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Rousseau wrote: Basically I'm going to get girls numbers and message them, and make them wait an egregious amount of time in-between messages; I'm going to intentionally set up dates and then flake out at the last minute; and I'm going to schedule dates and not show up. I'm also going to only do dates at times that are most convenient to me, and at locations that are most convenient to me. I should just invite them for a coffee and a movie and then thats it. Coffee first, and then movie.
I guess I've had a different view on how you do dates because why would you not be doing the things you mention? (except flaking - why would you do that? Its counter-productive)
Dont let the girls get to you and dont let them have all the power. Write them when you feel like it and set up a date where you want. You're giving the girls waaay to much power and I think you come off desperate. At any time you should be willing to lose the girl if it means keeping the respect for yourself - at least that's my opinion.
Also, try out the hight increase. Even I'm wearing some and I'm naturally 6'2
It's fine to let your emotions out here on the forum. But I do want to provide some insight on your perceived struggles and turmoil
I think you should try to step outside of yourself for a few minutes and consider the fact that while you have slept with 3 x's the number of women in one year than the average guy has slept with in his life, you are getting all bent out of shape because you still want more. I want you to consider the possibility that no matter how many women you sleep with this year it will never be enough. That's fine if thats the case, but I just want you to be aware of that thought and then let it pass
To help put things into perspective; 33% of your audience here on GLL (according to last years poll) would be thrilled just to be able to experience sex for the first time in their life.
Furthermore, there are children dying of cancer and starvation. Meanwhile we are free to frivolously pursue a life of pleasure with little responsibility. Furthermore, consider the possibility that you don't even exist. When you look at your hand and feel it, you know it's real. But is it you? If your hand was cut off would it still be you? Would you still be you? Who are you? Are you just a collection of random neurons firing inside of your brain? Is there any proof that your ego even exists?
Why are you trying to satisfy this possibly nonexistent ego by tirelessly pursuing sex with women? Is it just a game. What's the point of getting so heavily invested with your emotions into a game? Im not trying to dissuade you from pursuing women. As a matter of fact the best time of any time to chase girls would be in your 20's. I just want you to think about why you are so heavily invested in the outcome. You don't even have to do anything with that thought. Just be aware of it
Also, I know you love texting but the best way to eliminate flakes, time wasters, attention whores and text buddies is to call the girl up. Meanwhile you will stand out to the girls who are actually interested. Maybe try it out on half the numbers you get and see how it works for you
badideabear wrote: it looks like AJ1991 has posted almost as much as I have, and as far as I can tell it's all unsolicited advice based on absolutely nothing.
This forum is plagued by keyboard warriors.
So.. I'm a 'keyboard warrior', who is not allowed to give advice on this forum because some stranger like you says so? What is your advice based on?
Rossseau. Judging by what you said, I genuinely think it's a mindset issue. Take on board what I've said, or don't. What I said wasn't intended to offend you.
Btw, I have no idea who you are either. If you'd really like to know though, I'm 24. 5'6 (boost my height up to 5'8 with insoles). I've banged 20+ girls, around half were legitimately good looking. I haven't dated in a few years, after catching genital herpes and losing all confidence. However, I have got a date tonight (which I'm nervous about) with a 27 year old (7.5 maybe). It's our first date, and we've decided to 'watch a movie'.
I'm not 100% qualified to give anyone advice, but I'm guessing i'm more qualified than most guys on this forum. That's for you to decide.
No hard feelings to you AJ1991, or anyone really.
That sucks that that happened to you. I would be devastated if that happened to me. Good luck anyway.
I definitely have a lot of anger and bitterness that bubbles to the surface sometimes.
I think the truth is always in between.
My "mindset" is a problem, and my height is aso a problem.
Ill work to fix both.
Ill try calling girls to as well. You say its an awesome way to filter out chicks, and thats exactly what I have a problem with. I need to filter these girls out hardcore, because too many of them are ambiguous and end up wasting my time.
The fact that you've banged so many girl this far, signals to me that you're attractive enough to bang just about any girl you want - that's why I would guess it's more a mindset/general vibe issue, as opposed to a height issue. But no harm in working on both.
And yeah it sucks catching herpes, but the movie date I had last night went very well despite it. Although the girl looked nothing like her pics
I need to finish up my goal of going out 36 times sober this year.
There is no reason why I cant go out at least once a week, bad logistics or not, to keep my game fresh for when I move to Montreal.
This time, this log will strictly be for nightgame, rather than my log to log into every 45 minutes to whine and complain.
Other than this log, I dont think I should be visiting this website.
I went out tonight. I didnt approach any girls.
I kind of resent the fact that every one is always expecting me to approach girls when I go out with them.
If you want to talk to girls, maybe you should go talk to them yourself?
Whatever, Im glad I went out. I had zero anxiety in the bar tonight.
Tonight was a nice little introduction back into nightgame. Im going to consistently go out from now on again. 1-2 times a week, sober.
Im trying not to be negative, but today really ended up being kind of a lousy day.
Im thinking about getting a new sales job soon. Im starting to really dislike my employer. I dont wanna talk shit about him to anyone though. Ive got to learn to keep my mouth shut and keep my opinions to myself when it suits me to do so.
I noticed a lot of women looking at me tonight in the bar, which I didnt like to be honest. I feel like a lot of women look at me, but when I talk to them they blow me out immediately lately. Sometimes it feels like they lure me in on purpose just so they can be rude, even though I know this is stupid and its not true.
I have a date tomorrow. I got a number today to, that wasnt a bunk number. Ive honestly got a ton of bunk numbers, ever since I bulked to 185.
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