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Don't know where to start 16 May 2017 14:46 #283957

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Hi, Rattrp here, I'm 20, virgin, only ever got a few girls kisses from drunk cold approach at night clubs.

Used to be fat at High school so only ever start talking to girls sexually after done at school, at last year of high school decided to drop weight and lost ~60lb(30kg) but never really got a good confidence level and still struggle a bit to maintain the weight.

I reach out for you guys cause I think my biggest problem is that I can't make others unconfortable, like I try to never disagree with anyone and im always avoiding any type of confrontation.

I have a lot of social anxiety, usually only watch in silence when in a group setting.

I really want to change and overcome this, this is fucking up all areas of my life, not only sex life, really hope that I can make it with the help of the forum, I need more than anything in my life to beat this confrontation fear and don't really know where to start.

* Where you are from? Brazil
* How old are you? 21
* What are your goals? Get rid of social anxiety/fear of confrontation.
* If you could accomplish ONLY ONE THING in the next 12 months. What would it be?Get rid of social anxiety/fear of confrontation.
* How long have you been reading self-improvement stuff? Pickup/dating material? On and off for 3 years
* What are you main blockages? I don't really know
* What's your experience level, more importantly- what's your dating/sex life been like over the past few years? I'm virgin, only got kisses from girls at night clubs while drunk cold approaching.
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Don't know where to start 16 May 2017 15:33 #283962

Start AA program.

It a struggle and tough, but every bit of it is worth it.
AA Program
Week 1, Week 2, Week 3

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Don't know where to start 20 May 2017 01:33 #284147

I also vouch for the AA program. I only got through a few weeks and definitely noticed an improvement.

I must warn you though that the program is really difficult. This is because you're going against your instincts here for which the brain tries to prevent your from doing using whatever means and excuses necessary. But when you do do it, then you will greatly reap the benefits.
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Don't know where to start 20 May 2017 07:32 #284156

good luck...

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