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Rousseau wrote: Today a girl on Tinder who goes to my school, started making fun of me on the app. At first my feelings were kind of hurt, because I took the things that she was saying really personally. I'm still kind of bothered by it to be honest. She called me fat and ugly, and made fun of my coat that I was wearing today. I'm kind of glad it happened in some way, because it brings out my insecurities a little bit. It shows me what I have to work on.
Haha that's random as fuck. A couple of weeks ago some random chick called me just to insult me. I had no clue who she even was. That bothered me for a day or two.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Alright. I woke up at 9:00am. Not too bad. Im going to hit the gym this morning and then do approaches before I go to work. Im going to go to the city tonight. Last night my friend came over and we didnt even end up going out. Fuck, I feel like he holds me back in so many ways.
I got 2 orders today. I need 6 more to hit my big bonus. Im definitely going to go out early tomorrow and make sure I hit it.
I had a decent day in the gym. I was kind of weak though for some reason.
Im not going to hang out with either of my two friends anymore. I think about how much I dislike my one friend almost everyday. Thats a sign. The other guy is cool, but hes too much of a flakey faggot. Im not going to answer his calls anymore. I would rather make new friends. I got invited to go to a club with a girl and her friends, and my co workers invite me out.
I dont need people who hold me back or dont treat me with respect.
Im going to wake up early tomorrow morning and write serious orders. I need to write 6 orders to get the 1050$ pay cheque. I need to write 8 if i want a 1100$ cheque.
Im going to hit the gym probably first though. One thing I dont like about my job is that It gets in the way of me approaching girls. I dont know how im going to approach 200 girls in november if Im working 5:30-9:00 every night. Those are prime time mall hours. I guess ill figure it out somehow.
Re: That girl who randomly insulted you on Tinder:
She's probably a super fucked up person. There is something genuinely wrong with her. She's very unhappy and has probably tried to kill herself several times over the course of her life. No one does that. Plus, I still remember your face from when you had pics up a long time ago, and my friend you are neither fat, nor ugly. Plus you're at the end of a bulk, right? Who cares. That's fucking bizarre thought. Keep in mind she probably hates you because you're a player, and she can tell. Who knows, maybe you fucked one of her friends...
Anyone just droppin in to remind you that girl is a total psycho, and she'd say anything to hurt your feelings. Doesn't need to be any truth in it for her to say it.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
Lol Ive been insulted by online chicks in the past and it hurt my feelings too. Now looking back on it after all the girls I nailed who were way hotter than them its actually quite comical. Those girls were obviously delusional. It's not just girls though, keep in mind, men and women will say hurtful things they don't really mean all the time; they will say anything that makes them feel better or serves their ego in whatever way they see fit.
Also I meant to comment on the thread about kissing girls; I agree with Rousseau that there is nothing wrong with western women. Well there might be something wrong with western culture, maybe, but women are just going with the flow much like everybody else. Increasingly men do not want to be in relationships around here anymore. What do we expect women to do, just go celibate? Personally I do not really fully blame women for amassing rotations of fuckbuddies and playing the field. They're just embracing this weird transitional phase our culture seems to be in. I mean, ten-fifteen years ago I don't think fuckbuddy was even a word. I also like to keep in mind that I could have easily been born a girl myself, and then what? Well I would still be me but just with different hormones and genitals. I would still be a human susceptible to cultural influence as opposed to some pristine princess expected to behave like a robot constantly in a morally upright fashion
Alright. Good start to the day. I woke up at 7:55am. Im going to write some SERIOUS orders today. I want that fat cheque.
1) gym 2) groceries
3) approach 7 girls
*if i have time.
I kind of feel bad that I didnt go out last night. Im on a mission though. When I finish school and I have 10'000 saved, then I can move to a party city and Ill party as much as I want. Its something that I definitely need to do. Ill always wonder what if, If i dont live that lifestyle for awhile.
I was thinking about leaving my headphones at home for awhile when I go out. I listen to music too much. I feel like it distracts me and keeps me in my head. Music should be only for running on the treadmill or long distances.
It will push me to approach more, read more, and be more present. A lot of times, I actually get in a bad mood because I think so much while im listening to music.
I just got out of the gym. I did core and cardio today. Cardio makes me feel pretty good.
Anyway. Off to the laundromat to get my stuff. Then ill get groceries and make lunch before work. I gotta get out to write 6 orders today!!
I approached a very tall and hot Russian before. She said she had a boyfriend. My vibe was weak with her.
I just got a ton of groceries.
Im going to make a quick lunch and then write some orders.
Im on the bus right now, listening to this man let
his obese, ugly, and morose cow-of-a-wife putz-shame him. Its disgusting. She's a war pig. You could ride that bitch into combat against an army of men.
I cant wait to eat quinoa and feta. Then Im going to write orders baby. Better go out soon though. Im running out of time.
I wrote 4 orders tonight. I didnt hit the bonus. But this was my best week so far.
Its kind of weird. I care so much about writing orders lately, that Im not even texting girls to schedule dates Lol. Probably the first time in a couple years where I care more about something else more than pickup.
11:45am: Im at school now. Im reading my book and having a coffee before I hit the gym. Im going to bring my sweater and binder to the mall, and get picked up from there. That way I can hit on some girls before work today.
Im doing good today for not listening to my headphones. Listening to music 24/7 is super anti-social.
1:27pm: I had a good workout today in the gym. Im down to 184lbs. Still managed to bang out the necessary rep's
I cant forget to take my binder and sweater to the mall to get picked up.
Im finding myself avoiding a lot of girls on campus. I feel like Ive approached every hot girl. I think thats just an "avoidance weasel" as Krauser calls it. I should force myself to do a couple anyway.
Its kind of true though. I have approached a lot of them lol. I just seen one now that I already approached. She gave me a bunk number.
Today I made eye contact with a hot girl and then I stopped her. It was bad ass. No number though. I approached another hot Turkish girl but she was a no go either. Pretty annoying.
I decided to ditch all my annoying prospects and start fresh. Ive asked this one bitch 3 times and she says she's doing homework every time. NEXT. I ditched the other ones to. The amount of work that needs to be done to get a DG lay is hardly worth it for me anymore.
I cant wait to move so I can start going out 4x a week. Its too difficult for me here. Taking the bus to a bar is fucking gay.
2:45. I just got home from doing groceries. Im going to make lunch and then take my stuff to the mall to do more approaches before I go to work.
3:53 I really resent having to go do approaches right now before work. I would rather drink coffee and read my book and relax before work.
5:09 I got a number Im really glad I went to the mall to approach instead of sitting at home. It looks like its possible to get approaches in before work after all.
Im going to do one more approach to finish the 7, whether the girl is hot or not.
The girl I got the number from was peculiar. I literally have no idea if she's a solid number or not.
Wow, im so glad I went to the mall to approach
6:00, off to work.
10:00. I wrote 2 orders tonight. A lot better than none. That means tomorrow will be juicy.
A girl I know told me that she is starting a job at a rub-and-tug LOL. She thinks that it's just a naked massage.I almost acted like a faggot about it. I almost started lecturing her about it like I was her fuckin' dad or something. I stopped myself and was like "ya, do whatever you want. You'll make damn good money."I dont want to be a white knight faggot. Women make their own decisions and its none of my business what they do. Dont be a judgmental douche.
Im going to approach 7 girls again tomorrow. It made me feel really good to accomplish that today for some reason. Ive approached many girls at this point, but just because I made it my task and I got it done, made me feel awesome. Tomorrow
1) Gym EARLY
2) Approach 7 girls
3) French Homework
4) Write Orders (at least 5)
I realized tonight that sales is something thats not really for me. Its immoral. I will do it for a couple years, so I can make crazy money, but after that I need to quit. Its not my calling. Its just a way to make money.
i was wondering how you manage to ask girls out on weekdays? it seems like many girls are either busy with school or work, and if they have a kid even harder
also, random question. is your username associated with jean-jacques rousseau, the philosopher? i was watching a frank yang video of how he banged 100+ girls in less than a year. he mentioned 3 things he thinks are important: body/physique (you work out), intelligence (you read), and music (you have artistic talent). he talks about how he reads about philosophy and psychology and talks to girls about it. actually, the funny thing is i mentioned this to 2/3 girls i got #s from within the last 3 days and so far positive responses.
Ya, my username is Rousseau's last name. I dont really agree with his philosophy so much anymore, but when I first started studying political science I found his ideas to be compelling. Especially "perfectability".
Ya, Its hard to find time for dates. I do whatever it takes to get the meetup. I find out when they're free, and I do my best to make our schedules mesh.
I could see how artistry, intelligence, and physique would help you get laid. Those are all admirable things to have. Its hard to convey those
things in 60 seconds during the initial approach. Frankly, im of the opinion that logistics is the most important. You could be a Jimi Hendrix/Albert Einstein/Arnold Schwarzenegger mix, but if your logistics are wack, youre probably not getting laid.
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