This is an opinion website that offers information of a general nature and none of the opinions should be construed as advice. Nothing contained within the site is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to Good Looking Loser. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals.
Affiliate Disclosure: At absolutely no expense to you, if you make a purchase, we may receive commissions from some links on this website. That is how our community supports itself. I don't recommend anything that I have not used personally or believe in. Thanks!
Please help me out here guys! Getting fed up with this.
I've been out 15(!) times this last month and pushing it real hard in the night life and done shitloads of approaches/screenings. From this I've only managed to set up 3 dates and had 2 bangs, consider that I've been out like +6h every night and just constantly hitting up girls.
I've been really aggressive in my approaches, I mean, really aggressive. I've dragged so many girls in and grabbed their asses, getting make outs, and them telling me I'm hot and all this bullshit within like 2-3min.
But the case is pretty much always that the friends (girls or guys) seems to think I'm a complete creepy scumbag and drags the girl away from me (maybe they're just jealous? But whatever) before I can even do this "follow me"-technique (which otherwise works awesome) and eventually the girl that was into me just a minute ago pretends she never even liked me and they all walk away.
I've tried to befriend the friends, telling them to go fuck off basically, dragging the girl away from them anyway but I tend to always lose this war cause it's not like she's gonna leave her friends for a guy she just met. Sometimes I've managed to get the number from these girls anyway (as a last resort) but they've been flakey.
Some of you might say that I should only approach the girls standing by themselves, but you're hardly gonna find a pretty girl in a night club who doesn't have her friends around.
I don't know... being aggressive certainly feels like it's more like "me" and that I'm very congruent to it. I guess I just come off as too much of a player though and maybe I should change to a more "nice guy"-style and just try to build a stronger connection with the girl talking about a bunch of bullshit so she thinks I'm into her personality too and doesn't fucking flake.
This must be like the biggest issue with this aggressive GLL-style to game but I haven't seen one single article about it yet.
So any ideas guys?
Improving your looks will help. I certainly get cock blocked (noticeably) less now that I pay more attention to fitness and looks vs. my "PUA - Looks don't matter" days.
Believe it or not, I don't think I have ever successfully closed a girl when the cock blocks were flying in hard. If I did, the girl I was going for shut them down instantly.
We (my friends and I) used to get very scientific about how we would handle cock blocks. It was an art form and while we played with skill and seemed to "progress the set" further by implementing these tactics, shit would always fall apart. The reality of it is, if someone wants to cock block you, they will.
Key things to remember:
A ) If someone wants to cock block you they will.
B ) Improving looks will reduce cock blocking, because now you are a hot guy hitting on their friend vs. not hot guy
C ) Your best bet is to play it off and then try to isolate. If you can do this, then you should be good.
D) The more people in a set the chances of cock blocking goes WAAAY UP.
E) A talented wing man can help witch certain types of cock blocks. Others they cant.
F) If you care about closing the set, never attack the friends. I violate this sometimes because I think that cock blocks are the lowest form of life and if some chick is going to be a bitch to me for hitting on her friend I will tell her vicious things to ruin her (cock blocks) night. I only do this when the cock block is overly mean or just completely uncalled for. Wow.. I went way off topic with this one but... What I am getting at, if the cock block is polite or at least reasonable, be polite and move on or try to isolate etc... but I have had some girls be extremely rude and say degrading things to me, in which case, I look them in the eyes and tell them things I know they will cry about later. I believe that all human beings deserve respect, and there is nothing wrong with me showing interest in a girl. If someone is going to try to ruin my night or say incredibly mean things to me, for no real reason, then I will prove that I can cut their ego and say things that will make their soul and mind hurt for days.
Blah blah blah... I could rant on this for days, everything you need to hear (and some completely uncalled for stuff too) is already typed above, good luck.
The same similar thing happened to me this saturday with one of the chicks I was fooling with.
Maybe l am not the one to be authority but my bitch reacted like yours amongst cock blocks;
-I turned and saw beher behind me
-Immediate Eye contact, smile from me.
-lmmediate Spontaneous compliment plus Screen ok
-Smalltalk ok plus screening hand= soft, warm, no resistance!
-hug + kiss behind her ear= no resistance / wanna fuck her.l told her that I go get drinks that she can come with me she say will Stay with her friends
I went for a beer with my friends and she waved bye.Supposed she will be okay and done.Wrong.
Same as yours.don't wanna go to details but similar.
About my behaviour later I just need to tatoo on my brain that AFTER she's in I -need- to LEAD AND GRAB her, NOT "hope she follows my Cues".That came across as too loose and eventually I lost her.AARGH!
... anyway...In the end cockblock step between us and after me checking her up she pretends she don't want what I am up to.So I bid "enjoy" and get the fuck outta there.
I was ..mentally tired and disappointed man. So you know what l did?
l recovered somehow (was hard for me,a friend saw me "different"..down disappointed and we took a walk around then mood went up again when l ReactStopped & fired up some feelings in a few more pussies.
About that bitch that let her experience of us be spoiled by her "friends"; Approx Lesson learned is:
-will continue improving me
-when we see again (this is a very small town after all) I will somehow fire her up again and friendlironically mockher how her ''friends" fuck her mood for us / hate to see us getting farther in few mins than they in all their "friendship"'.Not in the exact words.Status.Entitlement.
Their male cockblock looks and "hope she likes me" "I play it cool and friendly" was Inferior.
Therefore, they tripped her with negative views of our (me and her) intentions and behaviour to fire up heer feeling ashamed.
THEREFORE,the only bet is all-in. Out Alpha by doing it for her.Dominate-humor - fun-lead→ isolate
If not isolate,All-in escalate, kiss,Take #no. and now these pussies can try their best but she knows YOU are on HER SIDE .
Lessons learnd for me.
Chris wrote about these peoples mentality (if you have them as friends ) "Delete their number" Do not talk to them. Do not let negativity enter or stay in your life.
If they are on cockblock side,I would say,do what I've done but all-in+Impose What You Do Is A Fun And Correct Thing.Positively dominate.
The GoodLookingLoser.com forum offers visitors the ability to exchange information and thoughts. Nothing contained within GoodLookingLoser.com forum is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to GoodLookingLoser.com or of Goodlookingloser.com itself. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals. Visitors are to make their own independent inquiries before acting on any information contained within the website forum.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.