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I had 1 SDL but it was not an instant pull. I met the girl in the street at 7 pm, kissed her on the lips, exchanged numbers because she had something to do. I asked what she was doing after, she said "nothing". Then I went back to my hotel and at 9 pm she contacted me to meet right now.
SHE did the work.
Instant-shit is always : the girl is bored so why not spending time with this dumbass ?
EDIT : Also, nothing to do with time because the girl from the SDL, we just had a 5 minutes interaction in the street and then when we met I immediately went to my hotel and we fucked right away. No LMR. Same with most girls I fuck on first date, we always have sex within 30 minutes.
I dont think youre right. Fs ronin, hunk, and hollow have pulled SDL's before, i think more than 1 to. I think hollow in particular has pulled a few SDL's
Last night the date with the hot south korean girl went pretty well. I dont think ill be seeing her again though.
Last night I had 4 beers in total. While I wasnt out of control, I know if I continue on this path Im going to have a really bad night soon, where I get completely fucked up and ruin a relationship with someone.
Drinking for me is a slippery slope, and Ive decided to stop drinking on dates again. Going out for drinks does absolutely nothing for my date to lay conversion, so FUCK IT. I was actually getting laid more when I took girls out for coffee rather than drinks. I think the reason this is the case is because its day time, and they still have plenty time to kill rather than at night when its super late.
NO MORE ALCOHOL, before its too late.
The russian chick has been sending me fucking weird, needy, GF messages.
Shes like "why dont you like sending cute messages".
I was like "we havent even had sex yet, so the cute messages are pretty weird to me honestly. Its not like were dating."
Then shes like "well maybe we shouldnt chill if youre just looking for sex."
I said "ya, im not looking for a relationship at all."
Who on earth would start a relationship that way? Its humiliating. You want sex but she holds out constantly and cock teases you until you finally say "ok lets be in a relationship". Then she puts out and the sex is awful, because the relationship is in her frame so strongly. Shes "not that kinda girl" when youre in that kind of relationship with her, but you know she's been "that kind of girl" with other guys. She just chooses to hold out on you, because she wants to make you her submissive little faggot boyfriend whom she wants to cheat on eventually.
Today i woke up and got dressed. The need from the previous night had me feeling parched. I got a drink, and then crawled out of bed. I got ready, made some coffee and got dressed. Im rocking this black leather jacket today. Now that im up to 190lbs its almost too small.
I went to the gym, and approached onegirl. Immediate I have a boyfriend rejection.
Theres one more chick I want to talk to and then im out of here.
The game is relentless. You have to be on top of your shit everday.
I just got a girls number. I think she is arab. Her ass is so fine lol
I cruised my campus a little looking for fly girls to approach. No luck though, or no girls who caught my eye.
I just approached a girl with "you look interesting". She was a morose bitch. I regret not calling her that lol.
Honestly, it was kind of funny hahaha now that I think about it.
I just approached a really fly girl. We've met before, and she told me she still has a boyfriend.
Her body is ROCKING. Her tits are bomb to, they overflow out of the bras she wears. Its so hot.
Im gonna hit on a few chicks in the mall and then ill go home probably.
I went to the mall. There wasnt a lot of women for me to choose from. 3 pm isnt the best time to be in the mall. 4pm is the prime shit.
I went to wal-mart and got groceries. I bought some Gala apples. Gala apples make my dick as hard as diamonds.
Im on my way home now. Ill probably have a coffee and read my book for a bit.
The other night, I read George Orwell's 'Animal Farm' in one sitting. It was a great book. It had me thinking about my life.
I want to enjoy myself. I want fly girls, i want to be jacked, i want to play music, i want the best food and the best women, but I also want to be pro-active in the world. I should get involved in politics or environmental affairs at some point.
There are too many people on earth who are willing to compromise the progress that we've made as a species.
Im chilling out now before I go to work. Im having a coffee and reading my book. I should invest in a sick house coat, and a pipe. Ill just chill in my chair, reading, smoking my pipe.
I got another number that didnt respond. Whats up with this?
I have a feeling im going to get laid again soon.
Tomorrow, im going to hit the gym in the morning, grab groceries on the way back, and then come home. Ill read for a bit then, and then head to the mall for an hour or 2 around 2pm so I can get some approaches in. Im gonna try and make plans with the failed instadate from yesterday for tomorro night. Ive got to get some dates lined up for the upcoming week.
I think im going to aim for 200 approaches for November and 200 approaches for december. I want to finish the year with at least 25 lays. I would be pretty pleased with that. Thats 10 more than what my goal was.
I should be happy with what I got this year though. My goal was to reach 15 lays, and I made it to 19 and ive still got 2 months to go.
The truth is that i wont be satisfied with my life unless I get to sleep with the women that I really want. Im going to do whatever it takes to get what I want.
I need a phase of my life where I sleep with tons of women. 20 women in a year is NOTHING.
I want to fuck 50-100 women in a year. Then I want to fuck the hottest women that I could possibly get.
Is every man like this? Does every man think about women and sex this much.
Actually if she is like my only russian girl, she will ONS the shit out of you when she will put out.
It is based only on 1 experience so it is unreliable. But the russian chick I fucked, she made a lot of effort to pretend she is a good girl, she is "not that kind of girl", etc. We had a very low-key first date (restaurant), I walked to her home with her, she didn't want to let me in. And then she got drunk the day after, called me, asked where is my hotel and we fucked right away.
After the lay, she slept over. The day after she had to go to work. When she had a break we went for lunch. Then we met again for dinner. And she did one of the most disgusting thing you can do and ONSed the shit out of me.
I was furious. Fucking russian girls.
Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do.
A girl texted me back this morning, giving me a time when we can hang out
I woke up this morning, had some coffee, and read my book for a bit. I decided to head to the gym after I have something to eat, and then Ill hit the mall to do some approaches before work today.
A really long time ago, before I started the AA program, i seen this Arab girl. I think her nane is danya. I seen her on the bus, and sat down a couple seats next to her. I basically contemplated talking to her, for 10 minutes.
Then this other guy got on the bus and started hitting on her right in front of me in the most ghetto, uncharming, and abrasive way possiblr. She ate it up lol. I sat there feeling so immasculated haha.
Fast forward about a year later. Ive done the AA program, ive slept with some girls from cold approach. I approach her, and she acts totally annoyed by me. She said she has a boyfriend..
I thought to myself "At least I tried".
I hit on her again a year later. I sat right beside her on the bus and introduced myself to her. I said she was really sexy, and she again was totally uniterested in me. She ignored me. Mostly because of the way I was talking, which was quietly. I was worried about other people on the bus hearing me get rejected.
Its funny, when I see these same girls, i want to talk to them so badly lol. I just dont know how to go about it. I could be like "hi, ive talked to you before. Your name is danya right?" I cant see
how that wouldnt work.
I just ran into a girl i slept with once. We talked for a bit briefly. I havent been myself lately, ifeel self-conscious when im talking to girls. I turnned the conversation around once. I asked her a bunch of questions and got her talking. I feel like thats a way better way of interacting with girls. Play around, joke around, tease them, and ask them questions.
I definitely need to work on teasing. I seriously suck at it. I end up being mean.
I seen a dorky indian guy hitting on a smokesow. Good for him. He looked really submissive when he was talking to her. Timid facial expressions, hands in his pockets. Things like that. Remind me not to do that ever. Just be relaxed and confident.
I only approached 1 girl here, now Ive got to go to work. Im starting to not like this job either. It takes time away from approaching. Maybe I should go out tonight and hit on girls in a bar or something.
I wanna go out at night, but I dont wanna spend any money. I want to get some $$$ so I can get fly clothes that make me look sick. Maybe I should look into getting another part-time job so I have some more cash flow. Or maybe Im better off to put my heart and soul into my sales job, so I make lots of money without sacrificing a ton of my time.
I think Im better off to channel my anger and frustration into my sales job and the gym. I'm going to make mad sales tonight. Im going to finish at least with at least 4.
I listened to a podcast with Christian Mcqueen and Krauser, and it's really good. It made me feel pretty happy about my progress and where I can go with my life. Despite Mcqueen's obvious misogynism, I feel like he's a pretty cool motherfucker. Same with Krauser, although he hardly strikes me as a misogynist. When I look back on my history of cold approaching, the fact that I've got 18 day game lays in about a year and a half (I didn't start approaching a lot until February of 2015) of approaching is pretty impressive. If I continue on my path of improvement, how will 2016 look?
I've decided that I'm going to up my approaches quota again for sure, like I said yesterday. I'm going to approach 400 girls in the remainder of the year. Just because in July it was a failure to approach 300, it doesn't mean it will be the second time. This means that I have to approach at least 6-7 girls a day.
I made 190$ tonight at work in 4 hours. It was my best performance at work yet. I'm pretty optimistic that I'm going to start putting in big numbers from now on. Like 750$-2000$ cheques per week (while only working 20 hours maximum).
I think that I can put in 6-7 approaches a day despite not having full afternoons to approach. I can make it happen, i just have to never hesitate.
If i approach 5 girls before 2pm tomorrow im going to head out and make sales before I get picked up for work. It would be great if I could get at least 5 or 6 sales again tomorrow.
I just shaved my beard. Not gonna lie, I look pretty fucking handsome when im clean shaven.
Im going to keep being a cool guy with the super hot asian girl from my gym. Ill just chat her up every once in awhile, and ask her to hang out.
I used GLL's face washing routine tonight. Its been a few weeks since ive used the Aztec clay.
Neither the south korean girl, or the arab girl confirmed our date times today, so im wondering if they'll pull through?
Ill probably get a few numbers tomorrow, so its not a big deal if they dont. Other than that, I dont have many prospects for a new lay. October might be cold-approach-lay-free! We'll see though. All it takes is one girl to turn that all around.
I woke up at 8:00am today. I wanna get at least 7 approaches in today before I go to work.
1) Gym 2) Groceries
3) 7 Approaches
5) Date with a girl (not sure which it will be yet.)
Goddam i feel super fly today.
Actually, in combination with my tight pants, snall shoes, and bead necklace, i look pretty dumb. I definitely need to fix my outfit before I go to the mall.
I shaved last night, and today I notice that I have kind of a double chin because of my bulk. I weighed myself this morning and im 189lbs. Its funny, i cut my calories back by almost 300 and im still gaining weight.
Im a fat fuck right now LOL. No use being all upset and depressed about it. I look like a doughy little butt plug haha
Im gonna put some boots on when I get home.
I approached a really hot arab woman in Wal Mart today. Dressed well, beautiful dark eyes and hair, big tits; the whole works. It was pretty gangster
I approached another girl in the gym who ended up being pretty ugly. She was nice though.
Now im just making lunch at home, before I head to the mall to creep on some fly girls. Im gonna buy a cheap white t-shirt while im there.
So i ended up taking a nap instead of approaching. Not a big deal. During the week at school is juicier for approaching anyway. Im a little bummed out about the South Korean girl vanishing. She was very hot. Easy 8.5/10, succesful, smart, and fun to be around. Her ass and tiny waist was unbelievable for an Asian woman.
Im going to do my best like DC7 said, and be totally reserved and literally say nothing on dates. Il turn around every question, every word, onto them and get them talking as much as possible. Then pitch the idea to come back to my place.
My date to lay rate isnt good at all.
They say insanity is doing the same shit over and expecting the same result. Maybe its time for a change.
Great way to screen girls:
"I'm not interested in a relationship." - I put this in my Tinder profile, and now the only girls who message me are DTF. Also the last time I said this to a girl, she ended up putting out but I forgot to bring a condom. I have a feeling tomorrow's date, will be a lay for me.
Invite the girl to a place CLOSE to your place. As close as possible. The venue you take a girl to, literally has no effect on your chance of pulling her into bed.I pulled more women home from coffee shops at 3pm than I have from bars where I met the girl for drinks. A girl that wants to fuck you, will fuck you. 2 drinks isn't going to change her mind if she is non-DTF.
I want to make fat stacks so I can buy some new pants for gods sake. All I need is 3 nice pairs that fit good.
White zara coat
Double breasted winter coat
Warm ass parka
Black shoes from they call it spring
I woke up late this morning, so I wasnt able to get tickets for the pub night. No worries though, theres probably way cooler shit going down.
One of the girls tried to cancel on me today. Then she texted back and re-confirmed lol. Girls are funny.
Im about to hit the gym before I meet up with this girl. My friend is trying to meet up with me, but the truth is that I really dont want to hang around him that much.
I wonder if I can pull this cute little Arab hussie back to my place today? I havent banged a sand negro in years hahaha. Maybe she'll go jihad on my cock.
I just approached that other really hot asian girl. She said she's taken. Im such a creepy pimp hahaha.
I approached a really hot girl outside the gym. I got her number.
The arab girl ended up bailing. She changed her mind twice in 2 hours. Im not even mad, im just baffled by the indecisiveness of some of these women lol. Its insane. I kind of made fun of her a bit for being indecisive lol. She probably feels bad.
Im gonna hit the mall now and get myself a couple t-shirts. Hopefully ill hit on a few girls. Actually im gonna get groceries and go home for lunch first. There's no point in going to the mall when its not busy. Ill leave my place for the mall at 3:30 instead.
Im leaving for the mall now, its 4:00pm. Ill get there at witching hour.
Failure is interesting. No one says "I gave up and failed". There is always a rationalization there when they fail to find that missing piece to take their game to the next level.
One such rationalization Ive heard is "I dont even like these girls."
Or, "I dont want to be the old guy in the club". My friend said that, and he's 26? This is his reason for not going out and hitting on girls. I have to give him credit though. He said he doesnt do daygame because he cant take the rejection. I respected that a lot. 98% of people are not honest with themselves.
I made 4 orders and 1/2 tonight again at work. I'm getting better and more consistent. I made 112$ at work in 2 hours and 30 minutes.
I was thinking earlier, that maybe I should start going out 3 nights a week again. I stopped going out and I stopped approaching as much a couple months ago. I shifted my attention to work. I still kept it real with approaching though. I'm thinking that there is no reason that I can't approach 200 girls per month, go out 2-3 nights a week, and work every night. There is no reason. I'm only taking one course in school right now, it's not like I'm taking 5 courses. I can't be doing that badly. I do every assignment, I go to class, and I do the homework.
I should work harder. I'm already working pretty hard, but I should be working even harder. I should be going out 3 nights a week, approaching 200 girls a month, making a minimum of 500$ a week, and going to class and doing well in my final course.
I got 2 numbers today from hot women. Im going to try and get a couple more before I go to work. Im wearing some new shoes. Theyre Geox Respira black shoes. Theyre kinda dressy yet casual at the same time, i dig them.
I like that. They go with my jacket to.
Im gonna make mad sales tonight. At least 4 again.
Im going to swim in pussy and money.
When I have the funds, im going to get back into boxing and jiu-jitsu. I want that masculine energy thats firmly grounded by the knowledge that you can handle yourself against other people. I want to be most masculine, charming and fun guy around.
I got 3 numbers today, not bad.
Now im on my way to work. I wanna finish with at least 30 orders this week.
I had a fantastic day today. I made 5 orders again, I got the 20$ bonus, I got 3 numbers from approaching, I OHP'ed 115x10 times today, a new PR, and now I'm at home. I have a date tomorrow with a pretty girl. She's thick I love curvy women with narrow waists. It's really hot for me.
I have another date set up for Next monday, and Friday coming up. I'm really looking forward to a new lay. I have a feeling it's going to be really soon.
I woke up at 9:00 am today. I feel good, I look good, its all good.
Im on my way to the gym now, then I have a date. Logistics are bad though. Oh well, it will still be fun. Im gonna try and do 10 approaches today.
Ive been having trouble with flakes this past week. 3 in a row.
Today, I approached this girl and sat down beside her. Her friend came up to us after and they started talking. Her friend digged my confidence. But, the chick I approached started talking about a guy that was "playing games with her" to her friend, and immediately I was turned off. She was talking about another dude she likes right in front of me. I was thinking "nah, screw this, you can do better."
I got up and walked away after saying bye. I didnt ask for the number or anything. Briefly I thought to myself if I overreacted, but nah. Its better to trust your intuition sometimes. If you feel like your boundaries are being violated or youre not being shown the respect you deserve, you probably are.
I dont have incredible talent, but I have perseverence and the ability to be consistent
Im going to hit up the mall for some approaches. Theres no reason not to do some.
I was on the bus, and a cute FOB venezuelan girl was EYEING me up like crazy. Smiled at me and everything. I decided to turn around and talk to her. I got her number
Ive definitely got to take advantage of opportunities like that more often. Warm approaches are great. I mean, I havent really gotten laid by any of them yet, but theyre great for getting numbers. I notice that when you hesitate, they are way more likely to blow you off.
Whenever I focus on warm approaches, I end up walking around and fishing for eye contact instead of approaching.
I have to learn to do both. Approach the girls I want, but also dont avoid girls just because they didnt look at you.
I didnt end up doing any in the mall. Oh well. Tonorrow is a new day. At least I got a solid number.
Its almost impossible for me to do approaches before work without holding up the crew. I have to think of an alternative way of doing approaches before work. Maybe I could carry a change of clothes with me and my work binder and get picked up at the mall? It would save serious time.
I think thats my only option if I want to approach 200 women a month while still working every evening to make fat stacks.
I slept with that jamaican girl from a long time ago lol. I find it pretty amazing that it played out the way I did.
This morning, notch 47 came over and sucked my dick Life is good.
Im on my way to school now. Hopefully I can approach a few girls and get a few numbers before work.
The busty Indian girl bailed on our date tomorrow. The venezuelan girl is being a pain in the ass as well lol. Its all good though.
I only made 1 sale yesterday, so today should be a really good day for sales. Ill finish with at least 4 today.
I got one number today from a hottie. I reinvigorated another number from a well dressed russian chick.
Today a girl on Tinder who goes to my school, started making fun of me on the app. At first my feelings were kind of hurt, because I took the things that she was saying really personally. I'm still kind of bothered by it to be honest. She called me fat and ugly, and made fun of my coat that I was wearing today. I'm kind of glad it happened in some way, because it brings out my insecurities a little bit. It shows me what I have to work on.
I wonder how often men say really mean shit to women on Tinder. It makes me think that maybe girls do have it pretty tough sometimes. There are probably a lot of butthurt guys out there that get mad, and say hurtful things to women. I was one of them (sometimes I still am one of them, shamefully)
It's going to be hard to make a lot of sales tonight, considering the mood I'm in. Hopefully I don't get my ass kicked tonight.
I made 9 orders tonight. I got the 100$ bonus, on top of 220$ made in sales. So I pulled in 320$ tonight in 3 hours I'm going to be a fuckin' baller
I've been having a lot of sex lately, and I have quite a few different women to text when I want to get laid, but im still not seeing the quality that I want. Im getting 7's consistently. Over and over again in fact.
I feel like every once in awhile, I get a real hottie to chill with me. The south korean girl was a solid 8.5. I dont feel like I act differently when im with them. If anything, Im more charismatic and interested in them when they are hot. But maybe thats the problem. Im a little too interested and charismatic. I think the answer lies in 1) logistics and 2) my game.
Im exposing too much of myself, and showing too much interest. Im leaning in too much. Im showing too much interest.
I woke up today at 9:00am and meal prepped a little bit. I had a coffee, and took some phenibut.
10:53 Im going to hit the gym now, and rock the squat and deadlift. I just remembered that my gym gear needs to be washed. I dont really have time to do laundry.
Ill just take my dirty stuff and get a quick workout in.
I have a date tonight at 3:00, but I highly doubt that she'll pull through. She has already flaked once.
I still cant believe I pulled out 9 orders and all the bonuses last night for a total of 320$. Im going to hit 30 orders this week and get that 1100$ pay cheque.
1:28pm: Im done in the gym. I approached a girl who sat next to me on the bus. She was Serbian.
I approached another girl outside the gym who Ive seen before. She is cute, but She seems like a buzz kill.
When I get home, im going to munch out and wash a pair or 2 of my boxers so I dont have stank ass anymore lol.
Ive got to leave my place for the mall at 3:30 today. No exceptions. I can be home for work at 5:00pm then
Im going to fuck a new hot girl soon
3:52: Im contemplating taking a nap before work. I didnt go to the mall. I feel like the longer I stay home after I eat, the less likely I am to go to the mall.
Maybe Ill start work early tonight and try to get a couple orders before I get picked up. That would be a good use of my time.
Im going to hit the gym in the morning, and then write orders from like 12:30 - 4:00. Id really like to make at least 4-5 orders tomorrow. Im at 23 orders on the week. I need 7 more to get the 200$ bonus. Ill get the 1100$ pay cheque then
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