would really like to fuck her tbh lol

Movie girl just bailed lol. Jesus christ.

I was just thinking about how I really am kind of an entitled little brat. I've done a bunch of approaches so I feel like I'm entitled for one of these girls to fuck me. But the truth is, no one owes me anything. I have to work hard, and be a cool guy, and make one of these girls fuck me. I can't just walk up to them like a depressed faggot and say hi, and expect them to be like "OH, this is your 150th approach? I guess I should fuck you then huh?". Nah, it doesn't work that way.

Ive been watching RSD videos lately, and there are a lot of truths that they speak of. I'm realizing that I'm looking to women to make me happy in a kind of pathetic way. I'm looking to women to fuck me so I can feel good, and I'm looking to women to tell me I'm awesome and fuck me so I can feel like I'm doing good. I'm being punished right now by women and the universe for being this way. I'm not going to get laid again until I learn to just be happy with who I am and what I'm doing and my mission.

My girl even left recently. Once I opened up to her a little bit, and told her I liked her a bit and I cared about her, she disappeared. We haven't talked since Tuesday and it's now Saturday. I've accepted that she's probably not going to come back, and I'm ok with this. I need to fill my own cup emotionally.

Edit: i had another good night but with a rough middle portion. I approached about 5 sets of girls and i was just being friendly and cool. I was talking to some brazilian chicks but the cute one ended up being fat. I took her for a walk around the bar in order to get her away from her friends and to check out her body. I seen what i wanted to see and then i bailed.

I seen some other drunk guys come up to the girls i was chilling with and they were doing really lame ass shit like palm reading. Lol for real, ive never seen lame pick-up shit before, but i seen it tonight. Funny thing is though, i cant even hate, it seemed to be working.

I was running totally different game though. I approached a number of different girls and i was always checking out their logistics, and if their logistics were bad i would just peace.

I ended up talking to a cute 7/10 with a banging ass and nice perky little titties. I pulled her to the downstairs dance floor and proceeded to make out with her hard. I was grabbing her ass and titties and getting her to rub my cock. I went for the pull and the number and she rejected both ideas. I think next time ill just try and pull her out of the bar and start walking to her place. She lived right around the corner apparently so i was like !!!!!.

I came out from the bathroom and she was gone so she definitely wasnt DTF. Next time ill try and keep her warmed up and then ill just walk her out of the place and take her somewhere to fuck. I feel like the girl couldve fucked, but it would have to be in the heat of the moment. Lesson learned.

All in all, it was a good night. I really hate my bad logistics though. Right as im peaking emotionally and confidently i have to leave to go home.

Whatever though. Another good night.

Oh ya, i seem to attract a lot of attention from other guys who want to be my friend and pickup girls with me. Thing is, i want a cool good looking guy as my wing, not some dorky PUA who is clearly too old for the bar. Buddy was like 27 probably. If youre gonna be in a place with 19 year olds, you gotta dress up to date man.

13/36

Im not entitled to anything. 15 lays from cold approach doesnt mean shit. I cant flash a card around saying ive fucked 15 girls from cold approach, so now girls have to fuck me.

What matters is the moment, and how badass of a guy i am in the moment. Thats all that matters. Quit whining when these girls wont fuck you or go out with you. Youre not entitled to fuck any of them. Nobody has to do anything for you. Its all about who you are in the moment, so stop looking to past success to feel entitled to the future success.

That being said, i deserve the best for myself when im being the best i can be.

How many approaches do you do a day? Have you graduated from the AA program?

July 20th
13/36

This week, I'm going to head out Wednesday, Friday and Saturday night. I might not head out on Thursday because I have a date scheduled that night. If she bails or isn't DTF that night, I'll go out though.

Today I went on my 11th date that didn't end in sex. I'm at 170 approaches this month to. This is my longest cold approach dry spell period. It's funny, after my little epiphany where I realized I'm not entitled to shit, I stopped being so bitter about it. Today the girl wouldn't kiss me on the date "because she doesn't kiss on the first date" , and I wasn't even pissed. It felt good to let go a little bit of those negative emotions.

Lately, ive been thinking about what kind of guy i want to be. Ive been watching a lot of RSD videos and ive felt super inspired to be a better man.

I want to be the guy, whose cup overflows with positivity, fun, confidence, and self-love. Ive worked on my social skills/style/social freedom enough where right now im like a confident weirdo. Im not a super "cool" guy that everybody invites out to shit.

Im at a phase where im attracting positive attention from people, but the attention is coming from guys and girls who are less cool than me. This is a lot better than ZERO attention, or negative attention like you dont exist.

I think personality development comes in stages. Its like at first youre 1) social retard/drug addict/depressed weirdo, then 2) social retard who is trying but not fucked up on drugs and alcohol anymore, 3) confident and friendly weird guy 4) cool, confident guy 5) pimp motherfucker.

Right now im at #3. Of course this is all speculative nonsense.

But ya, im pretty optimistic about my future in terms of success with women and my emotional state. I dont really get depressed that much anymore. My lows are still pretty high, and when my highs come theyre super high. When im low, im just bitter and jealous about a lack of success. Its not like im contemplating suicide or some shit, its just a frustration with myself.

But i think im finally getting over all of this and realizing the importance of generating your own positive emotions without the use of external feedback. This is the man i want to be. I want to offer good things and make people feel good, regardless of any lack of success or pussy.

I decided when i go out from now on, im going to grab numbers from girls. I read some of scottys lay reports and he gets laid from doing that, so im going to do that from now on.

Some bad news

I had to drop my french course. I was doing poorly in it and I couldn't afford to have it lower my GPA. I'm going to have to take a 5th year and take the french course during the regular year. It looks like my massive Get laid portion of my life will be put on hold.

July 21st
10 approaches today and 2 numbers. Ive decided that ive had enough of my current way of approaching. Im going to change my method to approaching girls who give me eye contact instead. Im still gonna approach girls that i think are hot when i see them in a good circumstance, but im not going to bother with stopping them in the middle of the mall when they havent looked at me at all.

Maybe this dry spell is a sign that i need to switch my game up a little bit. Ill come out strong once ive figured things out.

I have a date in 40 minutes. I didnt really screen this chick out other than the handshake, it was hard because we were in the gym and she was sitting on the machines. I cant lie and say that im not feeling a little thirsty.

So im now at #12 without taking one of these girls home. It kind of has me questioning myself a little bit. Like tonight, i was thinking about how boring I sound when I talk to these girls. I sound like a boring nice guy. Im aggressive and i make a move, but i feel like my vibe is boring and nice. Ive got to screen harder to when im approaching. Today i did good IMO when i was approaching.

Im probably gonna focus on eye contact from now on. Ill approach less but focus more on establishjng eye contact, and then when i go in, ill hold the long handshake and tell her shes sexy and what not. Go in for the hug mid-conversation.

I think this dry spell is forcing me to develop. Its probably for the better.

So from now on, eye contact approaches only, unless I see a perfect situation to approach a girl.

July 22nd
13/36

Im going out tonight. I have a wingman and a ride, but if he flakes out, im prepared to go alone.

I did a couple approaches today, one was an eye contact approach and the girl was totally non-interested. Ive noticed this trend before. When girls look at me and i approach they act ruder than normal. Im hoping with experience this will change. My sample size is probably just small.

Now i have a date with an asian girl. I screened her a bit and asked her if she liked sex. She said she does with a person she likes.

This will be #13 in a row if i dont get laid lol. At this point, its starting to become kind of funny.

Edit: Ya, she wouldn't even kiss me LOL.
Fuck this shit lol.

I honestly feel like im a fucking loser. Not even because of the dry spell. But just a loser in general. Like a creepy loser. Im about to walk around in a shopping mall so i can hit on girls in order to compensate for the fact that i dont have friends and am too emotionally fucked up to even have meaningful relationships. I even treat my parents like shit when they do so much for me. Im just a miserable piece of shit.

I dress good, but its all just a front to compensate for my fucked up personality and lifestyle. Im so much of a loser that i consider sleeping with 14 girls in 7 months as an accomplishment. Its pathetic.

I think most people are disgusting. Were all self-interested and we dont give a fuck about anything except ourselves and what feels good. Most of us will sell each other out when the going gets tough. They say how you feel about others is a reflection of yourself. I cant even pretend to like other people or myself. Im just lying to myself and you when i pretend otherwise because im a miserable shitty person.

Some faggot at the mall asked me if i came to the mall to pick up girls. I said no, because im a meek little bitch LMAO. I approached some bitch on the bus and she gave me her number. It probably wont go anywhere, because thats way its been lately.

Then i sat beside a 3/10 girl near the bus terminal and this bitch literally freaked the fuck out and started packing up her shit like i was gonna murder her lol. This bitch gave me eye contact to, like wtf? Dont look at me then you ass clown lol

A lot of bitches were looking at me jn the mall, but i know if i went up to them they would just be rude as fuck to me.

I look fly today, but its all pretty fucking pointless, if its gonna take me 200 tries to fuck one bitch, then really whats the point? 90% of people detest me and the only people who wanna be around me are similar losers with a toxic mindset, or fags that like me because im an approach machine. They admire my ability to walk around like a WEIRD FAG and talk to people who are literally revolted by me.

Ive approached over 1000 girls at this point, and i dont think ive ever had a girl come up to me after and say hi to me ever. Like ever. I guess i just disgust them so much, that they know my name and everything but refuse to say anything to me.

I'm going out tonight. I'm going to get fucking destroyed tonight in this club. I'm going to approach girls and get blown out hard every fucking time LOL.

Edit: 14/36

I went out tonight and it was a good time. My wing was kind of a downer though. Honestly i think its better for me to go out solo. Ill have more fun. There was a lot of hot women there, and surprisingly almost all of them were super cool to me.

I'm going to go out tomorrow night to after I have a date with that chick.

Going out always makes me feel really good. There is something about it that clears my head. Afterwards, I feel like I'm on my path and taking action. It feels good.

Despite my little negative outburst today, I have a feeling that I'm going to win at this.

I was listening to my friend tonight rant about how good he "used to be" at pickup. He was talking about how he went out a lot, 3 times a week for a year, and solo to. I can tell that he's lying to me about it. For someone who went out a lot, why is he so afraid of hitting on girls or standing alone by himself? Enough of that though.

I think it's better for me to do this alone. Maybe someday I'll find some cool ass wings to go out with that are on my level, but right now I'm just going to hit it solo and then maybe someday I'll find a guy who has the same aspirations and what not as me. My friend has given up a little bit on pickup. Pick-up gives me a lot of hope to be honest. It makes me feel like I can become a super cool guy. I think I will be that guy eventually, it's just going to take some work.

If I look back at where I came from, my progress has been pretty cool. I used to be totally afraid of speaking to other people when I was sober. I used drugs and alcohol as a crutch, and in the worst way possible. Now, my social freedom is above-average for sure. Anyway, I feel awesome now.

Some things to keep in mind.
1) Stop asking stupid boring questions like "Where are you from?", "What do you do?" "Are you in school?"
2) Stop stating the obvious and being like "Hey, you're really short!!", or "Hey, you're really tall!".
3) Stop being so fake-nice.

I love RSD. I've heard the most uplifting, beautiful, and inspiring shit from RSDtyler.

I've got to learn to love the game, the mistakes, the slumps, and the failure. I know that I'm going to rocket out of this shit.

Tomorrow, I'm going to hit the gym hard, go on a date with a girl who seems cool, and then go out to a sick bar

i think I'm better off to not post on this forum unless its my log. I think thats what im going to do.

@Rousseau, did you receive my private message? I never heard back from you...

Hey man, ya i did. I dropped the course because i was doing poorly. Thanks for the offer though, i appreciate it

July 23rd

14/36

I approached about 6 girls today. I approached this sexy little chinese cutie on my campus. Everything about her screamed "yes". I took her to a bench and started talking to her, i was rubbing her thighs, and i held the handshake super long. We talked and flirted, and i asked her bullshit questions while i touched her and ad tried to get her little pussy wet.

Then i went in for the kiss and i tried to make out with her right there, but very gently and not to aggressive. She said "no" but she was really enjoyjng all of this lol. Her femininity was so sexy, and my dick was rock hard, and i seen her lookjng at it. I contemplated putting her hand on it but i knew that was too much, and it was better to make out heavily first.

I then picked her up and set her down into my lap. She was laughing and being really silly about it.

She asked me to show her where parkjng lot 1 was, because she had to meet her friends. I started walking her towards a random spot, i had no intentions of taking her there.

We held hands the whole time when i was walking her. I tried to make out with her one time, and then she said "im sorry i have to meet my friends" and she smiled and said it in a way that sounded more like "you just made my pussy so wet, and i wish i didnt have to meet my friends so you could fuck me".

It was really hot. I think i might abandon the phine number and date bullshit and go for SDLs instead. Ill take the number as a last resort.

Truthfully, i enjoy posting here. I think im going to make it more like Sams log, and have it be more like "this is what i did" today, rather than "this is how i felt today".

I will inspire myself by writing all the cool shit that i did that day.

Action, not feelings. The need to vent is an illusion. You can be mindful, and present to the moment rather than indulging your thoughts.

I went on a date with that girl and i realized i made a big mistake. It was fun and we made out and all that, but when i invited her back to my place i made the mistake of telling her that i "wanted to fuck her" when we got back to my place. She asked me what i wanted to do when we got back 2 times in a row and i never got the hint to say "watch a movie" or some bullshit.

Lesson learned though. Goddamn LOL. 14 in a row bitches!!! Im super stoked to go out now though. Off to the bar i go

A dead number texted me today, we made plans to chill on saturday. This girl js pretty hot to. 8/10.
Ive got 4 dates lined up right now. Im gonna smash hard soon.

Edit: 15/36

I went out again tonight and it was a good time. After i had the date with cute club promo chick, i left for the city right away. I got to the city and i had a beef shawarma, which was delicious.

I went into the bar and had a great time for the 1st hour. I talked to a lot of chicks and had so much fun. i even grew a pair of balls and danced a little
bit. Its actually not that hard, you just have to not give a fuck and move to the beat. Its definitely something that ihave to work on.

I was running around the bar for a bit and tickling girls like "goochie goochie goo!" Haha. That brings me much joy lol. Not much love from the girls tonight, but i had a really good conversation with these two girls. They were harassing me about being alone and sober, and I was so cool about it, because i took it as just a joke. Normally, i would get all butt burt and shit.

I missed out on taking numbers because my phone was dead.

It really sucked having to come home. TonightThe place cleared out fast. It was packed with guys at like 1:00am. This always happens. All the girls leave around this time. I feel like you have to secure a girl right around 12:30

There is a fuckload of PUA guys in that place. Truthfully, I'm not sure how I'm going to get a girl from nightgame. My logistics are so bad. I feel like a Day 2 is a lot more probable than an SNL. I gotta start taking numbers from these girls so I can hopefully get them out again.

July 24th
15/36

I might go out tonight or i might not.

Its 1:00 pm and im still in bed lol. Its kinda hard to go out 3-4 nights a week AND wake up early. I really wish that Guess would call me in for training, because then i could be in that sweet spot where im working and going out. Right now im lacking a routine.

Im probably gonna get out of bed now and hit the gym, before i go out tonight.

Ive got two dates lined up for today i dont think either of them are DTF, but we'll see.

Im on my way to meet this chick right now. We had to change location because her bus wasnt running. Im kinda stoked to chill with her, she was pretty hot from what i remember.

I dont understand why this isnt working for me anymore? This girl wouldnt kiss me. Thats 15 in a row without getting laid, and im about to make it my 16th shortly. I used to get laid from dates all the time, from february right up until this month. Like wtf is going on? 16 dates is A LOT. Does my breath reek or something?

Ive had enough. I need to screen these bitches out for real, because clearly this isnt working anymore. Im being too much of a nice guy, and these girls think that i wanna be their boyfriend

Im on my way to the date with the other girl lol. F

Im gonna be a fucking asshole tonight LOL.

I just got back from the date. It went alright. The girl was a 1/10. Like i would just barely fuck her. We chilled on a patio and had a drink. It was a pretty good time. Afterwards we made out and she rubbed my cock a little bit. It felt good LOL.

Bad logistics though, so i couldnt take her anywhere. Its all good in the hood baby. I should probably put my ipod away so i can hit on random chicks as a warm up before i go in to a bar.

Im kinda just walking around right now. Im not too sure where i wanna go tonight.

Cold approach is super tough.

Edit: i went out tonight and it was brutal. Some super drunk fuck fucked with me and it totally threw me off. He called me out for being a "gamer" and shit and it just went so bad lol. He was just joking around but i was too in my head and taking things personally. Its time for me to call it a night and get some sleep and hjt the gym tonirrow and run errands. I think im gonna skip going out tomorrow. I need to take a night off from all this bullshit.

I was thinking. Im definitely still gonna go out tomorrow. The universe doesnt give a fuck about how i feel. No breaks from approaching, No breaks from going out, Perserverance for the fucking win. All day everyday. Tomorrow im gonna finish all my errands, approach 20 girls, go to the gym, and go out at night LIKE A FUCKING BOSS

16/36

July 25th
16/36

Today:
- Groceries
- Gym
- Pickup Bike
- Approach 20 girls
- Go out at night.

Ive got the fear of failure seriously lighting a fire under my ass.

Im on my way to do laundry right now. I didnt get up early but w/e fuck it. The bus driver is mad hot. I regret not telling her she was hot lol. Shouldve been like "damn girl, youre too hot to be driving a bus. What are you doing?"

im going to start recording my sets for a little
while to make sure im not doing any weird shit when im approaching girls. I might record some of my dates to, because i feel like i have a serious blindspot.

I finished just about all my errands today, and in record time. Im on my way to the mall right now to do as many approaches as i can before it closes. After that i gotta grab groceries and my laundry and go home before i go out tonight.

I invitrd my friend to come out with me, but then i decided not to bring him so i said i wasnt going out. Hes too much of a downer. Its better if dont go out with him.

I seen the girl i tried to fuck on campus earlier. She was not feeling me today LOL. Not a big deal though. I texted a bunch of old numbers and tried to set up dates with them. I axtually got twi of them to agree. I should definitely hit up old numbers more often.

I approached 7 girls. So far. I recorded my approaches and listened to them. I kinda have a "skater" voice. Its "boyish". Its not like ive changed though. A few months ago, i was killing it at cold approach. Now im getting destroyed. It doesnt feel like a slump anymore. It feels like this is going to get worse.

I ended up doing 12 approaches. Not bad. I recorded 10 of them, and when i listen back, i dont sound that bad. I sound like a charming surfer guy. I got 2 numbers.

Im having serious doubts about the effect of fashion on your cold approach results. Character, body language, and vibe. These things are more important than the way you dress. Obviously style is important, but a confident vibe and a masculine confident way of speaking is more important.

Im debating if i should go out tonight. I want to go to ned early so i can get up snd call Guess in the morning to make sure i got the job still. Ill make the decision when i get home.

Damn, after reading Hunks lay report I feel like I should go out.

I think 3 times is enough for one week. I'm tired. I'm going to pass out and have a good day tomorrow.

I think it's important for me to understand that negative thoughts are not symptoms of a bad character, or a bad person. They're just negative thoughts. Everybody has them, and it's your responsibility to fight them off.

I watched one of RSDTodd's videos, and It had me thinking that I'm using people as objects. I'm using my friends as "wingmen" and not as guys to have a good time with. I don't have a course of action to correct this. All I can say or do is what I feel is the right thing for me to do at that moment. Right now, the goals in my signature are the goals that I need to concern myself with, and the actions that I take everyday should be pushing me towards those goals. I''ll come out of this slump strongly.



I'm not going to log in to GLL until Wednesday.

I think a lot of outer game issues are solved by inner game, meaning if you become confident your body language will follow your mindset. Despite this, i think its important for me to record a date and a few approaches every now and then to see how im coming across.

A couple of things i noticed:
1) saying "hi" in an overly friendly way, kinda sounds gay. Like the end of the word goes up in pitch
2) i say "ya?" A lot. Which isnt that bad, but i think i would sound cooler if i stopped that and said it with more of a neutral voice.

I think a healthy balance of monitoring myself, and trying to adopt a screening mentality is the way to do this. I dont want to delve back into PUA "i hope she likes me" bullshit.

Im just not getting the screening mentality yet. Its hard to screen when youre coming from a place of scarcity, which i definitely am right now.

July 26th
16/36

I went on a date today with a hot girl. A hot but non-DTF girl. We made out like usual, and had a good time. But, I still haven't gotten laid.

I think I'm beginning to understand the screening mentality.

From now on, I'm not going to bother with coffee dates or any of that shit. Every girl I open, 1) I'm going to say "You're sexy" or some variant of that, 2) I'm going to hold their handshake and try to spin them, and I'm going to invite them to 3) drinks or a movie at my house[/i]

I read an article here on GLL titled "Why you're not getting laid on first dates" and I feel like 2 of them really seriously applied to me. The first one being that I'm coming across as "boyfriend potential" because of a lack of aggressiveness on the approach, and 2) I'm inviting them out to traditional dates, rather than out for drinks or a movie at my place.

July 27th
I decided that im going to stop posting on GLL un less its a lay report or a monthly update in my training log.

I never even go over these posts and read them to find my weak spots. I just bitch and complain, so im gonna stop.

Peace out.

Yo, Rousseau. Send me a private message

As a man you are most attractive when you FEEL good.

There were times where I looked sharp but wasn't really getting reactions I would normally get (variance included) because deep down I just wasn't my usual self.

The only way to feel good is to be proud of who you are, what you do, and what you look like. Hence, the best way to improve 'game' and speed up results in my opinion is creating a lifestyle you truly enjoy living. That also means enjoying time with your buddies.

Also:
-if you want to fuck a girl any 'date' you take her on where you can't physically do it (and be comfortable with it) is out of the question. I too spent many dates (and $$) on coffee dates and other stuff whereas in reality, I wasn't really regularly banging hotties until I just skipped the pleasantries and took them straight back to my place - no exceptions

-best way to talk manlier is to talk when you exhale (learned this from a voice coach)

-please dont be one of those tools spinning around girls, just introduce yourself, hold their hands (play with their hands if possible), give he biiiig hugs, touch her hair, touch her lower back, and stand next to her hips almost touching. thats it. sounds more complicated than it is.

funny thing I learned was this: when I stand straight in front of a girl the vibe tends to be more hostile, simialr to a business meeting where Im sitting across from someone. however, if I am standing next to the girl Im able to create this 'you and me vs the world' vibe, which always seems to work. One of the reasons I NEVER sit across from girls at public places, neither do I do this in business. EVER

The Zuberi wrote: As a man you are most attractive when you FEEL good.

There were times where I looked sharp but wasn't really getting reactions I would normally get (variance included) because deep down I just wasn't my usual self.

The only way to feel good is to be proud of who you are, what you do, and what you look like. Hence, the best way to improve 'game' and speed up results in my opinion is creating a lifestyle you truly enjoy living. That also means enjoying time with your buddies.

Also:
-if you want to fuck a girl any 'date' you take her on where you can't physically do it (and be comfortable with it) is out of the question. I too spent many dates (and $$) on coffee dates and other stuff whereas in reality, I wasn't really regularly banging hotties until I just skipped the pleasantries and took them straight back to my place - no exceptions

-best way to talk manlier is to talk when you exhale (learned this from a voice coach)

-please dont be one of those tools spinning around girls, just introduce yourself, hold their hands (play with their hands if possible), give he biiiig hugs, touch her hair, touch her lower back, and stand next to her hips almost touching. thats it. sounds more complicated than it is.

funny thing I learned was this: when I stand straight in front of a girl the vibe tends to be more hostile, simialr to a business meeting where Im sitting across from someone. however, if I am standing next to the girl Im able to create this 'you and me vs the world' vibe, which always seems to work. One of the reasons I NEVER sit across from girls at public places, neither do I do this in business. EVER

Awesome stuff Zuberi, I love the wisdom you bring to the table that comes from legit experience... I have some things to learn from you