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Not sure if this girl is into me (didn't screen her physically).
Met her a few weeks ago in class, didn't screen her physically but noticed that she checked me out blatantly for around a second. Had a brief but uneventful conversation. Texted her the next day, asked her if she was free tomorrow, she asked what for:... Me: "You should stop by my place and we'll watch a movie" Her: "I don't think I'm the kind of girl you're looking for" Me: "Haha oh yeah?" Her: "What?" Me: "Let's hang out" Her: "Well, make a plan then" So we made plans to hang out the next evening but I had to flake on her because of a really important school commitment that suddenly popped up. Anyways, the point is: is she attracted to me? She doesn't seem sexually available but I'd still be doing to make out/whatever with her. Her willingness to hang out with me after I clearly expressed sexual interest hints to me that she's attracted but I'm not sure. Thoughts? |
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She is probably not exactly dtf, could be boyfriend hunting ... If you don't mind investing a couple more hours go for it
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What the experts have to say here?
I'd say, meet nearby. Talk about bs and tell her in a relaxed manner, lets go home for some beers while dragging her I think.. |
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Unless you have other women/approaching to spend your time on you might as well give this a shot...at the very worst you will fail miserably and have a reference experience to build on
It would seem as though she's probably not gonna fuck you right away HOWEVER maybe she's just protecting her self image by not coming across too easy...either way go out in the real world and take some action..invite her for drinks or coffee of whatever... try to move the interaction forward with physical dialogue...have fun...let us know how it goes |
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oh man, this cracks me up. You are asking if she´s attracted to you and your are not sure. GO FIND OUT. ASK HER AGAIN. You want us to speculate? GO PULL THE TRIGGER AGAIN. Me thinks there should be a kind of "mid game anxiety" program after the AA prog. Obviously there are still guys scared of rejection even on IM. ![]() ![]() never believe guys that brag about this and that. They all lie and are all full of S***
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This is something you text if its your second (if the first date went incredible and you didn't invite her home) or third date, not first. First date is a getting to know each other, and making sure you're both normal people. Pick something easy... Ice cream/drinks, etc. After an hour or two, THEN ask her what she's up to, and if she wants to come back to your place. At the time of the text she still liked you. She asked you to make a plan AKA go find a place that is not your house that both of you can hang out in. |
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I would advise the opposite, depending on your circumstance: don't put much time into her unless you have other plates or prospects. Your potential to develop oneitis increases along with your time investment. If oneitis is not a concern for you, then I agree with Hollow. |
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If she hangs out with you after she obviously assumed you were asking her to fuck (come over and watch a movie) she's interested enough for it to be worth a night of your life to try and bang in my opinion. Make a plan like she said, get her out of the house, and then capitalize.
How many chicks have said, "oh I'm not that kind of girl" or "I never do this" then ten minutes later they're riding your dick. Stop analyzing it and get her out and make a move. If she even meets up with you and doesn't flake that would enough for me to assume she's sexually available. |
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