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SupaDorkLooza wrote: During my time in the Army I learned why Black guys did well with women.
1. They start way earlier. The age they first had sex was from 13 to as low as 6 years old.
2. They have Don't Give A Fuck attitudes because they understand that it's all just a game. (outcome independent) They really don't care if they get rejected.
3. Many Blacks I've met are able to intuitively read people. There was a German anthropologist whose name I can't remember, who spent his entire career in Africa. He wrote that "Blacks are natural psychologists".
4. They have Savoir faire and what I think is called 'High Verbal Acuity'. An example of this is how American Blacks always seem to find a cool way of saying something, rarely are they unable to come up with a response. Their culture trains this at an early age where they trade creative insults, they call it 'Jone - In'.
Also compare the response to "Great job on the last work detail"
Typical White/Asian "Oh yeah, uh thanks man"
Black "Shieeet, ain't nuthin to it but to do it"
5. They do not believe that women are their equals. "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal"
6. Positive mental attitude even in bad situations. They didn't complain about things but if they did, it was in the form a funny joke or humorous observation.
They also tend to be taller, naturally muscular but these didn't seem to matter as much as the other things I listed. Two Black guys I knew who killed it the most were under 5'7" and skinny. There were Black dudes who didn't have traits 2,3,4 and 6, these men were not successful with women.
SupaDork, There's not huge amount of black men here but at the same time its not a rarity. Its what it is; a minor race. I guess, to sum it all up, black men have balls of steel and they are more experienced.
another thing I have found is that black men benefit from a taboo factor working in their favor, this same taboo factor also hurts them. some attractive non-black girls will go for black guys to piss their family off or as a means of getting back at the establishment, no other minority group has this taboo factor in the USA. On the other hand, this taboo factor also gives black men a disadvantage against latinos and other minority groups in that a latino or asian can date and hook up with a much larger range of women outside of his race. All of this assuming that the latino and asian is above average looking and actually makes an effort.
I have known many white girls that avoided black men and even complained about constantly being approached by them go for asians, latinos, and guys of other minority groups.
Now I can pass for a light skin mixed race black male when I shave my head. It gets some girls going but usually it is a very small niche. When I go the latino route and let my hair grow out, I find that I can date and approach a much larger range of women than if I was black.
yeah Fernando is right there seems to be this "hype" that white girls love black guys, but they are very few and far in-between. The white girls that tend to like black guys are a niche of their own, and it's not a big one.
the biggest game changer for black guys is too just get "status" if you want to have more appeal to white girls. At my school the black football players get a lot of white girls, and these guys are some of the ghettoes ppl you'll ever meet, from the way they talk to the way they dress, but guess what it doesn't matter because they have "status" as football players. If they didn't have that status the girls wouldn't even look at them or socialize with them.
Though having "status" will universally work in everyone's favor, I think it's more important for black guys. A latino or an Asian guy without status will tend to do better than black guys. Just my Opinion and some things I've observed since I'm black.
I'll also say that being a mixed black guy really helps as well which is basically where the term "lightskin" comes from, it usually refers to a mixed black guy who's party white and part black. It's something exotic that the white girls seem to love. I've noticed that light-skinned black guys tend to do pretty well over all with white girls even if they don't have status. From the pics I have seen of Hollow I think he is mixed though I could be wrong.
the worst part though
is when I bang these non-black girls, we fuck maybe once or twice and I never hear from them again
when I go out on the first date with them, and don't bang them, I never hear from them again either lol
zero retention, i think that where status helps
fernando's thing about location is true for me at least
i've never got to bang a born n raised city bitch, only fucked country/small-town girls. they're the only ones who even flirt with me or give me compliments to be honest other then the hoodrats sometimes
M.C. Solaar wrote: I'll also say that being a mixed black guy really helps as well which is basically where the term "lightskin" comes from, it usually refers to a mixed black guy who's party white and part black. It's something exotic that the white girls seem to love. I've noticed that light-skinned black guys tend to do pretty well over all with white girls even if they don't have status. From the pics I have seen of Hollow I think he is mixed though I could be wrong.
mixed black guy something exotic white girls seem to love
I guess that pretty much explains me. I was looking at Fernando's and a few other's posts and thinking "niche?" What niche? M.C. got it pretty much spot on when it comes to us mix breeds because I've been with 3 black girls and the rest were all white yet it didn't seem "nichey" at all. I guess its a niche in its own right but they pretty much just treated me like a normal guy that they wanted to bang. No outrageous obsessions or crazy mentalities towards me but plenty of compliments to my "accent" (Still trying to figure that out) and my "look."
I've actually been wondering about my case for a bit since I'm a little outside the spectrum but that pretty much clears that up
Yes, light skin black men do have somewhat of an advantage and bigger range than their darker counterparts. The important thing is, you have to practically act white and be more safe rather than being ghetto/thuggish. With black and latino men, acting thuggish will completely destroy your chances with most quality girls.
I'll compare latinos for example.
The latinos that statistically do the best with white girls, other than European latinos (Spaniards and Italians), are actually Mexicans. In areas on the US where the Mexican population is high (Southwest), interracial marriages involving them with white women are also high. Reason being because Mexicans tend to grow up alongside whites and integrate into white culture to an extent. In Texas, the latinos are Mexican and it is actually common to see White women with latino men here.
Puerto Ricans on the other hand do awful with remotely desirable white girls because they are a lot more thuggish and in love with black culture. In NYC, Puerto Rican men usually end up with black girls or latinas, rarely other races including white girls. Yes, while you might meet some Puerto Ricans that white girls love, as a whole they do the worst out of all the latino groups when it comes to getting white girls. Reason being because so many of them are extremely thuggish and more of the ghetto swag types, interracial marriages involving them with white women are not as common as they are with Mexicans and Cubans.
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