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I'm not quite sure how I started jerking off on a daily basis (just once daily, don't have the drive to do it more than once), but I'm going to pump the brakes on that. I do not believe it has been having good effects. I will bust a nut as rarely as possible, and I'll do it without porn. If I have the nerve I'll report back on how it effects myself here within the next month...
And I say rarely as possible, because I don't know how long I can go without jerking before I have wet dreams on the regular. I know in the past if I didn't jerk off at least once every 7-10 days, I was practically guaranteed to start having wet dreams and that isn't cool.
Coming from a life of porn in my 20's to sex in my 30's, a couple of the things that kill the mood:
1. In porn you are used to getting off by the visual (you stare at whatever it is that gets you off). In real sex, most of the time you are staring at the girl's face (my current girl likes to make out non-stop, so I don't even see anything, it's all felt in my particular case).
I had to get used to stop being aroused by images of what I liked (in my case I liked to see the pussy). I HAD to get used to being aroused by skin contact, and the general "I have a living breathing girl here that wants to feel pleasure with me!" idea. For me that was key. Once my mind started switching from "I want to see the parts" to "I want my woman to feel good" I started relaxing more.
Drop porn like a lead weight for 2 weeks straight, and then spend the time concentrating on that girl that wants you to make her feel good.
Porn has been a necessary evil, but it is destroying guys minds nowadays. I never got into the weirder shit, and I feel sorry for the guys that can only get off at bizarre fetishes. You have a 10x harder job to clean you minds than I did.
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