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How to avoid freezing with hot chicks. I am doing just fine with average girls and around my level.
But completely freeze when out with hot chick and turn into "nice guy". I know I am doing it wrong at that moment, which makes me even more nervous and situation even more awkward. Any suggestion on how to approach this issue? Practice? I know she isn't princes and snow flake and all that, it is just, when I really like some girl, who is super hot, I tend to freeze. |
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I got the same problem. If my AA doesn't keep my from talking to a hot girl, I wind up having a really boring conversation because I get really nervous. I have figured out what causes me to become nervous, it is the fact that because you perceive this girl to be so hot that you elevate her and put her on a pedestal.
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Yeah, as I said, I am doing pretty well with chicks and around my level, have several fbs on rotation and most of the times, bang new chick each month.
I just have a problem when it comes to really hot chicks, 9/10. I can have normal conversation with them, but don't get aggressive with them. It's like I transform from cool, masculine guy to a nice guy and try to convince them that I am cool and valuable. I had been banging really hot chicks, believe it or not, one was to become playboy mate of the year in my country later (banged her in a car and didn't call again), that's what I had, such killer instinct. So I am trying to get it back. I am in 30s, after spending my 20s in a relationship. How to get that killer instinct back with super hot chicks. |
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Last edit: by Bruce.
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I think a lot of us have this, I know I do.
Right now, 5-7's seem to do fine with, and its because you don't give a shit about the outcome. 8-10's you really want, so it becomes outcome dependent. The "I want her to like me" stuff, and that's where we have to focus. I'd like to get the I don't give a shit attitude with them to. I am going to try to start screening them, and deal with the rejection to build that into your core self. 2015:
1 - 23 year old, one night stand from bar 1 - Gym buddy lay 7 - Lays from online dates, (4 First date lays, and them some repeated lays after) 1 - Night club long game 1 - 24 year old met through mutual friend |
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hot looking girls look pretty bored to be honest standing alone. i bet they want you go talk to them tbh.
dont be scared about image either. she prolly likes guys talkng to her. it boost her social status aka thats why there are scary cats out there. |
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