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Honestly, it's not even worth it IMO. I used fuck around and have my own basketball team of chicks (5) at various points in college... had a lot less responsibility then. Even in college trying to have more than 5 was a tough (for me at least).... What I did do though was use a burn phone every now and then (one of those shitty Walmart ones that you could throw away) used that for some while my #1 (point guard) got to text my real phone.
Fall 2012 (when I was in business school) in tried to live the same lifestyle and my time was def eaten up by chicks... I almost failed out so I just dated one girl in the Spring to get my act together and squeak by.
I'm not sure I understand the question. The term "Fuck buddy" is used so loosely around here it is hard to really understand your situation or your problem. Do these girls think that you are their boyfriend?
Personally, I try to follow the retention guide that Chris posted and see most of my repeat customers at the absolute most once every week, ideally once every 2 weeks or even more. There is one girl I see every month or so right now and she is still staying around.
In my opinion, this life style is all about choices and being able to do what ever the fuck you want. If you want to see one of your current girls then see her, if you want to go out and try to score some new lays then do that instead.
I'm inclined to say your letting your girls run you rather then the converse. Regardless, these are good problems to have.
with 2 or more of the chicks you should have a set day of the week when you hang out (fuck)
you frame this by always talking about how busy you are and it's not your first choice to not be spontaneous, but you travel, work, have your own life, blah blah and you REALLY need a predictable social schedule. girls will agree to this if they dig you, they respect how busy you are.
I'd genearlly schedule Friday night and Sunday with my 2 favorite girls and fit the others in during the week (or every 10 days if i could)
'traveling' is the BEST excuse to be unavailable. girls can't accuse you of negleticing them or not calling them/hanging out. they respect career-oriented guys and thats why they agree to be your fuckbuddy in the first place (boyfriend/significant other potential).
just dont get caught out with other girls at nightclubs/restrurants like I have 1000x times. LA is a small world if you are in the scene
good job btw- my goal was 4 bed buddies.. it comes fast after you get the 1st one and continue to approach/party.
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Just a thought, but have you asked yourself "How can I be more efficient?"
I don't get to answer that one because I don't fit the criteria to do so.
However, just off the top of my head:
Phone stratergies: Timing, amount of time, general expections.
Faster meetup to sex and girl leaving
Restricting volume of sex per day
Usage of stock longstanding excuses to cut social obligations (work, travel...)
Setting date time limits (set events, squeezing it in)
Going for a lesser sexual activity (blow job)
Utilizing places that tend to get quick sex.
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