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I'm starting a log to keep myself accountable, and to make sure I go out at least 12 nights a week every month. I'm sick of this pussy footing around, where I inconsistently go out. It's time to get this shit handled. Night game is the last thing I need to fully take control of my sex life. Now that I'm good at daygame, it's time to get better in other areas.
I'm not doing Chris' cool new program, I'm going out alone and doing my own thing because I don't need the structure, as I'm perfectly comfortable with approaching in any context. My problem is just getting my ass out the door.
So here is the purpose of the log.
- I need to go out at least 3 nights every single week, with or without people. I will count the nights that I go out with a wingman.
- I need to go out 36 times by the end of September.
I went out tonight with my bud, and we didn't even go in. There was literally nobody inside the club, because apparently the club recently changed hands. A bunch of black people took it over. The doorman was being a cunt, even though the venue was empty. Faggot.
It was kool hanging out with this guy again.
I'm going to count it tonight, because we at least went out and made the effort.
It feels good to actually to go out again. Once you get the ball rolling it's a lot easier to keep riding that momentum. Now that I have more time, I'm going to see if I can round up a crew to go out in Wednesday nights.
Either way, I'm gonna become good at night game over this summer, that way when I move to Montreal I'll already be ahead of the game and I can start pulling the day I get there.
Starting logs like this make me feel really good for some reason, like I'm genuinely making progress.
Went out alone the 4th. time. Well I started with a buddy and continued alone in another location, if that counts. It helps to start with friends to get in social mood. At least for me, because I am a loner by choice (i need a lot of time alone to recharge as introvert as well) and barely talk to anyone the whole week.
I am doing the same mistake again and again. FUCKING MOVE ON IF SHE ISNT DTF. SHE WILL GLADY WASTE YOUR TIME ANYWAY. FUCK YOU BITCH. I am always so stupid.
I am doing like 2 approaches on average. It's too low.
All I can say.
I will sleep now and try day approaches for the first time. What are the odds of successfull (pull home) cold day approaches on sundays? I feel like towards the end of the week people aren't that stressed. Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays are the best days I guess? Any experience on that anyone or doesn't matter?
I am going out tonight. I'm going to mission to the city and hit up one of the bars there. This is my note and promise to myself that I go out no matter what.
Do I wanna succeed at this or not? Do I wanna succeed, or do I wanna be a little weird forum bitch. Do I want to fuck girls and accomplish goals and provide for myself, or do I want to be an average bitch who lives a life of regret?
Being exceptional is weird. The word exceptional has the word exception in it, and it means that to be amazing you are the exception to the norm. Is going out by yourself to meet women weird? Ya it is. But is sleeping with 70 women a year weird? Ya it is. I have to be a exceptional and weird person if I want exceptional results.
I'm on my way right now. I'm going to approach at least 5 girls and I'm going to practice pulling girls away from their friends. I'm going to try it 5 different times.
I'm posting my outfit to, because I think I look pretty sick. I was thinking earlier about changing up my style a bit. I'm going to add a bit more dressier or formal items to my repertoire; things like suit jackets (or Blazers I think they're called?), vests and dress shirts and dress shoes.
I also really like those big beaded necklaces. They look sick with a fresh haircut, undercut style.
Edit: I went out tonight and I approached 4 and tried to pull one chick away from her friend. I seen someone I knew there and then I felt ashamed that I was there alone so I forced myself to do one more approach then I left.
I feel great for trying again though. I'm getting the ball rolling on night game and I know that with consistency I will get the results that I want.
Some other notes on what needs to be improved.
- leave earlier so I can be at the venue from 10-1:00am
- spend more time In the venue
- stop leaving conversations early.
These are not that important though, because I know that if I consistently go out 3 nights a week, my anxiety and discomfort in loud venues will decrease and I'll be able to be more at ease.
I'm stoked to go out again tomorrow night. Going out solo makes me feel so good afterwards. Taking massive action is where it's at.
In July I'm going to go out 3 nights per week and I'm going to approach 10 girls a day instead of my usual 5. I slacked off a little bit in June, because I quit my job and my schedule got fucked up for a week. I'm going to make up for it by getting 5 new lays in July. Mark my word.
The outfit in my opinion looks a little average (looks good though). In my opinion you want to stand out but in a congruent and non try hard way and a cool way. I think the pictures with the items you suggested will work. Although the true test is if the ladies like it. Always test with the ladies. What you think you look good in and what the ladies think you look good in might be two different things.
Hey thanks for the honest feedback, I feel like there isn't much of that on the forum sometimes and ya honestly my style is kind of average. I would say it'a slightly above average but definitely not something super special. Im working on it lately, but it's pretty tough to really have exceptional style which is what im shooting for.
You are by far the guy Im rooting on in the forum to be our messiah if that makes any sense lol
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
This is my promise to myself that I will go out again tonight no matter what.
I was thinking earlier about my friend. He's always trying to convince me to stick to daygame. I think he knows that I have what it takes to be massively successful, but it makes him jealous so he doesn't want me to be too Successful.
I've been getting bad vibes from him in other ways. He'll judge me for sleeping with virgins or display a negative attitude in general when I talk about what I've been doing. This is why you got to be able to do things alone.
I went shopping today. I want to look SUPER FLY from now on. I want to be the best dressed guy within 100 miles. I tried to follow the image I uploaded from yesterday as closely as possible.
I'm probably going to iron the pants and shirt though. They're a bit wrinkly
Daygame is tough. I feel like everyday is a battle. I have been approaching a lot consistently for the last couple days and I haven't been getting solid numbers at all.
I've realized that game does exist and it does apply to me. Notch 42, when I approached her wanted to walk away from me but I persisted that she stay. I ended up having her in my bed.
Today I had a similar situation with a girl who clearly liked me but I let her go.
I uploaded some other ideas for outfits. When I dress really good like this I kind of feel self-conscious. It's like the 14 year old in me is like "FAG!! Only fags dress good!!"
EDIT: so I went out tonight with a wingman. I'll talk later. Pretty mediocre night though.
I only approached one girl, but I went for the kiss. I totally creeped her the fuck out. It was a fresh-off-the-boat Japanese girl who could barely speak English. She got up from the seat and walked past me and started talking to the security guard. Now that I think about it, I think she was trying to get him to kick me out LOL. Then the girl across from me said to me in her broken ass english "that I was boring". I was like "wtf?" I wasn't even talking to you bitch? My friend bailed on the interaction early because he couldn't talk to the other girl because her english was so bad.
I'm still not comfortable with these venues at all yet. I can't stand there comfortably and not be in my head. In fact, I sweat pretty profusely when I'm there because I'm so anxious. Funny thing is that back in the winter time when me and my other wingman were going out every weekend 2 days in a row, I was starting to build momentum. This really is all about consistency and I know that, despite not having the experience in nightgame to prove it. I know consistency is definitely the #1 key in daygame so it has to be true for night game as well.
Same problems as the night before though.
1) not approaching enough girls
2) getting to the venue too late
3) Too far of a commute to the venue (bad logistics, this is beyond my control right now so I won't list it again)
4) Not spending enough time in the venue to get the ball rolling.
Like I think we spent maybe 30 minutes in the place. We should be spending at LEAST an hour. Like I said before though, after 2 or 3 more weeks of going out 3 times a week, I will have some serious momentum to start making big strides.
I forgot to mention that when I was wearing the outfit in image45 (down below), I was getting some attention. One chick told me she liked my outfit when I approached her. I got one girls number and she told me that she noticed me in the mall walking around before I approached her. That's a good sign. It's not a bad idea to steal outfits from pinterest more often. I feel like once you've acquired a couple nice dress shirts, suit jackets, pants, and shoes, then it's easy to start making more great outfits.
I've been thinking lately about what constitutes "above-average" style on the forum (and by Chris himself), and I've realized that what is preached as "above-average" style is actually average style. To wear jeans and a T-shirt with a couple bracelets isn't "above-average", it's just average. Most guys aren't as stylistically retarded as PUA's and (us here at GLL like to think) If you want to truly be "above-average" you need to go beyond the "nice t-shirt and ripped jeans" style. It makes me think that probably 98% of the guys on this forum don't actually go out to approach during the day, or go out at night. Because when I look around outside I see a lot of guys with a fashion IQ that is higher than what is preached here.
I'm gonna approach as many girls as possible, and I'm going to practice pulling girls away from their friends.
I'm posting the outfit that I'm gonna wear.
Edit; I went out with a group of guys. It ended up being more of a hang out then for hitting on girls which was kinda lame, but I never do that so it was really fun for a change. We had a good time. I did one approach.
If I have time I might go out tomorrow night as well. gonna end my weekend awesome with some pussy tomorrow night. I'm going out for dinner with notch 41, and then we're coming back to my place. My reward for going out sober and hitting on girls fantastic in bed for an 18 year old.
Some funny shit happened last night. A couple nights ago my friend told me that when he was in Israel he slept with 2 girls, one girl had fake tits. I knew right away that he was lying, because he never approaches or makes a move when we go out together.
Last night we were chilling with one of the guys he went to Israel with, and another guy asked him if he got laid when he was is Israel and they both said no. My friend couldn't lie about his trip to Israel because the guy he went with was with him lol. This is one of the reasons I value lay reports with proof so much. So many guys are full of shit. They blatantly lie about sleeping with women if they can get away with it.
I don't give a single fuck what a guy says, if you don't have the proof to back up your claims, whether it's with naked pics of the girl, or great style and obvious skills with women then I HIGHLY doubt what you say. Guys have been lying to me about women since I was 14.
So many of these guys I see are just bitches. They talk a HUGE game but they DONT DO SHIT. They just talk and talk and talk.
The funniest ones are the guys that talk about their friends accomplishments like "my boy does this and my boy does that. My boy is a club promoter, and my boy is a sick hockey player, and my boy is a pimp with women; he fucks 100 girls a year."
It's like "BITCH, I don't give a fuck what your boy does. This is your life, what do YOU do? What do YOU bring to the table? Or do you just sit back and leech social value off a guy that isn't even here like a pussy co-dependent little bitch.
Why stop there? Based on your 42 notches you can already get laid so why not just try and pull them away and go home asap to fuck them? I think if you raise the bar higher like it it will yield higher return so to say.
Nice style btw, I like the blazer. In my experience white shoes during clubbing are a big NO however, it destroys them
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