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It doesn't sound like you really want to get married. That is all the answer you really need. But I'm guessing you don't really want to end things either. I'd say that staying with someone just because you don't want to hurt them is hurting both of you. Break up with her and let her go find someone who wants to be married at 21, kids at 23... is that what you want? You know that's what she wants, time to move on.
Its way easier to say it than do it, I know, but that's how it is.
Ive been in the same situation as you are now. i had this chick for 4 years. we ended up married and everything went down hill. we dated and everything for 4 years, we got divorced after 1 and a half months. dont rush into stuff like that. if you are not ready for a commitment then end it. if you and her were ment for each other, you paths will cross again in the future
def. make sure you can get laid a lot before a relationship/marriage, it makes for a good relationship because you'll be in it for the right reasons and the girl cant leverage her pussy to get you to do anything
It's your call, but I always advise against dropping out of the game too early. I kept thinking that the older I got, the harder it would be for me to bang hot chicks in there late teens and early twenties. In fact, the opposite is true. I'm 31, and I've had sex with more girls under 25 in the past six months than I had in the previous six years. Many of them are significantly hotter than girls I would have thought myself able to land just a couple years ago.
You really have no idea where your upper limit is until you try. Not saying you should abandon this relationship... only you know what's best there. And honestly... banging new girls all the time isn't everything. There's a lot of value to be had in a good relationship. But make sure you're not considering this because you think you can't do any better. Chances are you can, and you will very soon, if only you'd give yourself the permission to do so.
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