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How to get rid of her 23 Feb 2015 10:13 #188530

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Ive currently gone a bit over my head with too many girls. One girl ive met 3 times and hooked up with a couple of times now. She thinks I want a serious relationship (I dont) I have kinda lied that Im interested in a long term relationship pretty much so I could hook up with her but I definitely dont want a relationship with her. I know she is going to be really really disappointed. Even though we've only been on 3 dates she is boarderline infatuated with me already (which is part of whats putting me off). I feel its going to be ugly no matter how I do it. I was just going to do it over text/whatsapp. Something like :

"Hey X. Really sorry to have to say this - Ive been thinking about this alot the last couple of days but I dont think it is going to work out between us. I did think I wanted a relationship but Ive been realising that I really want to focus on myself at the moment and that I dont want to neglect my business ideas and my fitness at the moment. I hope you understand. I know you will be dissapointed because I know you are really into me but I feel its fair to be honest now rather than further down the line where it might be more painful."

Do any of you guys have any experience on how to drop girls? Tinder/fuckbuddy hookups is easy to let go but I feel this one is going to be more difficult.
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How to get rid of her 23 Feb 2015 11:19 #188534

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1. Meet up with her or do it over the phone.

2. Cut the business/work-on-myself excuse. Just tell her you're not ready for a commitment right now.

Bonus: Being honest about your commitment level also means she might want to keep seeing you anyway if that's what you're looking for.

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How to get rid of her 23 Feb 2015 13:11 #188546

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Yeah don't throw in anything that doesn't have to be in there.
Keep It Stupid Simple

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How to get rid of her 03 Mar 2015 14:13 #190415

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Thanks guys. In the end I sent her a message on WhatsApp then met up with her for a drink to discuss things. I dont think she quite bought my reasoning but I was honest and just told her that it didnt feel quite right
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How to get rid of her 03 Mar 2015 14:24 #190416

I have done this a few times now, and initially, she may not buy your reasoning, but remember, you are hitting her with something she has not known about, and you have had time to digest. Just be honest, as you were, and simple.

Funny thing is, in quite a few cases, as someone else mentioned, they have come back in a day or two, after wrapping their head around it a bit, and still wanted to hook up and spend time.

Could be they now see you as a challenge after, and figure they can 'win you over' and will continue to pursue you, fully knowing you are not 'committed' to them.

Doesn't happen with all of them, and you let those go and wish them well, but does with some.
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1 - 23 year old, one night stand from bar
1 - Gym buddy lay
7 - Lays from online dates, (4 First date lays, and them some repeated lays after)
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1 - 24 year old met through mutual friend

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How to get rid of her 04 Mar 2015 14:19 #190621

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Ye exactly. Left things open with her and we can remain friends (maybe more) or maybe she has some girlfriends she can hook me up with. Who knows
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