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I am new to this forum, hello, and have an issue on which maybe some of you can give feedback.
A little bit about me: I am somewhat lone wolf. I don't socialize much, although I am not introvert, I would define myself as quite an extrovert. It is just, that "hanging around" is not my thing (anymore).
I am doing pretty well with chicks, although tend to freeze with really hot ones. Still, have a nice set of fbs and banging new chicks every month.
The problem is, I don't have many male friends. I work in the office for now and have side business. "Social circles" in my company are just horrible, guys gossip like girls, they have no ambitions and there is absolutely nothing I can learn from them.
I noticed that I don't get invited to parties, hang outs..., which I really don't care about if it wasn't for some chicks I want to bang on that occasions. I noticed also that just about all guys in the office are intimidated by me: They will speak loud, but speak lower when I come in their surrounding. They will become nervous when I approach their desk to ask a question, flinching with their legs, put arm over their belly to close off their body, step aside when walking towards each other, and even lower their backs on sit.
I "made a point" in past 2 years, when somebody wanted to push me to do something I wanted and loudly scream at him: "fuck off", "get lost", "don't fucking challenge me". See, the thing is I am pretty decent guy, I don't talk shit about others behind their backs, I don't want to harm anyone (I am ripped and strong, though not bb), but if I get pushed I strike back immediately and not very nice.
So people leave me alone, but I do want to have quality male friends and I don't want people be intimidated by me as much, since chicks get scared sometimes too.
So my question is, how to address this issue, how to meet quality male friends and not scare them away, while still setting up clear boundaries. And how to infiltrate non-invitation parties, when you are not invited.
As men, we do not have the ability to freely join different social circles without bringing something of value to the table. On the surface, it seems like women (at least the cute ones) are tremendously advantaged in this regard as they are never without a social group if they desire one. The thing is, women will kick each other while they're down, and they'll do it in much more covert ways than guys. They'll accept a single female into their group, and talk behind her back, mislead her in order to get things they want, etc. Basically, be thankful for your independence and freedom! True bros are exceedingly rare, and they are to be treasured above anything else, especially pussy, which is transient in nature. I can't tell you how to find these bros, other than to try to meet men with similar interests. If you play guitar, look for bandmates. If you surf, join a surfing MeetUp, etc. True friendships formed around common interests are always superior to fake acceptance just because you have a vagina and a pair of titties.
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