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Hey. The AA program seems to focus on the daytime. However, I have very little to no AA during the daytime and when girls are alone. I can talk to them easily and get numbers and meet ups that lead to a bang. I DO get it quite a bit of AA in bars, clubs, and crowds. Suggestions?
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The big difference is that in crowded or social places, you feel like you're being watched. So your mind rationalizes, subconsciously, that if you fail people will actually notice, or if you are approaching alot, people will think you're a creep that is bothering girls.
This subconscious mental narrative doesnt go on in the day because people are most going on about their business and nobody is really standing so there are less chances that they will watching you if and when you fail.
The solution? Make it your goal to fail in front of others. If you can purposely go up to those sets that most people at the bar are paying attention to, and just be slopy on purpose, you will start to get comfortable with failure in front of others. If you cant do this, at least make it your priority to spend some of your time out in the field approaching those sets that are likely to fail, while still giving it your best shot.
when doing this, try not to judge yourself on whether you closed or got approval from the girls, just be happy that you did the fearful approach.
The only way to minimize any fear is by exposing yourself to it
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I don't do well in crowded bars but I'll give you a few tips that work for me stand up front by the dance floor, stand in the way or at a choke point forces people to you, stand next to somebody for a bit a say hello, ask girls to dance it's easy and expected no talking required, I was at a bar with a date and this old guy went around and asked every girl if she was with someone(didn't offend me cause he was being respectful or whatever) had a date in 10 minutes. I was like damn that looked easy
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