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I think something that might help your stagnancy is the ax cutter story. It helped me at one point with a couple things other than getting laid but it could be applicable.
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Once upon a time, a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant and he got it. The pay was really good and so was the work condition. For those reasons, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.
His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he supposed to work.
The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees.
“Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”
Very motivated by the boss words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only bring 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only bring 10 trees. Day after day he was bringing less and less trees.
“I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.
“When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.
“Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”
Moral of the story... Take a step back and reevaluate what you're doing and see if you can change something. I never got successful with getting women and I copped out by getting a girlfriend (no regrets) but I think this could help.
Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results
Don't take a break, just try different things and see if it helps. Maybe dressing differently, being more aggressive, using different lines. I don't know what your approaches are like or how you dress nor do I know, what is the "best" but obviously doing the same thing isn't getting the results you want/deserve.
Hey dude just throwing this out there. I've followed your log for a while and it's clear that you have a very good work ethic and you have 49 lays to show for it but you said you want the hottest girls.
I think you need to seriously consider boosting your height through boots+insoles. You're below average height of 5'9 in Canada and the hottest girls like the one you posted aren't creaming for a 5'8 guy unless he's got a lot of status/money.
You can get as jacked/stylish as you want but at the end of the day there's nothing that can really "compensate" for height.
Especially since you're not looking for relationships who da hell cares if the girl finds out right? Just wear them when you go out to hit on girls and not when you're around family/friends who knows you well. Be very surprised if it doesn't make a difference for you.
Every single of those Allsaints boots/shoes gives 2" of height, I've tried them out in person and they are 100000x more stylish than all the special height increasing shoes and probably more than every other regular shoes/boots out there. It's definitely worth the price if you can afford it.
AllSaints are the only brand out there I am aware of that produce boots with a true 2" height AND is also stylish.
I think how much you want to get depends on where you are and your environment. If you feel the average height around you is high you may want to do more, like in bar/nightclubs. Daytime I think you will be be fine getting up to 5'11-6' range. At 5'11" i doubt you will be disqualified for height as I have a feeling that you might be getting currently, more than you think I'd suspect.
If I were you, this is what I would do, get one of those Allsaints shoes and add a Dr. Scholle's insert which adds 0.5cm. Then you will be 5'11" and also not doing anything that's really out of the ordinary like adding height increasing insoles or special height increasing boots that can make you self-conscious or uncomfortable. Instead it's a pair of really stylish boots with a socially acceptable insole to make the shoes more comfortable. Height added as a bonus
I have the spectator boots and tried out the others in store. It's 2" not a mm less. I'd buy it from the store just to be sure and not online though. The fit is a bit different since they don't have half sizes. If you had to go up half a size you prob need some sort of insole to make it fit better anyways. It's what I did and love it. Up to you man but to me every little bit count
Ill probably get a pair just to experiment and see what happens. Its not like I have to wear them. Im sure that even seeing the difference between 6'1" and 5'9" is a good learning experience.
Its depressing as fuck though, not gonna lie.
As long as you're taller than the girls you're hitting on, you won't have a problem. I personally don't believe that many girls (if any at all) will full on reject you because you're not 6 foot. Then again, I don't live in the USA.
I decided that I'm going to try an experiment from today November 19th, until December 19th. It's clear that being direct and honest does not work with women at all. The amount of bullshit I put up with to get one lay is ridiculous and not worth my time or effort.
It's called, "Extreme Asshole Game".
Basically I'm going to get girls numbers and message them, and make them wait an egregious amount of time in-between messages; I'm going to intentionally set up dates and then flake out at the last minute; and I'm going to schedule dates and not show up. I'm also going to only do dates at times that are most convenient to me, and at locations that are most convenient to me. I should just invite them for a coffee and a movie and then thats it. Coffee first, and then movie.
I'm sick of these DISHONEST, STATUS WHORING, ATTENTION WHORING, LYING, DECEITFUL, women. I'm going to use their own bullshit against them.
Im just tired of this shit, honestly, I am.
I have a hard time even scheduling dates with these women, because they all lie and try to be ambiguous so that they lead guys on. I just cant be bothered with this shit anymore. It hurts my pride.
Tonight this bitch who keeps texting me, iniating texts, and being a fucking attention whore, just flaked out like a stupid bitch. But she WONT STOP TEXTING ME. Honestly, what does she even want from me? Why does she keep texting me?
Honestly, why shouldnt I use insoles and elevator shoes. All these women are fucking liars. They wear fake make up, fake hair, fake shoes, fake nails, fake tan, and fake EVERYTHING. Why shouldnt I play up my strengths and downplay my weaknesses. Some of these fuckin' chicks even have bras that make their tits look 5 times bigger
I WANT TO PLAY TO WIN. Im sick of this bullshit. Why am I being nice when women are fucking liars?
Tonight my boss told me that a girl told him she liked him, and then she came over to his house and then fucked his friend!? Are you kidding me?
WHAT A BITCH.
I really want to try height increasing shoes to see if height really plays that much of a role in women's attraction to me. Because right now, im consistently bashing my head against this glass ceiling above me and getting really pissed.
I have a date scheduled for tomorrow, but again, the fucking girl is not that hot. Shes a 6.5/10, maybe a 7.5/10 on a really good day when shes dolled up.
Im better looking than 90% of the girls I fuck and go on dates with. They all wear make up and hide their hideous fucking faces and wear wedge shoes and bullshit.
Today I was looking at this bitch who looks like an 8, but not only was her fucking face caked in makeup, her shoes had a 3" wedge in them. In reality she was a dolled up 6.
November 24th EDIT: Looking back on this post, I was in a pretty bad mood. Try not to judge me too much for it. I post in this log my thoughts with 100% honesty and I filter nothing, so keep that in mind.
Dude it's been 2 weeks of daygame and I'm over all the shit you are over with already. Like what the fuck is wrong with these hoes?
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
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