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I'm doing the AA drills so I'm not hitting on random girls yet, but at the same time I hear horror stories about how guys who cold approach girls get their reputations tarnished, cops called on them, or get completely ostracized by their community (some guy from OSU). I'm not socially retarded: I know better then to approach a girl with a boyfriend, in large groups, or keep pursuing girls who look like they are about to leave, at the same time I'm not Dale Carnegie either.
I read that rejection is natural, but at the same time I don't want to lose friends because I get a reputation as a creep. I never got into the whole RSD/PUA thing (found out about this site through redpill) so I really don't know how far these guys took it. I have a year left in school and read about how reputation is everything in college (I'm working on expanding my social circle, will get more involved in the year). and that guys who approached girls were labeled creeps fast. I would never devote an hour to approach girls on a campus, but am not against approaching that hottie I see in front of the library.
You're over thinking it brotha. If you look good and approach with the typical "hey i know this is kinda random but i thought...." the worst that can happen is that you'll get labeled as "that hot guy with balls"
Do it at a neighboring mall or the closest big city. or at at a college campus cafeteria that is at a near by school that you do not attend.
The only cold approaching you could do at your campus is if you have a party you can invite the chicks to. Other than that the "don't shit where you eat" policy applies.
Richie wrote: You're over thinking it brotha. If you look good and approach with the typical "hey i know this is kinda random but i thought...." the worst that can happen is that you'll get labeled as "that hot guy with balls"
LOL. Not at all. Even if you're good looking if you approach women (people) that don't want to be approached, you're an asshole.
Don't approach people that don't want to be approached. Simple. AA is almost normal, it's your body telling you : "something is wrong with that situation". Extreme AA is something else. Btw I fucking HATE people cold approaching me in the street. Especially when I'm in a bad mood. I want to kill them.
But anyway after 1000+ cold approaches, the worst that happened to me was being insulted. That's all.
Only trust your own experience.
Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do.
I don't mean to instill unnecessary fears in you or be neurotic but don't let faggots tell you that cold approach is some innocent, harmless thing: it's men hunting/fighting for scarce resources, for pussy. And the more effective, direct, daring, dominant you become, the more competition and risks you face.
Keep your eyes open for any possible threats like angry BF or white knight attacks. More so after the sun goes down when there's alcohol involved. It's always good to keep in mind that physical size, martial arts prowess and weapons are useful in the rare 0.001% situation where something bordering on dangerous happens.
Out of around 2000 approaches (99% daygame, 1% nightgame), I only recently had a situation where I was running from an angry BF and calling for the cops.
It was only a block away from where I live that I was threatened by the BF of a girl that I had apparently hit on a couple of times and made her come home crying 3 times. The girl had described what I look like and the BF spotted me outside and came to threaten me verbally and the only reason he didn't get to touch me was cos I walked backwards cos I didn't want to fight 15mins before what I though was going to be my fuck date with this sexy redhead.
He was almost foaming from the mouth and I was waiting for a date in 15 mins and I didn't know if he had a weapon so I ran away. He treatened to kill me but it was just an empty threat. He was concerned that I'm stalking his GF cos I was hanging out near their building. But I was just waiting for my date. I explained this to him and told him to show me a pic of his GF so I could know who to stay away from, but he didn't, he was blinded by his anger and eventually left.
So, how to avoid a situ like this? When you hit on girls who live on your block, don't touch them or properly start to hit on them before you ask: "are you single?" and they confirm.
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