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In my "prime" it was an average of 30-35 a week.
After I started working as a private personal trainer -- it was more like 20-25.
This might be lower than you expected, I did talk to 35+ when I trying to beat AA though.
My point is - it ADDS up.
I suggest talking to 20 girls a week, EVERY WEEK, rather than 40girls a week intermittently
Bar scene era (5 minute walk to bar scene)-
1-2 weeknights going out (20 girls)
1 weekend night (10 girls)
random daytime (5 girls, usually at the gym or walking to the gym on Sunset)
Daytime/Santa Monica Beach era (5 minute talk to Santa Monica Beach/Pier)
1 weeknight going out (5 girls --- weeknights are slow outside of Hollywood)
1 weekend night (10 girls)
2-3 afternoons daytime (15-20 girls -- promenade/beach area)
(we are strictly talking cold approach, not party/club scene when I'd automatically meet 8-10 new girls a night)
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My signature box is about to become my accountability box.... talk to 15-35 girls EVERY week.... message another 35-50 girls EVERY week.... go out at night 1-3 nights EVERY week... go to the gym twice EVERY week
A couple weeks ago I thought leaving the forum would help me hit on more girls but now I realize keeping with the forum makes me hit on more girls
Edit = right now I'm averaging 10 a week just like KK
i'm not doing ANY online stuff right now (going to rekindle the Tinder, soon)
i'd say i'd talk to, on average, 10-15 girls a week; over the course of the last two months
prior to the last two months? i'd talk to 0-5 girls in a whole month. yah seriously
BUT --- i should mention that out of all the girls i'm talking to these days.. i'm getting seriously mad good responses. i used to get blown out by more than 50% of the girls i talked to. now- i'm getting good responses/connections from quite literally close to all the girls i talk to. no lie
doesn't matter though- either i get laid or i don't. gotta more killer instinct, because these girls def like me
i should also mention, that besides this past ~2 weeks... i was doing all of my approaching while downtown. i wasn't doing it strictly downtown just because of the alcohol (i only get buzzed, anyways). i just couldn't get over the hump, and approach during the day... over the last two weeks- i've destroyed that hump
for the past 2 weeks.. i've approached new girls almost every day, during the day. i can connect with anyone anywhere... but from what i've seen so far- the girls that i've talked to during the day have been exceedingly receptive; and have kept in contact with me since we've met.
girls that i meet downtown... almost never pay off. though, some of them do keep contact and we do talk to each other when we see each other again. but as a general rule... meeting a girl or getting a number from a girl at downtown doesn't mean jack shit
approached a few girls tonight
(would have done a lot more.. but it has been raining all day so downtown was dead; fuck Louisiana lol)
2 of them were in a group of more than 4 girls
pulled each of them away with me..got their numbers
expect them to be total flakes haha
was telling Logan earlier that "day game" approaches are so much more reliable for me.. in the sense that the girls i connect with, actually keep in touch with me. seems like with downtown... either you take a girl home THAT NIGHT or you might as well just forget about her (there are exceptions... as with anything else)
Honestly, about 2 each night I go out on average. I go out once or twice a week on average so thats between 2-4 girls a week. Ive only done that for like 6 weeks or so. Ive made out with maybe 10-15 girls in that time, brought one back from a club (kind of fucked), got in to bed with one back at a house I was brought to (messed around a little, was others in the room so we couldnt fuck), and got another girl in to bed but she was resistant as she had a bf, just as she was cracking, her friends cockblocked me lol.
I guess when I put it that way,my conversion rate aint that bad (for a noob), but the amount of approaches aint good enough and neither was the quality. I should be aiming for at least 10 approaches a week I guess. I dont do online dating or day approaches, so I guess its stupid to rely on 2-4 night approaches a week to get laid. I really need to grow the balls to start approaching more, especially through the day when not out drinking. Its a bit harder here, as its a smaller town (20k people), but thats no excuse I guess. I may also rejoin Tinder, though im waiting until I get good photos which wont be for a month or so.
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