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I slept in. I woke up at like 3am last night and had serious trouble getting back to sleep.
I just went to the bank and paid my visa bill. I dont want to owe those cock suckers anything.
I cant wait to hit the gym after the date. This girl seems super into me, Im going to pitch the movie at my place and go for the bang.
Im also going to be an aloof dick on the date like I was with the Venezuelan girl. I need a change in strategy, because clearly talking and sharing my personality doesnt work 100%.
I want to severly cut back on the amount of dates I go on, and increase my rate of bangs like crazy. 4 dates a month and 2 lays would be sufficient.
The date went pretty well. I avoided talking literally as much as possible. I deflected her questions back onto her as much as possible. She did 80% of the talking. I pitched the movie back to my place and she said not now, another day.
She drove me to the gym, and when we parked I told her "come here" and she moved her head forward and she smiled as I moved into kiss her. I didnt make out with her TOO MUCH. Just a 5 second kiss.
I might see her again, and I might not. Who knows. I was a little nervous just because I was trying something new. Im definitely going to experiment with this aloof, insouciant, douchebag vibe on dates for awhile.
I havent got a message from her yet, so that means I probably wont be seeing her again.
She actually did text me. She said "it was nice seeing you today." Whenever a girl texts you first after a date, you know youre probably going to be inside her soon.
I got 3 numbers on 3 approaches. All three girls were fucking hot. All 8's. The last girl had a fantastic 10/10 ass. The type of ass that I love to oil up and fuck doggy style.
All the sudden, Im killing it LOL. Man the game is bizarre. One minute women are acting disgusted by me, and the next minute theyre telling me how gorgeous and confident I am.
I think im going to give up coffee. Its making me shit like 6 times a day, which gives me bad hemorrhoids.
I think its time to make some more serious health decisions. I should give up drugs like caffeine and sugar entirely with the exception of phenibut or kratom.
None of the girls responded to my message today. I guess you could say that Im unhappy because my ego isnt being validated. A "higher thinking" version of myself knows that this is good though. Its better that these women dont waste my time. I want to minimize dates as much as possible.
I didnt make any sales tonight. I didnt make any on monday either. Pretty bad week so far. Tomorrow and sunday can make up for it though.
One girl texted me back from today.
Edit: 2 girls texted me back.
I jerked off to porn again tonight. I totally binged out on it. No more porn after this. It affects the way I have sex. Its impossible to have an orgasm during sex when Ive been watching porn.
1) Date 2) Gym
3) Approach 5 girls 4) Write orders
5) Clean apartment
6) Go out to a bar.
3) Approach 5 girls
4) Write orders
5) Clean apartment
6) go out to bar
7) Laundry (shrink shirts and pants)
11:41 - at the gym now. No text back from the girl for the date today. I was expecting that. She was being aloof through text.
After the gym Im going to approach girls and then go home and clean my apartment before work. Its pretty dirty.
12:03 - she just texted me. The date is still on
Im going to tell her now though that im not interested in a relationship.
12:22 - i texted her that i didnt want a girlfriend and she said she was, so wedecided
Not to waste each others time. She sounded kind of bitter LOL. Good hahaha. Man, im glad not to waste my precious time. It really is precious. I can spend my time doing other shit.
1:24 - I finisheed in the gym, and I performed pretty well today. I got a new squat PR. I could feel a really solid strength on my deadlift today as well. Ill probably be able to hammer out 340x7 on the deadlift. As a side note, im cutting and still managing to gain strength. This is great
Im going to approach some girls in the mall right now and then go home and clean my apartment. It needs it. I dont want to freak any women out with my nasty ass entrance. Theres leaves everywhere from outside.
2:13 - im having serious trouble approaching right now. I feel really off my game right now. I just gotta do 1 to start.
Ok. Im going to approach 5 girls by 2:40, starting now.
2:58 - Ok, im going to do one more and then leave. Ill do the remaining ones on the way home.
3:20 - got the approaches done. The avoidance weasel was working hard today. It took me an hour to do 5 approaches. i got 1 number from a girl who ended up having really nasty chapped lips. Huge turn off.
Just the act of finishing the quota makes me feel good. I was thinking about maybe doing like a 20 minute challenge or something like that. Basically as soon as you enter the mall, you start the stop watch and approach 5 girls no matter what in that time frame.
Im going to vacuum my apartment now and make food.
4:29 - I got a girls number on the bus. She was eyeing the shit out of me. Turns out we already had met. I had her number saved as "(her name) sexy." She thought it was pretty funny.
I remember being a huge bitch to this girl. I got butt hurt like a little bitch when she flaked out on me. I think I did anyway.
I highly doubt she is going to respond to my message when I text her.
I can definitely tell that the golden ratio works, and that talking too much really turns women off. I could feel her losing attraction when I was talking.
I have a feeling im heading into the eye of the pussy storm. In going to swim in pussy soon. I can feel it.
8:00 - My boss didnt pick me up for work today. I only made 75$ this Whatever. Next week will be good. Ive still got a 527$ cheque coming.
Considering my boss isnt coming, I should definitely consider doing something. I should clean my apartment and then go to a bar. I dont want to sit in my house tonight.
10:07 - Part of me wants to slash my calories by a lot, and get rid of all this pudge around my waist fast. I know its better to take it slow though. Its working to, cuz im maintaining all my gains so far.
12:00am - I just made plans with the girl I went on a date with the other day. Shes coming straight to my house. Im going to fuck the living shit out of her on my couch.
I have to get groceries again tomorrow.
12:56 - i have to go to the doctor tomorrow morning. I have a huge lump on top of my spine near my neck. I literally just noticed it.
The girl didnt confirm the time with me. Probably a flake. We'll see.
1) Gym 3) Approach 5 girls
4) Write orders
5) Clean apartment
6) go out to bar
About yesterday's date, did you do any touching, what about the conversation, was there any teasing, sexual innuendos etc?
You've probably read this articles, but I'm just throwing them for people who read your log
Thanks a lot for all these articles. Ive been following the 20 first date rules, with the exception of no kissing. When I think back on it, I think the reason why I lose girls is because I freak them out when I make out with them so hard. The last date, I just gave her a quick harmless kiss rather than sucking on her tounge which is what I would normally do LOL.
Im going to get them to talk about sex more often to.
Up at 9:30. My neck hurts. I might go to the doctor first thing this morning instead of after.
11:00 - I need to start going out again. You have to go out to see what other cool people look like to in order to adjust your own look. If youre constantly surrounded by dorky people, you wont even realize how dorky you look, because your frame of reference is dorky people.
I might actually skip the gym today. It depends on what my doctor says about my neck. The lump hurts. Im going to try and approach all the hot girls in one venue today. I dont want to make a special trip to the mall.
12:15 - I just finished my tenth book of the year. I was going for 20 but I established the goal too late in the year, so I changed it to 10 instead.
12:45 I got a girls number in starbucks this morning. I first approached her a couple weeks ago and she acted super creeped out by me. I knew she was just confused. Today I seen her repeatedly staring at me in Starbucks. So I talked to her and got her number. Her body was very slim and sexy looking. Kinda gothic.
She acted weird though when I grabbed her number. She didnt say bye, so Im thinking the number is bunk. Man, Im going to get laid like a motherfucker soon. I can feel it.
1:19 - So apparently the lump on my neck is an infected cyst. So I guess I can still hit the gym, thank god. I hate time off from the gym. Im getting anti-biotics for it now.
Im not working today. Im going to run all my errands today.
2:41 - I might actually write orders by myself tonight. We'll see what time I get done laundry and all that.
3:55 - I just finished in the gym. Im probably going to hit the mall now to do approaches, and then get groceries on the way back. I only need to do 4 more. Im going to do them in less than 20 minutes.
Man, that chick I went on a date with the other day wont stop texting me. Straight up, everyday. I havent gotten any pussy from her yet, so I honestly find it kind of annoying.
4:54 - I only did 3 in the 20 minutes. Ill finish the quota while Im grocery shopping.
Honestly, Im kind of disappointed in the way that I approach. I could be way more confident and ballsy. The confidence comes and goes.
Somedays Im a fearless sexy bitch, and other days its hard to even do one. I understand that all things come in cycles, its a fact of life. The more I approach, the better my "lows" will be, and the better my "highs" will be.
I remember the day when I got tipsy and approached in the mall. I was absolutely FEARLESS. It was insane. I was approaching big mixed sets, and everything, with zero self-doubt.
6:37 - I dont really feel like sitting in this apartment tonight. Im probably going to take a random bus somewhere and just see where I end up. After I clean my goddamned apartment anyway. I NEED TO DO IT.
8:35 - The girl from my last date wants to come over on tuesday night. She didnt ask what time though when she confirmed. I highly doubt she is going to materalize as a bang. Theres just something suspicious about the way shes behaving towards me. I have a feeling she is going to flake.
I think im better off to stop hoping it will work out and let go.
I feel like leaving this house right now and just taking a random bus somewhere.
I only approached 4 girls today. Good enough though.
This girl is going to flake hard on Tuesday and I know it. I wont text her again or make plans with her again if she does.
1) Doctor 1.5) Gym 2) Groceries
3) Vacuum Apartment and Clean Bathroom
]5) Approach 5 girls
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