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I can't bang girls. I have no skill whatsoever. No matter what do, no matter how hard I try all by myself, I simply have no natural talent to use any PUA techniques that sexualize conversations with women. Even Conversation with people, in general, has never been my forte. Also, I have no intention of ****ing fat ugly chicks or even those who are barely average looking.
Yeah, but let's not forget that the history of mankind has always been a history of men having superior authority over women. Therefore, men have always had the power to demand respect from women much more easily than vice versa. I don't mean to sound sexist, but this has always been the reality of the world that we live in. Even seduction experts have said that men must always be the ones to initiate regardless of the situation, always be in charge and lead women in any matter, and always command attention and recognition from women.
I am aware that I sound a lot like Elliot Rodger given how highly indignant my tone is. However, let me clear about something. I by no means have any intention of hurting anyone in anyway, whether it be a man or a woman, young or elderly, children, adolescents, other adults, etc. I am feeling outraged about all of this because despite all of my efforts to have even an acceptable sex and social life I am still a complete social and good looking loser (even much more than Chris ever was). I am not a saint by any means, but I know that I have always been considered by other throughout my entire life to be a good person and a gentleman. I have never ever taken advantage of any women who have admitted to have real feelings for me but never had any attraction for any of them. I have been involved in charity work before, and want to continue to help others as a healthcare practitioner in the future. My sister, my parents, and other female acquaintances have always said the same kind of bullshit that nice guys usually hear which "oh, you will find someone, you're a sweetie pie, you're good boy, you don't need to change, just be yourself, you just haven't found the right girl/woman for you, that's all, blah blah blah blah......" Yet, I am not stupid to realize that it doesn't matter how good of a person you are or how hard you try. It's about how strong you are as a man both mentally and physically along with having appealing looks, style, confidence, and swag factor (to a degree). While, I may have gotten physically over the years and in a way have gotten used to approach girls and people in general, I am obviously still mentally weak. I mean, come on guys, you don't think that this all seem to be at the very least, a little bit strange? Should I give you some field reports of mine or what? Give me some legit help brothers!
ULTIMATELOSER360 wrote: Yeah, but let's not forget that the history of mankind has always been a history of men having superior authority over women. Therefore, men have always had the power to demand respect from women much more easily than vice versa. I don't mean to sound sexist, but this has always been the reality of the world that we live in. Even seduction experts have said that men must always be the ones to initiate regardless of the situation, always be in charge and lead women in any matter, and always command attention and recognition from women.
ya that's more a combination of biology, evolution, and sociology, social constructs
You are a man... It's on you to take your sex life into your own hands... How bad do you want it... Do you want to bang hot girls as bad as I do... I don't think you do... To me it sounds like you want to be recognized for being a good looking guy who is also a model citizen more than you actually want to fuck hot girls... Your desire to fuck hot girls needs to be forefront... You are a man which means just like somebody already said that nothing will be given to you... it might sound bad but it's liberating when you embrace your role in the natural world... If you're tired of hearing people tell you things they say to nice guys then commit to longer being such a nice guy... Put yourself and your needs first... Be selfish... Care more about fucking the girl than you care about hurting her feelings or breaking her heart or pissing off her friends an then you will rarely be called a nice guy ever again... Also, if you want validation for being good looking... It is true that you are a good looking guy (face wise) which means you have potential but I'm going to tell you something that you may not like... Having a good looking face by itself will get you jack shit in terms of getting laid... You have to have sex appeal + plus social freedom + plus experience/killer instinct... Among other things... A good looking face by itself does not make girls hot and bothered... Sex appeal = face + body + height + style + skin + haircut + grooming + vibe + other things I'm forgetting to mention.... No offense but judging from your pictures you still have a lot of maxing out to do when it comes to your overall sex appeal... You are a good looking guy so don't take what I said as an insult but you have work to do... It also sounds like you prolly have poor social skills and a negative outlook on life... Things to fix... Hold on, I'm gonna take a look at your pictures and give you some specific feedback
Ok I just took a closer look at your pics... Congrats, you are a good looking guy... Now stop seeking validation on that... I know that's what your doing buddy because I used to do that to... No offense but fucking hot girls is a mans game and not a game for little boys who ask other men if they are good looking... It's time for you to man up and KNOW that you are good looking and focus on getting some pussy... No body (no man or no woman) wants to hangout with somebody who is insecure about being good looking... Now I have some bad news for you buddy... You have some work to do to improve your sex appeal even though you are good looking... See you have a nice face but you are not doing much to stand out... Your haircut sucks... You look pale like you live in your moms basement... Your style is so average it just SCREAMS to women that you have no sex life... Your style should convey that you are a cool sexy guy that has to fight women off of him... Your style looks so bad and average that I would think that you get no sex if I saw you in the streets... You have a nice body but your clothes don't show it at all... I would also get bigger okay.. Fucking hot girls is a game for masculine manly men not pretty boys okay... Put on some size and shave that black disgusting body hair off your chest and I'm guessing it's on your back too...
Once again you are a good looking guy who needs a lot of help in terms of style and grooming and being a masculine man with the right attitude required to fuck hot girls
Wait here's some more specifics... Your shoes are awful, they look so generic and boring... Get some Cool looking elevator shoes that make you tall and impressive and stylish... Your jeans look like a pair you bought at Walmart for 10 dollars... What hot girl wants to fuxk somebody who gets their clothes at walmart... Your fucking shirt... Are you serious... That's a fucking undershirt and it looks old and worn out... You have no nice fitting clothes? No accessories? Nothing to add some edge and make you stand out from the rest of the boring undersized undersexed crowd... When I walk around people think I'm a doochebag and they automatically don't like me... I walk around with clothes that show off my arms and I look tall as fuck with my elevator shoes and I walk in a manner than conveys that I own the world (like I would knock you out and fuxk your girl while you're in the hospital)... Unavailable women and pussy ass average men look at me like I'm public enemy number one... Nobody thinks that I'm a nice guy anymore... They think I'm way too high on myself
Some things dont happen in a day. Sometimes years, like learning pickup or getting aggressive. I personally would be aghast if someone I met talked and thought like you. Very undesirable, it pervades the mindset and reflects in a guys approach and personality. That being said, this has never been handed out on a platter and your swag and approach will always need critique and approving, how many women have you approached? When I was out and getting blown out or ignored, I would sometimes ask what turned them off to me, sometimes it would be worse for me and other times, well I def got better, thanked them and move on. I sometimes attracted naysayers just like that, never lost my frame though.
Okay, perhaps the clothes I wore are not great looking. However, why would need shave my hair? Having body hair to a degree is very masculine. Think about all of those lumberjack men or those burly male heroes that have constantly portrayed in the media. Furthermore, while I am not an advanced bodybuilder, I have a body that virtually all other men in the world would kill for. I actually do intend to do to some degree; however, that should not really be considered as a concern for me. In fact, I already have 10-12 lbs. more muscle than those GQ or male fashion runway models that Chris talked about
. Also, most women actually get disgusted and become threatened with men having too much muscle (even Chris has admitted to this). Additionally, my parents, especially my mom, don't think that I need to gain anymore weight, otherwise I'll really start to look fat. If I do put on 10 or more lbs. in a week or two, then yes they would be right. Otherwise, I will start to look as fat as this guy
. Obviously, I don't want to look like that. I have been doing weight training for over a year and a half and after a certain point you cannot force your body to build more muscle at the same rate as when you were a beginner (unless of course you take steroids, HGH, and/or other PEDs). After beginner gains, the gains you can make per year get cut to approx. half the amount of the possible beginner gains. I mean, I could have probably gained about 8-10 more lbs. muscle during that time; however, in order to that I would have had to gain about 10-20 lbs. of extra fat and bloating water on me to build that additional amount muscle. Believe me, not only have I been doing this for a while, but also I have done extensive research on anatomy/physiology, fitness/nutrition, bodybuilding/powerlifting, conditioning, etc. for several years, taken a physiology: diet and exercise class at UCLA, and have taken a year long NSCA course on personal training.
Why are YOU telling us how it is? You don't get laid.
Hunk does and you're purely ignoring his advice. Too big = testosterone ridden fucking crazy giant. Trust me, you're not ripped but you have several years before you'd ever be "too" big. Don't post on a forum unless you want to take some action and respond to the advice given to you.
I was a fucking loser 6 months ago. Had acne, was scrawny as fuck and couldn't talk to anyone. Present day, I am asked for gym advice, I got laid, I have 2 dates with different girls tomorrow and I have good style. Please stop being smug and take some advice man. You'll be grateful that you did.
this will refresh the OP's memory, or have him wake up to reality:
“Women in general will not approach men. They will not plan dates, they will not call or text first, and they simply will not make anything interesting actually happen until you have had sex with them and have officially formed a relationship that is socially recognized."
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