TOPIC: Hitting on too many chicks at a party?

Okay FR time.

Roommate threw a party couple weeks ago. I knew no one there but I lived there so of course I partook. I just moved in a month ago and so I don't know too many people in the area or even my roommates that well.

Anyways the party is going on and I'm chatting up all the chicks trying to find which one is down. Basically I'm screening but also I'm just socializing with everyone since I'm one of the hosts of the party and I live there.

I ended up talking to almost all the girls in the party and one girl complemented my body and felt my abs and we went outside and made out while I fingered her. I couldn't get past the LMR she got mad when I pulled a condom out and wanted to go back inside. We go back inside and I go back to my original plan since I haven't got laid still. I tried to get the same girl to fuck and she said she was down to fuck when everyone left which was probably bullshit but we made out again in my room and I tried to fuck again but she left really quick this time. I probably lost my window of opportunity when I failed to smash in the alley outside.

Anyways back to the party she goes off with some guy and I'm on the prowl again talking to two girls but one of them had a boyfriend. A 3rd girl I had spoken to earlier comes up to me and blatantly asks me "is that your girlfriend?" and then starts calling me a player. I took it in stride saying "Why do you say that?" while laughing but she said the same accusation of me being a player several times through out the night. Honestly I feel like she only did that cuz she was digging me.

Anyway I end up passin out around 3 in the morning and my roommate the next day says the girls complained about me being a "shark" and talking to too many girls. Also one of the dudes complained to him I think because I know when I started talking to the 2 girls and one had a boyfriend, I saw him glaring at me.

So he was saying his friends and multiple people told him I was being a "shark" and talking to too many girls. Mind you my roommate is a player himself, he's bigger and taller than me, and he's older so I take his advice since I know he gets women.

But at the same time I don't feel like I did anything wrong. Yeah I was obvious in my intentions but who cares? I may have talked to every single girl in the party but I ended up fingering some girl and easily could have fucked her if I was able to beat her LMR down or possibly if I stayed up all night til everyone else left (she spent the night).

Also my roommate told me the girl who said I made her "uncomfortable" was the one I fingered. The strange thing is she was hitting on me before I hooked up with her. She was saying how awesome my six pack was, lifting my shirt up, and feeling my stomach. Then she went and turned around and called me a "shark". And I was even texting her the past week about hanging out and she's been hitting me back up every single time.

Should I be trying to show restraint at smaller social settings like this? Need advice from some of the vets here.

In my eyes, none of my actions were wrong. I screened successfully and got a little play and could have had sex if I beat the LMR (I had her pants and underwear all the way down on the street while fingerbanging her for a good 5-7 minutes). Also the girl calling me a player clearly liked me.

If I didn't talk to all the girls in the party I might not have interacted the same way with either one. I can confirm 2 of the people who "reported" me to my roommate were the girl I fingered and the dude who's girlfriend I talked to. She probably didn't want to feel like a slut and the dude clearly felt threatened by me talking to his girl.

I think he said a couple other different girls said I was a "shark" but so what? Why would I be shamed for being social? Almost all the girls I spoke to were having fun, laughing, etc.

Why did they try to shame me and fuck with my reputation after the fact?

Honeslty, You just gotta read what type of party it is. The smaller the party, the more careful you gotta be. Bigger, more energetic parties are easier to hit on multiple chicks without people noticing.

You can really tell when there's that one guy or guys that are obviously trying to hit on/get with every chick they talk to. I made the same mistake one time back in March when I first discovered GLL with similar results. It was the first party I had been to and wanted to try out some of the stuff i learned. Lol.

Just keep a better eye on the scenario next time and you'll be good to go.

Bunch of White Knight Pussies Pissing their Pants because you actually had the balls to go for it.

Yes You are the SHARK...Shit is way more Alpha than Being a Pussy Sardine fish.Might as well get a chain with a shark locket and rock that MOFO like a badass!!

Johnson is right though..Its all about that juxtaposition and adapting to the situation..
Just brush it off dude.Maybe if things get heated up,just say u were tipsy after having a drink too many and laugh it out

Yeah I understand. I feel like I didn't actually hit on most of the chicks I spoke to though but maybe the fact that I was approaching people and talking to them was enough. But honestly I knew NO ONE in the party. If I didn't approach everyone and talk I would be alone in the corner in my own home. I honestly just thought I was being social.

And no it wasn't like a heated situation at any point or a heated talk. My roommate knows I was wasted but he said if he takes me to a party he wants me to tone it down.

But then on the flip side after the party, he said he quickly admitted he might have to be a shark more which made me laugh and made me think that people were projecting their own insecurity onto me. I mean they were calling me a shark while I had my hands in some pussy around the corner and had another girl asking about my relationship and calling me player.

I feel like deep down they wanted to bring me down because I clearly didn't give a fuck but I don't want a reputation as a thirsty dude. At small parties it definitely is noticeable when one guy is "working the room" but I worked it okay in my head. If I had hooked up with and possibly fucked a 2nd girl would their accusations really mean shit?

But honestly I was drunk and almost every chick in the party was hot so it wasn't like there was only 1 hot girl to choose from. There was at least half a dozen. I was like a kid in a candy store. Perhaps I was a bit too "eager" and came off as "thirsty" because it was a small party. Gonna be more lowkey next time and maybe try to screen girls in different places.

I'll show a bit more restraint next time.

johson wrote: Honeslty, You just gotta read what type of party it is. The smaller the party, the more careful you gotta be. Bigger, more energetic parties are easier to hit on multiple chicks without people noticing.

You can really tell when there's that one guy or guys that are obviously trying to hit on/get with every chick they talk to. I made the same mistake one time back in March when I first discovered GLL with similar results. It was the first party I had been to and wanted to try out some of the stuff i learned. Lol.

Just keep a better eye on the scenario next time and you'll be good to go.

This is correct. To expand, this is where eye contact really become important. You need to pick your shots carefully and maximize your chances of it going well. At the end of the day you did good, you could have fucked that girl but somehow you messed it up. If a girl straight up tells you she will fuck you later, she probably will. Sit back, relax and "get to know her" also keep her warmed up. Of course it is also possible to smash her in the alley or quicker. But ensuring she stays tipsy and keeping her in the mood (and with you) is a safe bet and a good way to add a nice new notch to the belt.

FS-Ronin wrote:

johson wrote: Honeslty, You just gotta read what type of party it is. The smaller the party, the more careful you gotta be. Bigger, more energetic parties are easier to hit on multiple chicks without people noticing.

You can really tell when there's that one guy or guys that are obviously trying to hit on/get with every chick they talk to. I made the same mistake one time back in March when I first discovered GLL with similar results. It was the first party I had been to and wanted to try out some of the stuff i learned. Lol.

Just keep a better eye on the scenario next time and you'll be good to go.

This is correct. To expand, this is where eye contact really become important. You need to pick your shots carefully and maximize your chances of it going well. At the end of the day you did good, you could have fucked that girl but somehow you messed it up. If a girl straight up tells you she will fuck you later, she probably will. Sit back, relax and "get to know her" also keep her warmed up. Of course it is also possible to smash her in the alley or quicker. But ensuring she stays tipsy and keeping her in the mood (and with you) is a safe bet and a good way to add a nice new notch to the belt.

Yeah I thought that girl was a sure thing but she didn't want to associate with me after we went back inside the party. She told me to wait to go in after her so people didn't think we hooked up together then when I finally did make it inside she was talking to other guys and didn't want me around.

So I tried with different girls after that but they must have known or sensed I had already started getting with the other chick and didn't want to be labeled a slut by being my seconds. Or maybe I'm just overthinking one fuckin party to be honest lol. That girl that said she would fuck me never went to sleep and I passed out at 3 so I don't know if its true. Would have been nice to get that then and there as I would have been validated immediately but such is life. Probably going to party tonight with bottle service to bring in the New Years. Hopefully take some girls home afterwards.

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