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So yesterday a went to this party, and i saw this chick, i went there and i told her: Hey its too loud follow me. I put my hand in a position that she could grab it but she didnt (I didnt care): We went outside the bar so i asked her name (i forgot it lol) i shook her hand and did the bodyguard routine she was like: ..ok.. Then, she grabbed my hand and made me release her hand, i tried to grab it again but she didnt let me, so i just asked where did she studied and where she was from (she gave me a pair of lame answers) I told her: i feel like this is not going anywhere right now, but if you want to, give me your number. She gave it to me but obviously i wont call her. I hope i made myself clear. (SoRreh FUr bod englush im ItaLian) My opinion is to just keep trying to grab her hand every 2-3 minutes or some shit like that. What would you guys do?
"You worry too much, you're gonna have a heart attack"
First off give her a phone call. You already have a phone # so might as well just give it a shot.
She was not feeling good that night, perhaps you call her and she's DTF. THIS HAPPENS OFTEN.
About holding a girls hand. It could happen or not, not much is really under your control about that.
Remember to do most of the talking and "sharing". Be playful. A technique that works for me is holding her hand and accusing her of wanting to hold my hand. It opens the conversation to talk about "holding hands and hugging and touching" and once you have girl engaged at that level, the fun begins.
So pick up the phone, call her and make it happen.
Honestly dude, Chris is 100% right, but also sounds to me like you are relying too much on hand holding.... its not a big deal at all. You led the girl out of the bar and she was talking to you, she gave you lame answers to lame questions... the girl is/was lame... doesn't mean she wouldn't of fucked you or isnt interested. You bailed on this way to early. At the end of the day, if you can lead the girl to a sex location, that's what matters. Might as well shoot a text, if she is responsive then push. Don't let pride get in the way dude, which is what happened when you were hitting on her, and is also happening now.
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