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So I'm talking to a group of 3, 2 girls and 1 guy. I have them rolling laughing for an hour, the girl has taken off her jacket and is touching me this and that. I'm teasing her, all you've got going really. She pulls closer at one point, I tell her do you go to such and such place. Her eyes light up, I said I'll be there tomorrow you should come by and get a drink. She turns and says in this muddled arrogant bitch voice, you need to work on your game.... What should I have said. On one hand Chris says all the PUA shit is garbage and I agree, but then suddenly I mean you hear "You need to work on your game". Like what? No matter how horny I get this girl and excited the second I ask for her number or ask her out it's the same bullshit game.
I agree with you guys on the insta pull but I think that's a part of natural interest. It's hard to explain. There's an article called natural vs pua which kinda explains it. This has happened in different ways before where I honestly just wanted a quick lay vs real interest in the girl. If you want to call real interest game, call it game but when a guy is legitimately interested he teases, qualifies and all that shit because he feels like it. He wants an insta because he flat out wants to fuck her brains out.
step 1) don't have girls laughing for an hour - you're not an entertainer.
step 2) make obvious move within 10-15 min max. (hold hand, arm around shoulder, etc)
step 3) talk to more chicks, don't give a fuck about any one singular experience
Well, she's right, lol. You do need to work on your game. The fact that you talked to her for an hour + didn't make a move + didn't isolate her + got offended when she made a slick remark proves it.
Everyone here is right. Don't waste your energy thinking about this one girl. She sounds like a fuckup anyway.
But you should still learn something from your experience.
1. Spend about 5-10 talking to a girl before you go for the pull (number or place to fuck).
2. Go for girls who are alone.
3. TOUCH her at some point, sooner rather than later.
4. Don't take anything they say seriously. That shows very little confidence in yourself.
You're basically saying, "You're right. I need to work on my game because it is not up your standards and your pussy matters so much to me."
If a bitch told me some dumb shit like that, I would just laugh and say something like, "You need to work on submitting to my masculine energy." or "You need to work on pleasing daddy." I'm basically saying something is wrong with HER (which is true) in a way that sounds kind of funny, but I'm being completely serious, too. That's me, though. The point is, fuck what she thinks. Her opinion means shit.
Remember, bro. This is YOUR world. These bitches are just living in it.
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