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I mean the ghetto black guys who usually just "holla" at a girl. They usually seem to have insanely hot white/latina girls surrounding them. I dont even understand where they find these girls since i live in a suburban area and hot girls are kind of uncommon here. Like today i saw a ghetto black guy hitting on a girl i had already hit on in my school (shes mad slutty and im kinda sick of her so i dont really care) and i swear it looked like she was enjoying it to some degree even without physical contact.
These guys look like shit most of the time too..(bad teeth, unkempt hair, really ghetto style)
If anyone gets offended because im using the term black etc., i apologize for lack of a better choice of words.
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
dbag.. I think you answered your own question, you said the word style. So if you have style, which could be a number of things its going to attract woman or people period. Maybe a few, maybe a lot. as Chris preaches on this site about being "cooler" than the woman your with or trying to get with.
Some styles attract more people. Being quiet, shy will appeal to some women but we all know most woman are attracted to the fonzie types..
Most Black Dudes like myself have nothing to lose...and usually people raised in ghettos know how to talk to and fuck women because women are not attracted to money cars and other bullkshit like media says...they fuck guys with confidence.....all u gotta do is get with some friend who have confidence and youll see that women eat that shit up...stay positive bro....KEEP SCREENING!!!
During my time in the Army I learned why Black guys did well with women.
1. They start way earlier. The age they first had sex was from 13 to as low as 6 years old.
2. They have Don't Give A Fuck attitudes because they understand that it's all just a game. (outcome independent) They really don't care if they get rejected.
3. Many Blacks I've met are able to intuitively read people. There was a German anthropologist whose name I can't remember, who spent his entire career in Africa. He wrote that "Blacks are natural psychologists".
4. They have Savoir faire and what I think is called 'High Verbal Acuity'. An example of this is how American Blacks always seem to find a cool way of saying something, rarely are they unable to come up with a response. Their culture trains this at an early age where they trade creative insults, they call it 'Jone - In'.
Also compare the response to "Great job on the last work detail"
Typical White/Asian "Oh yeah, uh thanks man"
Black "Shieeet, ain't nuthin to it but to do it"
5. They do not believe that women are their equals. "Don't put the pussy on a pedestal"
6. Positive mental attitude even in bad situations. They didn't complain about things but if they did, it was in the form a funny joke or humorous observation.
They also tend to be taller, naturally muscular but these didn't seem to matter as much as the other things I listed. Two Black guys I knew who killed it the most were under 5'7" and skinny. There were Black dudes who didn't have traits 2,3,4 and 6, these men were not successful with women.
I have found that the success black men have depends entirely on location, it has nothing to do with game like people on here claim, in fact I find that the lower class ghetto thug types have awful game (no offense). The truth is that black men do well in areas where there are not that many blacks around (Upper Midwest, blue states, and parts of California). A typical California girl growing up in the bay area is tired of seeing Asians and Latinos, who normally have awful representations of their races in the area (ugly, short, fat, and poor game type guys). A black guy that comes along will be a novelty because blacks are rare so girls fall for their ghetto swag type stuff.
Now on the other hand, in places like the south and parts of the northeast, blacks do not do as well with white girls and other races simply because there are a lot of black men and women do not see the novelty in being with one.
When all is said and done, nothing beats being a WASPy white guy that is at least 5'10 and decent looking. I would argue that a lot of latinos can do just as well if not better than black guys.
Another thing I have found is that black men can rely on powerful niche game but men of other minority groups have a much larger range of women they can get, that even includes white women.
A lot of the white women you see going crazy for black guys happen to fit some niches (obsession with black culture or a need to piss off the establishment). Other minority groups do not benefit from this kind of a niche game but on the other hand they have a much larger range of women they can get. It works like this, the white girls you see going crazy for black men will also fuck an asian or latino guy who had some game and swag, but a black guy will be preferred. On the other hand, a latino or asian can date a much broader range of white women who are closed off to the idea of being with a black man.
A good example of this can actually be seen with some pornstars that won't do scenes with black guys but will shoot scenes with asian or latino actors (nicole aniston and alexis texas come to mind, nikki benz was like this for quite some time before she finally changed her mind about it).
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