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I was born with a below average penis size. When I first started PE I was 3.5in Erect length.
I've been doing the basic PE routine for a few years, on and off and got some results. Right now I'm at 4.75in of erect length (bone pressed).
But the problem still is girth. I never bothered to take a girth measurement when I started but right now I'm 10cm of erect girth, or just under 4inches, 3.94in EG
The REAL problem is that even at this size almost no condom fits me. they are just too big. And if I ever lose full erection at any point they just definitely fall the fuck off!
I've bought tighter fitting condoms from europe and that somewhat fixes the problem but it would be great to just be able to walk into a drug store and buy a pack without having to shell out $$$ for imported condoms.
What can I do to emphasize girth gains? I don't seem to be getting much gains in girth at the moment.
I know I'm still below average in length but at this point not very concerned about ti as much as girth.
So far I've been doing basic stuff:
-WArmup with hot towel
2 days on, 1 day off
I have also ordered an air pump right now since using the bathmate is a pain in the ass. I've heard of something called clamping but have no experience with it.
Like I said I've used the bathmate water pump for a few years and finally decided the cons far outweighted the pros so decided to at least give air pumping a go.
I do admit that some of the cons mightjust be because of my small penis size
Firstly ease of use. I hate having to stand there cold and wet in my bathroom when using the bathmate. Especially in the winter this is really sucks. probably why i haven't been 100% consistent these years specially at my old place where there was no heating in the bathroom.
i know some people say just put on the bathmate when taking a shower but that has never worked for me. I need to have a hand supporting the BM at all times otherwise the seal breaks, air gets in and the pump eventually falls off. I've even tried the shower strap and it was a no-go. Again maybe this is because my penis is so small it cannot hold up the bathmate and its weight.
Also note smaller penis = more room in the BM = more water in the BM = heavier BM = harder for it to stay on without supporting it by hand.
btw I have the smallest bathmate model the X20 Not like im using the hercules with my 4.75x4in penis
and I do shave my crotch completely
The design of the thing also ends up hurting my penis most days.
due to my short penis length, my dick is usually shorter than the BM rubber bellows. when i start pumping usually my dick gets stuck near the rubber bellows part and it rubs my frenulum against it's ribbed surface which isn't very nice.
granted over time I've gotten better at avoiding this. I usually do a short 2min pump + stretch at the beginning to lengthen out a bit and then try to position the pump to avoid getting stuck near the bellows.
Then there's the sheer size of the pump. The circumference of the BM is easily 3 to 4 times the circumference of my 4in EG penis. So it sucks in a lot of skin around the penis into the pump. Not a big deal but I feel that this is lessening the effectiveness of the pump.
I only recently learned that in an air pump u can get different cylinders so that you can get a perfect fit even for a small penis.
in the set up I ordered I went for a 1.75in diameter cylinder which should be the best for my size. if it's too small (or hopefully I outgrow it in the future) I just buy a new cylinder it's just 30 bucks.
finally there's the fact that you can't tell what pressure you're pumping at. I've seen so many posts saying something like "The bathmate broke my dick" that's probably why. There's no way to tell what pressure is in the cylinder, vs a air pump where you can fit in a pressure gauge to know exactly what pressure you are at. You just have to go by feel.
in the beginning I've pumped at too high of a pressure myself where I blistered the glans as well (thankfully it just went away completely after a week or so)
Another thing I forgot since it's less of a issue now that im more experienced in using the bathmate: you can't refill the cylinder with water when using the shower without taking it completely off. back when I was starting i'd lose a lot of water when trying to get a seal and end up with not enough water left, so i'd have to take it off, re-fill try again. sometimes it'd take me 15min+ just to start that first pump. But I've gotten much better at it .
There definitely one major major upside to the bathmate which I don't think an air pump can match it in though, that's the fact that you can use hot water in it to keep your penis warmed up. But I've managed to even fuck that up a few times where I was careless and used water that was way too hot (it comes out almost boiling sometimes from my pipes) and seriously burnt my dick haha
so my pros/cons list looked something like this
-can use warm water to keep your dick warm (just don't boil your dick off)
-have to be in bathroom
-too big (personal due to small penis)
-hurts (again personal)
-can't measure the exact pressure
Don't get me wrong when it does work it works really well.. Great pump when it works, even though I wish it would pump more of the shaft rather than the glans. I can definitely see why people love it.
But for me those sessions are few and far between.
Also keep in mind I still havent tried an air pump, it's on it's way I should have it next week or so. it's entirely possible the airpump completely sucks in that case i'll just go back to water pumping.
I just decided it's worth it trying an air pump.
especially the ability to pump in my bedroom (and not the bathroom) is a huge deal for me. apart from the cold and wetness, I also have housemates so doesn't seem right me hogging the bathroom for 40mins+ (i also do my stretches and jelqs there) almost everyday.
I'll have the air pump in a few days I'll do a write up when I've used it a bit, even though I'm still using the BM.
I've used a extender (x2 labs I think) which is similar to sizegenetics. Do extenders help with girth? I thought extenders were for length only.
the extender also didn't work for my size, even with the optional attachment that they claim lets you use it even with a 3in penis. There just isn't any real realestate for the extender to grip on on my penis.
I have considered, since I'm uncut, using the mod that lets you attach it to your glans under your foreskin. Can't remember the name off the top of my head right now but it was originally made of foreskin restoration.
ok, remembered it while writing the post, it's called VLC or TLC (one is for foreskin res, other for PE) attachment.
I really want to try clamping. since it seems to be very easy to do and costs almost nothing. but the problem is I've developed a bad pornography watching habit over the years and I'm trying to no watch porn. and without porn I can't get an erection.
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