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Fact: Restaurants and bars employ above-average looking women because they’re good for business.
It’s a tough spot for the Loser because these girls are at work. It’s their job to be hot and flirty. They get hit on all the time. But I have to believe there is a way to get past their ‘job goggles’.
What strategies have you Losers used to successfully pick up servers, hostesses, and bartenders?
My advice is just wait until you’re about to leave before you ask for their number - I’ve asked out and gotten numbers from bartenders before, just be considerate and don’t put them on the spot while they’re obligated to be nice to you.
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I’ve done this a number of times especially the places I frequent. You can definitely tell the difference betweeen obliged flirting and real interest.
Anyway - she’s at work, so be discrete and don’t do it right in front of someone else. You can be strategic about getting up and asking for the bill at the bar or somewhere with less of a crowd.
Ive also asked to book at table at the place if they’ve shown interest. They’ll usually go grab a list to take your details so just follow (more secluded) and do the same old “I’m really not looking for a table you just look really cute/attractive/hot and I wanted to ask you out”. Works like a charm for me.
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