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Fear of being recognized 30 Apr 2015 20:38 #202782

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Hello everyone. You know, I was thinking this thing these last days, and I'm scared of it: I'm a bit scared that when I start approaching girls daily I will be recognized or I will hit the same girl twice, so, that's the reason I ask:

Chris, how do you deal with this? has this ever happened to you? what about you, experienced guys?
What's the probability, in a city with 3.000.000+ people, that I will hit the same girl twice...?

I know it's a dumb fear, I mean, logically it makes sense that nothing really bad is gonig to happen, but emotionally this is another thing....

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Fear of being recognized 30 Apr 2015 22:36 #202797

Try not to care. If she remembers you, and you've forgotten her, you made an impression. When she sees you don't remember her, that helps you, because it implies the Marino-is-the-prize paradigm, which you are seeking.

Also, it's bound to happen. You're going to hit the same areas when you're approaching. The others will also visit those same locations. The WORST that will happen will be something like Chris's "Unusual" rejections, where the girls FLIP. Roll with it like he does, act like she's joking, and when she reveals how bug-fucking-crazy she is, bounce out and write a field report here.

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Fear of being recognized 01 May 2015 00:15 #202809

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Mariano,

As long as you're not doing anything illegal or blantantly harming someone, you should not live in fear.

With that being said, when you start approaching tons of girls you will not even remember the faces of all the girls you interacted with. Girls have told me that I talked to them before and I just say "cool and tell them to have a good day."

I think it's a good thing when you approach the same girls more than once. It means you are just simply approaching any girls you find attractive.

Don't worry about approaching girls more than once. Nothing bad will happen. Get it out of your head.
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Fear of being recognized 01 May 2015 02:57 #202818

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Once again, great advice from Mr. Q.

This has been something I've worried about too. I talk about it in my most recent video. It happens.

But something I have to say. Your city has over 3 million people?!! Dude, you are so lucky. You have nothing to worry about. Mine has a quarter million. And I've only overlapped approaches a handful of times, with varying responses.
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Fear of being recognized 01 May 2015 03:50 #202827

You need to remember the girls you talk too what would happen if you got her number but don't even remember what she looks like? Atleast put some effort in while talking to them it's not mindless approaches till you hit 20 girls and 5 dates.

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Fear of being recognized 01 May 2015 05:51 #202850

Mr. Q wrote: Mariano,

As long as you're not doing anything illegal or blantantly harming someone, you should not live in fear.

With that being said, when you start approaching tons of girls you will not even remember the faces of all the girls you interacted with. Girls have told me that I talked to them before and I just say "cool and tell them to have a good day."

I think it's a good thing when you approach the same girls more than once. It means you are just simply approaching any girls you find attractive.

Don't worry about approaching girls more than once. Nothing bad will happen. Get it out of your head.


Great way to put it, and I have approached the same girl multiple times. One time I got this girls number and was adding her to my phone when I realized I already had her number not knowing I approached her before. It shouldn't matter is it good is it bad who knows? Same with a girls reaction is it good is it bad who knows?

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Fear of being recognized 03 May 2015 13:07 #203114

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@Epic Turnaround
It's hard to not to care, I mean, it's like "be positive", but I understand what you mean. However, the only way of not caring is by having more experience, kind hard right now, you know?

@Mr. Q
Thanks, that what I always say, I'm not doing anything illegal. Thanks.

@Beast
My city has something like 3.100.000 people, and I thought that was little...

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I will only remember the girls that I took the phone from... (only the girls that made a lasting impression)

@$$$$$
Hahaha, that's funny!

Thanks for your responses, I realized that the only way of eliminating this fear is to move on, I mean, it doesn't make sense to analyze this and expect the fear to dissapear, so I will continue moving forward.

Thanks again.

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Fear of being recognized 04 May 2015 22:01 #203330

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Sounds very familiar, was in the same frame of mind.
Just get comfortable with being a ''creep''




Once u get this, your life will change.

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Fear of being recognized 12 May 2015 11:42 #204543

It's happened to me at least 5 times where I approached a girl twice and I didn't die. I also had the experience where I got a girls Digits only to notice it was already in my phone haha. Don't worry about it, just laugh at it. However, based on my data, I was never able to close any of them :(

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