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I feel like a lot of women look at me, but when I talk to them they blow me out immediately lately.
You're not alone.
I remember this cunt that looked 50 times in a row at me. After the 50th time I said "fuck it" and went talking to her, only to get rejected immediately. She stopped looking at me after that. Dumb cunt.
Actually in the night I had more success with girls hanging close to me.
Every time a girl looks at me, she is a cunt. So every time I just say "ok, I will go prove that this girl is a cunt".
The worst are the girls that come talking to you. These cunts either think they are superior to you and come talking to you with their condescending tone (like "why are you alone ? you don't have friends ?"), either they do a weak ass approach like "hey where are the toilets ?" and then they don't assume their interest. Fucking cunts making me lose my time.
Fucking people. They don't go out at all to socialize and meet other people.
Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do.
Nothing is more comfortable than the delusions that you tell yourself when youre not taking action.
I love Tyler's take on this. Guys who dont go out, or who settle in an LTR will love to tell themselves how pimp they are, and how many girls would love to fuck them. Their confidence is through the roof. Until they go out and approach, and the reality knocks them down into the earth.
This is a long term thing. Not a short term one. Like in everything else, I improve very gradually, very slowly, but consistent. Not vicious ups and downs because of incosistency.
I took a short break from approaching yesterday and today. Probably the first time, Ive done this willingly. Tonight, Im going out though.
But I think Rousseau was just talking about guys who go into LTRs out of need, not out of want (most guys cant get laid so they go into a LTR)
FUCK. This bugs me haha. I got into a relationship but this mindset gets me a lot. I don't feel like I got into a relationship because I couldn't get laid but I have no proof of that. Sometimes it bugs me knowing I have this struggle between wanting to just be with one awesome girl and chasing a bunch of tail. However, one difference between me and beta guys is that my girlfriend doesn't control me.
I just got back from my family vacation, and It was a pretty awesome trip. I sipped vodka, hit on girls, and chilled with my family. I banged a girl in the pool at night, and it was pretty awesome. Probably some of the better sex Ive had, despite the fact that she wasnt that hot.
Im really glad I went. It gave me a good insight into how amazingly you could do at a resort where its all 20 somethings. Im definitely going to go to a party in Mexico or something this year. Ive been missing out all these years!!
Im pretty proud of myself for the way I pushed myself on this trip. I approached probably around 30~ girls. I had to share a room with my brother, so unfortunately that costed me a lay.
I also made out with my hot Costa Rican maid, who didnt speak any english. No lie lol. Too bad I didnt bang her, but damn lol. Pretty cool nonetheless.
The part that Im the most impressed about, is the way I was introducing people to each other, and acting kind of like a social connector. At one point, it was me and 4 hot girls at the table partying, and it was so easy. All i did was introduce these girls to each other. There is definitely a ton of value in creating social circles, and this is something that I definitely want to become good at as well as cold approach.
This year is going to be pretty intense for me. I have a ton of goals to accomplish this year. Im pretty tired of my job right now, and Im ready for something new. This is a pretty big priority, because my job I feel is sucking the life out of me a bit.
Ive had a lot of time for reflection lately, and I notice that I have to work on being less selfish and rude to people. I feel like everything that I say and do should be good for either pumping my own mood, or contributing to the mood of the group.
2014 was a good year. I got laid a ton and im stoked about that.
There's so much that I want to do with my life. Sometimes I worry if there will be time for it all.
Im not going to be here much anymore. Just lay reports. I should be using every moment for the best possible thing.
I have a ton of work to do this year, its going to be a big one.
January 8th EDIT: I decided that this is going to be the year that I start to build a social circle of hot girls, even though I'm leaving in April/May. I'm going to start inviting the girls that I fail to sleep with out to the bar with me and my friend. Originally, I've been embarrassed to do this because of my friend. I was afraid that he would reflect poorly on me, but now I'm confident enough in myself to not give a shit. I realize that this was just a compensation for my low-self esteem, and really I was just worried about being judged, so I blamed it on my friend. This is going to be a huge year for me. I'm going to fucking crush it.
Ive been reading about social circle game and I feel the advice is so mediocre. It looks like Im going to have to figure out how to do this myself.
Right now, my gameplan is to experiment with inviting girls Ive had sex with out to the bar with me and my friend. I think im going to be able to really make things happen this way.
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