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Im going to do my french homework this morning before I go to the gym.
Its weird. I kind of had an epiphany the other day. I feel like I dont even give a shit anymore about
girls. I could lose all my fuck buddies, I could lose all my prospects, and I wouldnt even give a shit. I would rather write orders, break PRs in the gym and find great new music to listen to than schedule dates with flakey girls.
I wrote 5 orders tonight That's 125$ while working only 2 hours. I'm going for 20 orders this week. I would like a 550$ pay cheque. 550$ for 20-25 hours of work is pretty decent.
I went for a nice little run tonight, because I wasn't able to count my macros tonight, so I went 300 calories over. I ran 6km in 35 minutes. I burned probably 300 calories.
I wasn't able to hit my 7 girl quota today, because of class, homework, gym, and work.
2) Date with Probable Russian Flake
3) Approach 7 girls
4) Write 7-8 orders.
5) Stupid French Homework.
I'm going to get ready for bed now, and then read my book before I go to sleep. I want a really good start to my day tomorrow. The Russian girl will probably flake, so I'll start writing orders at like 4:00. I could get 2-3 orders before I get picked up for work.
im caught between the feelings of losing outcome indepedence and giving up. Am I giving up? Or am I learning to truly not give a fuck? Im not giving up. Im just not going to schedule these dumb dates anymore where I know that I cant close the deal. I dont want to hang out at 4pm when you have class at 5pm.
I like to tell these girls now that Im not looking for a relationship before a date. Im hoping that screens some of these women out, so I dont waste so much of my time and energy.
That late night run last night really helped me get to sleep. Its a good way to burn some spare energy.
Im going to have to work my core again today. I cant go back into the gym and do upper body again. I gotta have a rest day.
A lot of women tell me they have boyfriends lately. Straight off the bat to. I think its because of how fat I am right now. Ill look much better when Im down to 175 again.
Im going home to eat lunch. Then Ill leave for the mall to get some approaches in.
Fuck dates. Screen these women out. I would rather go on 5 dates a month and get 1 lay then 12 dates and get 2. Im not interested in going on dates anymore. Ill adjust my game plan for each date so its the least time consuming for me as possible.
1) meet at mall near my place.
3) cafe close to my house
4) my place.
1) My bar I go to, then
2) My place
Ill tell each girl that I dont want to be her boyfriend. Ill say creepy shit to each girl, like youre sexy.
I have to leave my place by 3:30 for the mall. Then I can be back by 5:00pm for work.
I went to the mall and bought much needed jeans instead of approaching. It had to be done. Shopping is absolutely exhausting. It took an hour to find two pairs that somewhat fit. Afterwards I was so tired that I left.
The guys cancelled work to. Ill go out by myself. I want to write at least 4 orders tonight by myself. He told me if I write 4, Ill get a 25$ bonus.
I know why shopping is exhausting. Its because of the will power muscle. After I shopped my will power was so exhausted, that I had to leave. Thats good to know. I read that in the Power of Habit.
After I wash these jeans, Ill get them tailored to fit. Im sick of wearing these jeans. Theyre too tight on my thighs.
I have a couple more items I want buy and then Im good for awhile.
After I cut down, I wont be bulking again. Its too much of a pain in the ass. All the food, money, and clothes.
Right now, I have extra time. So either I can go back to the mall and approach some girls, or I can write orders. I have to do one of them. I think I might go to the mall instead of write orders. I want to listen to music, and I can't do that when I write orders.
I went out for a power hour and wrote 3 orders not bad. Im super glad I went out.
I wish I had time, I would go to the mall and approach a couple girls now that Im in a way better mood.
Tonight I have a girl coming over to fuck me, tomorrow morning as well, and friday LOL. Ive got a date with a girl who I think is DTF on Friday.
I have a girl coming over tomorrow morning. Frankly, I wish she wasnt even coming. I would rather approach, and get new girls. Fuck buddies are over-rated.
1) Gym, Squats and Deadlifts
2) Approach 5+ girls
3) French Homework
4) Write Orders
1) Gym, Squats and Deadlifts 2) Approach 5+ girls 3) Pound 18-year old Vietnamese Pussy
4) French Homework
5) Write 5 orders
I feel disgusting today. Fat, bloated, and self-conscious. I even wore a sweater. Regardless, im still going to approach a bunch more girls.
Ive got a few more things to grab from the mall.
I need to get a haircut again pretty shortly. I want to look fresh.
I had sex with the vietnamese girl earlier. I jerked off into her mouth and it felt awesome. I wish she would put more effort into her appearence. She could be a solid 8 if she actually tried to look her best everyday.
After class today, ill head to the mall to finish off my approaches for the night. Im excited to work again tonight. I would like to get at least 4 orders.
I feel really frustrated right now. Its probably from all this coffee that I drink. I guess im frustrated because I know I have so much stuff to do, and I want to do it, but I hate it when things like school are in my way. Im pretty stoked to be done school so I can work on things that I actually care about.
I got a 65% on mymidterm. Not that bad, considering I didnt even study. I studied for like 15 minutes before the test.
No numbers again today. Rough start to november lol.
I cant wait to get my pay cheque so I can buy some new clothes. I need it badly. Im going to look mad fly. Ill get my pants fixed up to. Ill be back down to 175lbs soon with sick style and money in the bank.
Im going to write orders again tonight. Probably a lot.
Im going to do laundry on saturday, and then I should devote my day on sunday to writing orders. Ill start at like 11-12am, and work all the way until 9. I could write 10-20 orders and one day and get that 1000$ cheque.
I worked for an hour tonight and made 100$ (4 sales) Not bad. Im really stoked to be getting good at door-to-door sales. Its great. Its lucrative and not that time-consuming. Tomorrow Im getting a cheque for 785$ for last weeks work. Thats the most Ive made in one week in my entire life.
It really is starting to happen for me. Ive got girls and Im starting to make good money. Once I have rock solid logistics and a car, Ill be unstoppable. Those really hot girls are elusive though, and I hate it. I want a 9/10, not a 7/10.
I was reading about social circle game earlier. That is something that I really need to get figured out. I cant keep hiding from this issue for forever. I need to learn how to make friends with guys and girls. I dont want to be Mr. Cold Approach Loner everyday for the rest of my life. I need to progress as a person!!!
I watched a couple valuable videos from RSD. They brought up a lot of good points that shine light on my weaknesses.
3) Approach 5 girls
4) Date with Venezuelan girl
5) Write 4-5 orders
6) Buy new size 52 blazer from Jack and Jones
1) Gym 2) Haircut
3) Approach 5 girls 4) Date with Venezuelan girl
5) Write 4-5 orders 6) Finish The Power Of Habit
My upper body is STILL sore, so I wont be working OHP today again. Ill do core and go for a run. I think I might get my haircut first, and then go to the gym after.
Another 5 second "I have a boyfriend rejection". Didnt even get past Hi, Im Rousseau. It really pissed me off to for some reason. She laughed as I walked away, and it made me so mad lol.
Screw it though, Im just going to approach all day and creep bitches out.
Im going to the gym now, and after Ill get my haircut.
12:29 i just finished in the gym. I went for a short run and did a little bit of core work. Im going to get my haircut now before I have the date.
This girl is WAY uglier than I remembered lol. I need to bail immediately. Shes really sweet though.
After this, Im going do a couple more approaches and then Go home. Maybe relax for a bit before work.
Ok, I need to get out of here. I wish I wasnt so much of an asshole to this girl. I have a hard time being a fun, charismatic, happy person when im not attracted to the girl at all.
Pretty bizarre. Basically I just acted aloof and rude to this girl, and then afterwards she asked me for a kiss. Lol. She asked me for it. I acted like a total ass and she was asking me for a kiss. I learned something today.
Looks like my boss was right. This guy is going to be late to pick me up. Im going to go to the city centre tonight and finish my quota for approaching girls.
So tonight the new manager of the crew was trying to befriend me. I looked down on him with pity and disgust. He offered me nice things and constantly appealed to me and treated me nicely.
He complemented me and I responded by getting defensive and paranoid. He offered me free food and I shot him down and accused him of trying to scheme me. I dont know what the fuck is wrong with me. Why do I do this to people?
I responded by being indignant, questioning his motives, and basically looking down on him like an arrogant cunt. Im a wounded person and I dont know why. I treat people who are nice to me badly. And I wonder why no one wants to be my friend, except for other mean spirited people.
Im seriously considering heading out tomorrow to do a full day of work. From like 10:00- 5:00pm. Ill get as many orders as I can. I want that 1'000$ pay cheque. Its totally within my grasp. In fact, I could get the remaining 14 orders tomorrow. Its very possible.
1 . I've been following your journal for a while and notice you approach 5-7 girls per day usually .... how long does it take you to finish your target # of approaches and are you looking for eye contact or warm approaches ? Do you have to get yourself in the right mood to approach ?
2. Whats your view on Style for Fall and winter ..... its getting colder out nowadays so a simply t-shirt isnt enough .... Im not really good at layering clothes or choosing jackets ..... any advice you would give on what to wear during the cold days ?
3 . Your killing it with the daygame , prob the best one on the forum when it comes to daygame .
When you do your approaches , do you try and make an effort to be confident , 'alpha" strong presence , deep voice , etc ............ or do you approach in a more Non threatening way , smiling , more like a friend type ?
4. I did door to door sales around 2010 and I had horrible anxiety back then and only lasted 3 days . It was 8 hours of walking each day door to door with my co workers , rain or shine .... and honestly not many ppl even opened the door for us . Well I was 230 lbs back then with a shaved head and me and my co workers looked like fukn mafia / tax collectors lol .
How are you soo good at door to door sales and making orders ? Everytime I check your journal , your making multiple sales and hundreds of dollars ........ did you read any books on how to sell ? or whats your approach to do ?
Hope you can answer my questions , I do value your opinion / views on things
Hey, thanks for the input and kind words. i'll answer as detailed as possible.
1. Normally, I try to finish my quota of approaches during my day, when I'm going about my errands and everyday life. For example, I hit the gym first thing in the morning. I'll hit on any hot girls I see there, usually 2-3 girls or sometimes even more. I always take public transit, so there can be a few good opportunities to hit on girls. I'll hit on girls when I see them at the bus stop, in the grocery store, or on my way to the laundromat. If I don't hit my quota, then I head out to the mall that isn't too far from my place and finish my quota for the day.
My daygame sessions are NEVER longer then 30 minutes. I try to do as many approaches in the shortest amount of time possible when I go out specifically for day game. The reason I do this, is because I find myself getting extremely discouraged after walking around for a long time and not approaching girls. What ends up happening, is that I pussy out a couple times, and then I pussy out EVERY time. This is terrible, and why I avoid going out specifically for day game. Even when I do go out specifically for daygame when I have to because of a missed quota, I find a reason for going to the mall. Like, "Oh, I need socks. I'll grab socks and then leave". The key to daygame, is using for something that you do during your day to day activities.
Pretty much all of my approach lays are from girls who made no eye contact with me. There has been a couple times where I made eye contact with a girl and ended up getting her as a notch. But, wandering around for hours looking for eye contact is seriously counter productive, and you will get discouraged like crazy if you do this. Lately, I've been trying my best to capitalize on girls who give me eye contact. It's something that I've been working on, and it's hard. It is a split second reaction.
Somedays I feel like a miserable piece of shit, but I approach anyway. Because it's who I am now, not what I do.
2. Style is something that I've been lacking in lately, because I just got to the end of a bulk. I'm 185lbs right now, and cutting down as much as possible without losing any strength. A lot of my old clothes don't fit.
I find layering to be the difference between a guy who looks stylish as fuck, and a guy who doesn't. For example, things like jean jackets, blazers, leather jackets, and cardigans (that aren't super gay. Some cardigans look gay). Combined with accessories like 1 bracelet, a ring, and a watch and you'll look not bad. I went through a phase where I tried to compensate for my terrible style by wearing a ton of accessories, and looking back on it now, I realize I looked pretty gay and try hard. Don't over do it with accessories! A lot of the guys on here preach accessories constantly, and yeah they're great and can make you look stylish as a motherfucker, but don't over do it. Nothing looks gayer and more try hard than a guy who wears 9 rings, 3 necklaces, 3 bracelets, and a big clunky watch. I think style is a great thing to work on, but if your physique isn't on point, then forget about it man. Being overweight nullifies all style. Your style doesn't mean shit if you're overweight. The only people who get away with being fat are COOL AS FUCK and everybody likes them, or they're celebrities like Notorious B.I.G. lol. Fat guys who fuck hot girls are rare. The only guys who pull this off have insane social proof. Go to the gym. Seriously. If you're not going to go to the gym and get a top physique, then clearly you don't want it that bad.
3. If I'm completely honest with myself, I would say I come across as B/F potential to a lot of these girls. I'm really charming on approach, and a lot of women think that I'm going to be their boyfriend, hence the insane amount of dates that I go on from day game. I usually go on from 12-18 dates a month, which is absolutely ridiculous. In October I approached 83 girls, got 31 numbers, and went on 12 dates. I got one lay. Obscene date to lay ratio, and I'm not proud of it.
This to is something else that I need to work on. It has less to do with style (obviously both style and vibe are factors. I'm saying vibe is a slightly stronger factor), and more to do with vibe. If you open by smiling and giving compliments, women are more likely to position you as the type of guy who will be her boyfriend. This isn't necessarily a bad thing though, as shown by my lay reports.
Honestly, congruence is where it's at. If you don't feel alpha and dominant, don't try to be alpha and dominant. If you feel friendly and cute, talk to them in a friendly and cute way. If you feel alpha and dominant, talk to them like you're alpha and dominant. Just be real.
4. Door to Door sales is great. I made 70$ tonight and I only worked 3 hours. Tonight wasn't even a good night for me. I sell newspaper subscriptions. The problem with D2D is that most people knock all day. Nobody is home from 8am-4pm. Why knock on the door if they're at work and not even home? It's a waste of time. The only time you can knock all day is on saturday and sunday. People are home all day on sunday.
The other problem with D2D is that rookies start out pitching the wrong products. I sell newspaper subscriptions. It is relatively easy and fast. The other problem with D2D is that people don't realize that it's very much a skill, like everything else in life, and it doesn't come easy. You can't knock on doors for a total of 4 hours and expect to be a door to door master. It takes 3 months of knocking at least 4-5 times a week to really become good at it. I haven't read any books yet, but I will eventually when I get more serious about selling.
1) Go to the gym
2) Style is meaningless if youre fat
3) Dont worry about vibe, just be real.
4) Sales is a skill and it takes serious failure to start to win.
By the way, I admire the fact that you never quit. But your excuses get pretty tiresome to listen to. All you need to do is go to the gym. So just do it.
Its one keystone habit that will affect other areas of your life. Once you make the gym a hardcore habit and devotion, you will find the strength and will power to create other great habits. Just go to the gym.
I woke up at 8:00 am this morning. Im feeling kind of tired because I didnt sleep very well last night. I think I might head out and do doors this morning!
Im going to hit the gym and do approaches after I write orders.
I might take a nap before I hit the gym. I dont want to work the OHP when Im tired like this.
I knocked on doors at 9:30am this morning. No one was answering so I went to the gym instead. Im going to do doors right after the gym. I meal prepped this morning so I wont waste that much time.
12:40pm: I just finished in the gym. I got a girls number on the way out. Pretty cute girl with a tight ass.
Im going home now to eat and then go out to knock on doors. It might rain, so I have to be prepared for that. I want at least 5 orders today, and I want to finish by 5 or 6 so I have time to go to the mall and hit on a few girls. Ill probably call the seamstress when I get home to and schedule a day to bring my pants.
Ill do my laundry tonight. I want to be fully prepared for tomorrow. I want to start knocking on doors at 11:00am.
3:10pm I came home and took a nap. Im going to call my seamstress and then get ready to knock on doors until 6-7pm. At least I learned today that 9:30am is definitely too early to start knocking.
I really need to get my ass out the door. I want to be able to hit on more girls before the day is out.
5:00pm The street I was on turned real ghetto fast. I ended up going home. Im still going out with the crew in about an hour though.
It looks like I will miss my 5 approach quota again today. The morning really messed me up today. Now I know for tomorrow though.
I probably wont have time for laundry tonight either. Damnit!!
Im probably going to head straight out to write orders rather than go to the gym first and all that other shit.
The orders are a priority. Ill do other errands after I write 11 orders.
A girl came over last night and we fucked. I was mean to her for some reason, because Im inconsiderate sometimes mostly. I wont be seeing her again.
I need to start going out again or something. I feel like a loser lately. A lonely loser.
Right now, im giving up on a goal and rationalizing why its ok. Its possible for me to approach 7 girls a day with my current routine. Ya, its going to be hard as fuck, but I can do it. I should go out on weekends to. Theres no reason why I cant go out sometimes. At least 1-2 times a week to maintain my gains. Sure, the chance of getting laid is small because of whack logistics, but I should still do it.
I feel really guilty lately, because I havent been hitting my quota for approaching girls. I still approach every day, but its not enough.
Its 12:43pm. Im waiting for my phone to finish charging and then Im going to head out and start knocking on doors. I really want that 11 orders today. As long as I get 5-6 from 1-6pm. When I get picked up later, I can knock on doors with those guys to.
1:40pm I just knocked like 10 doors and only one person answered. I think my time is better spent going to the gym and doing other errands. Im kind of disappointed that I wont be making 1000$ this week, but whatever.
Im going to get groceries and do some approaches.
Fuck I wasted my day inside waiting to door knock when I shouldve been doing other errands.
Im not sure what my deal is lately. Ive been pussying out A LOT on the approach. I missed 2 solid opportunities this morning.
2:41 3 approaches, and all three were straight up disgusted by me. Feels like this has been a re-occuring theme lately. Bunk numbers and bad reactions.
I approached a bombshell earlier. Immediate "I have a boyfriend" response lol.
Im going to go to the gym now probably before work.
3:20 Im in a terrible mood right now. No more approaching at this mall. Time for the gym
Sometimes I feel like Im completely fucked and there is no hope for me. It never seems to get easier. All I can do is my best every day. I should start going out again. Even just once a week.
Knocking on doors this morning really fucked my day up. I dont even have enough time to go to the gym now before work. I wont be doing that anymore.
So tonight I lipped off this old man LOL. It was pretty bad. He picked the wrong night to be a cunt to me.
Man, I really lost it at that guy tonight. Im not proud of myself for doing that. Extreme anger is a sign of weakness and not strength. The next time someone is a rude douchebag, remain calm throughout the entire interaction. This old faggot followed me around and starting yelling at me from across the street.
Next time, its better for me to chill out and handle it well. Just tell him what Im doing and if he continues to be rude, Ill just politely brush him off.
Not gonna lie though, the first time I talked to him, I was pretty chill and professional. I lost it because this faggot started following me around. I could hear him talking shit behind me with someone who was sitting outside of his garage.
Thats whats good about this job. Its teaching me how to do good with confrontation. Ill get better. I just hope I didnt garner a complaint against the company that I work for.
I had fun tonight listening to my co workers. I also called my friend and talked to him for about an hour. It made my day end a lot better.
2) approach 5 girls
3) Buy jeans and Blazer
6) Take Laptop in for a repair.
12:00pm. My laundry is spinning right now. Ill probably head to the cafe right now, grab a coffee and read my book for 30 minutes. Then Ill put my laundry in the dryer and go to the gym.
Before, when I was sitting here, I was overwhelmed with happiness for a split second. It was super weird.
I cant wait to go to the gym. I feel gross right now. Ill hit up girls today like a motherfucker on campus. Creeping out girls is my specialty.
Why is every girl rude to me lately? I just approached another girl who was standoffish and rude? They all "have a boyfriend" or they're Impolite and morose.Im just going to be even more aggressive and sleazy, clearly they dont like it when youre polite and nice.
A girl from about a month ago texted me saying she wants to hang out later LOL. She probably wants to be fucked. Shes only a 6, but whatever, easy pussy is easy pussy. A lot of these girls are coming back. Its kind of funny. Its like a month later they change their mind completely and want to be fucked good and hard.
1:50pm: I pitched the hang out at my place and she bailed LOL. Good, im sick of dates. Like, incredibly sick of them. Now im goingto the gym. Im stoked.
I bailed on the crew tonight, because Ive got to finish all my errands tonight. Ill do a power hour tonight instead. From like 7:30-9:00
Im getting blown out so much lately. Its fuckin weird. 6 times again today.
I have to take my laptop back tomorrow morning. Its too busy tonight. I dont want to stand in line.
6:40. Im not going to have that much time to write orders. Just an hour or 2. Tomorrow, I have to get my laptop in, first thing in the morning. Ive got to get it fixed. I hate recording all my stats on my Iphone.
I have to knock on doors tonight. There is no excuse. Knock every day. Watch and see, ill write 4 hours again tonight. The universe rewards people with an insane work ethic.
8:50: I went out tonight and didnt get any orders. Bummer. Im glad I went out though. The practice is good. It keeps your momentum going to. The longer you avoid doing something, the harder it gets to get back into it at full speed.
Im going through kind of a slump right now with women and work. Im going to come out on top though. I want a super fly ass girl. Ill do anything to get the women that I want.
Im going to Montreal on New Years Eve. I already booked the room lol. Its a pretty sick location. Its rignt on St.Laurent. I had to make sure I go out somewhere on New Years. Last year, I just did cocaine and fucked some girl lol. It was great that I got laid, but I sat in my house doing drugs until she came over. Pretty lame.
I was thinking about my future just now. I want to be a great man. What do I offer though?
I cant lie to myself for forever. I have to find something to excel at. I dont want to just be mister cold approach guy.
I should play guitar again. I should write songs like I used to.
1) Laptop repair
1.5) Replace light in my room
3) Approach 5 girls
5) Write orders.
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