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WannaBeAlpha wrote: Decided to download Flamer, a computer program that automatically swipes to the right for every single girl. There is a thread here where several people have mentioned great success with it. "It automatically liked several hundred girls within minutes and my phone was blowing up with matches". Shit like that...
Well I just tried it. 1000 girls later, and I have two matches, both of them fat. I have absolutely zero interest in sex unless a girl is at least average, so I think I will pass.
I have also been sending messages through POF with no luck.
So here's the way I see it. Everything is a numbers game, and the amount of approaches or messages is exponentially higher than the amount of lays/GFs/FBs attained. If I have to "like" 1000 girls in order to get 2 undesirable matches, then how many do I have to like in order to find a single desirable one? And then, how many desirable matches will actually meet up in real life? And out of those, how many will want to have sex? And after the first lay, how many of them would be willing to stay as a GF or FB? As it is, I haven't even gotten a single date, so I'm looking at chances that are probably 1 in 1,000,000,000...
For those of you who are successful, enjoy it. For those who are not, I'm honestly not too sure that there's much you can do about it. I am very financially successful, I work out and have a decent physique, my looks have improved a lot just over the last two years, I live right in the middle of LA, everybody I work with thinks I'm a great guy and I do excellent work, and I feel like I'm doomed to becoming a real life 40 year old virgin with no friends. I could continue to make improvements, but I just don't see anything else as having the ability to create a "make or break" difference when I am this far behind. So what if I had even more money than I do now, or added ten more pounds of muscle, or got plastic surgery? Would any of those even make a difference, if I've already gotten this far with zero results?
I think I know when to be realistic and call it quits. Thanks for all the advice I've gotten here, but I don't think it will help me. There are some people who are just flat out unattractive and I'm one of them.
Man that is Red Pill as fuck. You could check out BestGore dot com , and at least be happy you aren't the people who end up displayed on that site.
Dude you're 20 years old and "very financially successful". If you're young and have a lot of money there has to be a way to get laid. And you are not ugly. Theres rich old dudes that are ugly as shit and have super models hanging off of them. I have no experience with this but just go out and look for gold diggers or something. Your in LA there must be gold diggers everywhere.
Look on improving your pictures. Try to show your wealth in some of your pictures. Like with a professional photo in a suit or something. Rooster and the other online dating guys could help you with that.
Get back on the grind dude.This is not a 100m race but a long ass marathon.Hang in there.
U DONT need any Plastic Surgery and all that BS.If u have the money,go and get a Professional Photoshoot done.Try to get a Photographer that has an Canon MK III camera or the like and u will look gold(I promised to not advice anybody over here but my heart breaks when I see a fellow GLL leave this place disappointed and dejected..that's not the result we seek over here)
I myself looked into the whole MGTOW thing , but honestly its mostly 40+ who got screwed from a divorce and have no other option . You still a young guy with all the tools you need to get women .
From reading your posts you seem very dependent on how women view and treat you . Thats prob the worst thing you can , not every single woman is going to find you attractive . There fat 3/10 sloots that say Channing Tatum is ugly , can you believe , lol . .. Dont value yourself based on how much pussy you get or dont get , realistically EVERY man on earth can get pussy , just that some guys will have to pay cash for it . Even renting a sexy escort help you out , having sex with a girl and plus you will see that sex isnt this hard to get amazing thing that only a few guys get , sex is not that big of a deal after a few times .
I just think you need some self help / self Love , really take some time and just forget about chasing women . Find out who you are , what you like , what values you hold , find out what type of personality you have , get to know yourself better first , accept who you are move forward in life .
You just seem like you really hate yourself , most of your posts were talking about negative physical appearences you didnt like about your body . I know you heard it before - if you dont love and accept yourself , how can you accept anyone to do it ?
I commented here becuase judging from your pics , you honestly look like a genuine nice guy with good intentions and sucks seeing you in this position .
Your a grown ass man so Im not going to tell you what to do , if you wana quite then quite but just remember , when your 30-40 years old you will def regret this . You may not be the Best looking guy , but who is ?? You dont have to be good looking , below average white knights are still getting pussy , just find a way .
I blabbed on for a big , Im kinda of all over the place but just do whatever you think is right .
Hey man it looks like you have your shit together for the most part but you can't get too hung up on online dating in my opinion. Once you have some success all of these negative feelings will go away, and I'm sure you will break through if you keep trying. I would personally take a break from the tinder and pof and try to talk to girls in person if I were you. I find I do very well in bars and with girls in my social circle but for whatever reason the only girls that reply to me on online sites are hogs. Try switching things up and I would avoid MGTOW stuff, it looks toxic to me and I dont think it will help you in your goals. Your look is fine btw, worst case you can even try average guy "dating". I personally like the GLL way of approaching women and dating but you might have more success if you try more traditional methods of finding women before advancing to what is promoted on this site. I think you should focus on small victories and try to build experience and confidence rather than fixating on the end result (at least for now obviously at the end of the day you want to get laid)
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