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hey guys this is just on how I feel like its just bs on how girls treat me compared to how they treat other guys .Im good looking well mannered tall groomed and employed yet I have bad luck with girls that are 7 and above.I got this inferiority complex and I'm obsessed with women because I cant get chicks who I feel like I deserve.0Its so pathetic I'm upset .For example I smiled at a chick said hi and the girl could be like um Im busy or look at me wierd .While this doofy looking guy could come to an even badder girl say the stupidest thing most obvious thing like hey do you have so and so class and the girl will fall for it!And if I said the samething the girl would be like huh what does he want .Like hello the guy just wants to fuck you just like I do.Yet she invests in the convo when its him. and when its goodlooking(at least not bad looking) mofos like me I get hell.Im just on the verge of borderline depression.
Thanks for the replies guys its crazy because my social group of guy friends are mostly virgins or dont know nothing about approaching girls because they've been one girl like forever. But its crazy though one of my best friends is 6ft1 that isnt much taller then me and he gets better looking chicks then Ive had all my life in our time in college.Hes had 5 nice looking chicks that he could of banged but didnt because he believes in marriage and is religious.But all this guy did was sit in the library sit,do his work and a chick would sit next to us .He would then initiate the conversation or she would .It's like he's a fricken magnet lol.But two things I've read from you guys made sense Grubster and Scifen talks about vibes and his vibe is chill like mine but he shows that he isnt trying to get laid while I do.I believe that what you guys said is true but its fucking hard as shit to put your mindset that your not trying to get laid when you are in entering the prime of your life.If I see a bad chick with an ass that smells good.I cannot ignore her I will break my neck to check her ass its something I cant turn off. To alpha beast I'm fustrated but I definitely dont show it in public because since I don't tell my guy friends this or really anybody I figured this is the best place to calm down.When I'm with my bros I'm not fustrated because I'm with them but It gets tiring when you hang out with guys then a hot girl comes in and everybody shuts up because shes hot and looks at me like I'm beast and be like "yo you got that". To raider and billy bob your totally right .To jay and trigger boy I think you guys make alot of sense.At chip there nothing wrong with playing retro arcade games man you never played street fighter as a kid? peep how I had pics showing I was in yankee stadium too then pics at 8bit arcade .IMO it shows that I'm versatile. |
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post up a picture (or video) of yourself dude. |
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yeah you're definitely good looking haha. i don't have enough experience to give you advice though. |
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Hmm kinda hard to tell. maybe post a video we can gauge your vibe better.
Also remember that people tend to excuse themselves from others they think are way above them. Kinda like bowing out of the interaction before they do something stupid. That's one possibility. all the way through; relentless
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maybe the "lame guys" have a real casual approach and don't actually give a shit about what the chick thinks of them. it seems like you care what the girl thinks of you or how she views you. actually i think watched part of a video where Chris talks about this. i don't remember where it's at but probably has some good advice you could use.
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Lol i used to think Like that all the time dude, its all in your head, For one not every girl will be attracted to you, you probably just have to screen harder, Trigger boy is also right to some degree, I had alot of girls who acted like they weren't interested in me in the beginning of the convo then after they would tell me how attractive they thought I was and shit ... some girls just love playing hard to get.
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And some others are just shy.
Why don't you post a video for a vibe check, OP? I don't think you are ugly. Let me give you broken pieces... How they glow!
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Most likely it's the overall vibe you're giving off. When your in a proper mindset and positive this shit will be a lot better for you. Do you wanna be around girls who are mad negative and depressed ?
true screening mentality is when you really dont give a fuck how the girl reacts.....so the fact ur questioning urself...ur not really grasping the actual screening mind-set......when it clicks in & you've realized that you've been screening - Brian Harris
IN SCOTTY WE TRUST Never let yourself get attached to anything you aren't willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner |
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1. Don't be a hater. Biggest sign of weakness and poor self image.
2. Not trying to be a dick but you have a pic of you playing tekken 3 and youre asking why lame guys get more pussy than you. Every girl wants my d. If she thinks she doesn't, she just doesn't know it yet.
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What you feel the girl will feel.
What you perceive externally in the world is a reflection of your self. With all due respect, and not trying to sound harsh, but what girl would want to be with a dude who sounds mad at the world and sounds like he's pouting and frustrated. Men that get laid, a lot are chill internally, feel internally validated, don't need girls for validation, and don't hate on other dudes to make themselves feel better. I'll give you some really solid advice. Why do I know it's solid because growing up I used to sound just like you. I was a good looking dude who girls wouldn't give me the time of day until my attitude shifted. The advice I'll give you is stop comparing yourself to other dudes, stop putting other dudes down who think are less than you or what ever. Just focus on becoming a value giving guy. What kind of value do you bring to the table that girls would find interesting, fun, captiviting, intriguing etc.? Maybe you do have a lot, I'm not saying you don't but it's obvious from the topic of your post that you still have some work to do on becoming a more solid man. I would bet you a hundred bucks that if you were super honest with yourself you probably have some issues that still need to be dealt with that are keeping you from being more positive. Honestly you sound bitter and angry from your post. And bitter angry dudes don't get laid. You are a good looking dude. But I know lots of good looking dudes who don't get laid. I have a good friend who is good looking, but he is in love with a girl in another country who he has been talking to over skype for 10 months because he feels it's his only option and he doesn't feel he is the problem on why he can't meet a woman he really likes. He thinks it's just that all women are this or that and if only...... You get where I'm going with this? Bitter angry dudes don't get laid. Work on becoming a happy, positive, value giving man who sees the glass as half full, not half empty and do it for real and I guarantee you you results will change. But the problem is that takes a lot of work, time and patience, and it's easier to blame "lame guys" or the girls themselves, then it is for some guys to be honest and realize they still have a lot of work to do and maybe they just aren't ready yet. To really be with a 10 you need to be a 10. And being a 10 is less about looks and more about who you are as a man internally. It's easy to be a Pussy and feel sorry for oneself. It takes a real man to act, despite massive resistance to positive change as a result of lack of clear goals and a clear plan of action.
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It's all in your head. What if the girl just likes the doofy look on that other guy? It has nothing to do with you. Go talk to the next girl. I used to be just like you - no, I was actually much much worse - I sincerely thought that there was something fundamentally wrong with me that no woman would find me attractive. After I started doing the AA program and getting great reactions I realized it's not true at all. I just hadn't talked to enough chicks, and would only remember the bad stuff. Nowadays I shrug off the bad reactions and focus on the good ones.
Once you start realizing that you are attractive your confidence will go up and thus you will act more alpha, becoming even more attractive, and it's a self-perpetuating cycle of positiveness. Right now you're in a negative cycle and you need to snap out of it ASAP. |
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