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jake D wrote: That's pretty much what I am doing though.
I am def completely obsessed I won't disagree haha.
I don't know though I feel like I'm doing it in the way I should be.
What are you recommending I do differently hunk?
I really like reading your posts and find them really inspiring because you're really obsessed with this shit.
You did beat aa, porn/masturbation addiction, going to gym, got sick edgy style, got social freedom and many other stuff. At the end of the day, you are fucking girls --- got results!
Maybe you should just chill a bit and give yourself some credit, and realize that you've come a long way, and you are FAR better than average guy.
But im not saying to stop improving... far from it, haha
Also i saw your picture and think you look really good overall.
But what i also think what would make the BIGGEST change in your appearance is simply to get BIGGER.
Because you said you are short, i am short too, and i noticed being more muscular makes you have a bigger frame instead of looking like a small child.
Maybe consider using steroids?
Im 5'7'' and i had so many people told me that i dont look that short. And almost everyone that i ask can never guess my height and they always think/say that im 5'9''.
Good posture + getting bigger helps a ton.
jake D wrote: Thinking about it too another thought I'm having right now is
I should start doing light SA and AA drills everyday.Along with the other shit I am doing.
Even if I don't go for full on beating AA absolutely just yet-
I should still go out daily and ask 5-10 girls "what time is it" or some other social drills.
It will be good for me.
I am watching chris's video over again right now on social anxiety and he is really stressing baby steps but daily lesser exposure over extreme short term exposure and I couldn't agree more.
I think you need to strike a good balance of pushing yourself,but also not going too crazy.
In the past I would always push way too hard and the result was always that I would quit and then end up back at square 1 and I don't plan to repeat past mistakes anymore.
So I think I should def be doing something like asking 5-10 girls per day for the time since how fucking easy is that?
And also just to learn to be more patient with myself and also more consistent.Don't rush and have the patience for the results to start coming in.
So much THIS!
You'll be fucking amazed just how much social momentum will jack you up; it's like fucking cocaine and working through these (realistically) easy drills will make your SM soar like mad.
I'm starting up my AA drills again tomorrow with JC87 (I've been slack as fuck and in a rutt); maybe we could start an AA journal for the 3 of us where we ALL have to update each day on our progress. NO EXCUSES. TWO Accountability Buddies would be sick.
1234Go wrote: I think one thing that would be really useful in all of this is to actually see where girls are hooking up most and where it's best to spend your time:
- Is it online
- Is it social life
- Is it club/night game and bars
Look at it from their end if you were a chick where would you want to meet someone?
In my experience, (maybe is fault of my game because sometimes I think I'm very straightforward, looking like I don't have BF potential), most girls in bar/clubs are NOT initially looking for BF, but because of the context is WAY easier to get sexual with them, they expect that from us.
In the other hand, I have VERY poor retention from clubs. I don't know if it's entirely my fault or bar/clubs mechanics are involved, but trying to fuck for the first time or again a chick you met at night is usually an uphill battle the following days: is like they will easily forget you, even if you apparently eclipsed them by your looks, attitude...
I didn't try daygame like I do nightgame, but for me (right now not getting all the lays I could due to shit tier logistics) bar/clubs are fucking awesome to get sexual/laid with chicks.
If there's one suggestion I have for others it's that cold approach be something that supplements you. Don't let it become what you plan on doing when you get out it's just something you do when you feel like there's something there (opportunity or you make one). It's an addition. It goes far better for someone whose focus is to create a life for themselves. E.G. If you're interested in flag football, acting, yoga, finding a cool local weeknight bar scene, and stuff like that. Do that. The cold approach will help add to that life. Going out there just cold approaching is not for me in the same ways that only doing online is not for me.
- Has online dating traffic reduced the number of guys approaching girls in bars/clubs?
- Are the younger guys 21-22 just not willing to do it anymore (I keep hearing this from their friends that are doing well that most of their friends can't approach worth a shit)
- Day Game is overflowing with dudes in coffee shops
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