TOPIC: Your Opinion on Buying Drinks for Women

Bearing in mind old PUA community theory and advancements made by my fellow douchebags, what do you all think about buying women drinks? For example, I met a girl at a bar today who was a lone wolf. She seemed rather receptive and even invited me to have a drink with her. Once I suggested that we go "dutch," she blew me out. I am saving money at the moment to buy sexier clothing so I can't be buying drinks for every girl that hooks. But, please tell me your opinion on the matter.

Against it, UNLESS you and the girl have been chit-chatting for the past 10 minutes and you potentially see it going somewhere beyond a simple chat. Then I would casually say something like "Hey, you're a fun girl to talk to. How about I buy you a drink and we continue our conversation over there...." Sounds like that was the scenario you were in.

If it's something that my friend does, which is buy multiple girls a drink in hopes that she will be appreciative and stick around upon initially meeting, have fun with that. Can't count the amount of times a girl has happily accepted his drink and was nowhere to be found for the remainder of the night haha.

If you aren't one of the people I came with, hell no

any girl who stops talking to you because you wont buy her a drink is either:

a) a bitch just looking for attention and a free drink
b) a bitch just looking for a free drink
or
c) a bitch

If i genuinely enjoy the girl or the interaction then I'll suggest something like "I'll get this one and you get the next." This way you still come out even without looking "cheap"

Of course if you already know her/are dating her, then buying her a drink just falls into the category of doing something nice for your loved ones

Her blowing you out is good screening, for you. She's an idiot.

Casualty of War?

Not everyone bats 1.000 when it comes to closing chicks at the bar.

Like Lucidity said, she's a bitch.

I wouldn't let this one incident keep me from buying girls drinks. In my experience, most girls that are lone wolf at the bar are looking for action...I guess it's all how the conversation or situation is panning out. If she's not interested, don't keep giving her drinks. If she's receptive, I'd continue, but maybe try to get her to take some shots to loosen her up.

Hey gangsters,

Thanks for the replies. With the first girl that I ever slept with, I asked her to buy me a drink. She got upset and refused. Then, I gave her the smaller compliance hoop of splitting the bill with me. While at the bar, she bought me a second drink and bought some songs on the jukebox for me without my asking.

I should have done that instead to more easily receive cooperation from her. But, yea, a lot of girls at bars are not the nicest women in the world. But, I am not doing well at daygame. So, I love bars and clubs. I am a handsome fellow, but don't have much sex appeal. So, I think alcohol makes women to believe that I am better looking than I actually am.

I'm just looking for action and not for a wife.

Shit like this doesn't matter.

Do whatever you want. If you want to buy her a drink, do it, if you don't then don't.

She is interested in YOUR SEX APPEAL, and not the drink or anything you can provide w. money.
If you don't have high sex appeal, and try to get her pussy solely using your financial ressources you're better off buying a high-class prostitute, and I'm not even kidding.

The thing is that many men are pretty fat or skinny today, weak-minded, work 60 hours a week to PROVIDE a pretty nice lifestyle to a lot of women.... then a dominant/masculine scumbag w. no schedule, no job, will fuck her BRAINS out when she need the REAL thing.... while you support her PARASITE lifestyle

Sure, you can use your whole bankroll on drinks to women in the night life, or buy 1000$ bottle service, then some PARASITE women will leech on to your table for free drinks, and leave you with NOTHING but the BILL.
Just keep financing her drunkness, let them dance and get REALLY horny on the dance floor...

But at your CURRENT "mr. nice guy" state" KNOW that some broke masculine looking scumbag will enter the bar, and steal all the pussy you invested in RIGHT infront of your eyes... These hot women have no sexual interest in you....

Why?
Because right now you are a cluless person who comes to this forum, call yourself "the.nice.guy", and write TOXIC sentences like

"Bearing in mind old WEIRDO community theory and advancements made by my fellow NERDS"

Do you think these guys uses your "WEIRDO community theory" and nerdy advancements by your fellow nerds? NO....
You're intimidated as fuck by guys like these, and deep inside you know they can beat you up, and WILL fuck your women. (Who probably are not that hot), but in the end - making you a pussy cuckold...
Most won't beat you up and steal your girlfriend --- because most are not that cold-hearted, but TRUST ME.. it has happened out there... in the real world!

GROW UP, and move on from that CRAP.

I REFUSE to pay for SHIT if I haven't fucked a chick yet. You know there are bitches that will go to a bar for instance just to load up on free drinks? I got burned doing dumb shit like that not once but twice, buying teddy bears, movies, and food and shit. Absolutely never again. As Sam said above, your sex appeal and her being DTF (assuming you're looking for ONS) are all that matters.

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Ya you're right about all this. No one is arguing against that.

No need to insult people though.

The.Nice.Guy wrote: Bearing in mind old PUA community theory and advancements made by my fellow douchebags, what do you all think about buying women drinks? For example, I met a girl at a bar today who was a lone wolf. She seemed rather receptive and even invited me to have a drink with her. Once I suggested that we go "dutch," she blew me out. I am saving money at the moment to buy sexier clothing so I can't be buying drinks for every girl that hooks. But, please tell me your opinion on the matter.

invited you? did she pay?
buying her a drink is a no no in old school pu unless you combine this with a challenge.
If she really likes you, buy a drink or not, there is no difference. If you feel like buying her a drink, just do it.
Better invite her for "a drink" at your place.
Anyway old school pu also tells you to lead (this rule is still valid today). Since she invited you in the first place and you agreed, you were not leading. You lost power.