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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 10 May 2019 00:59 #316870

I read his posts on gll way back and his blog. I saw his last blog post . I knew he was in a dark place never thought it would end like this. RIP Brian.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 10 May 2019 02:18 #316872

Oh my god.

This is chilling. What a horrible end.

It's a reminder that no matter hard life is, someone has it worse. RIP Brian, I hope you finally found peace.

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 10 May 2019 07:28 #316880

RIP man
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 10 May 2019 08:02 #316882

Jesus.... RIP brother. Although I didn't really know him that well, this is sad news. I hope there's a meaning to this - a lesson to be learned for all of us. There's a solution to everything and when there's no hope, all it takes is to bear with it for one day at a time, and hope will eventually always find us.

The only thing that strikes me as odd is that by reading his site ( www.brianbander.com/chelation/ ) it reads like he tried to fix his mercury poisoning himself instead of going to the doctor.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 10 May 2019 10:05 #316889

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 10 May 2019 15:11 #316901

This is really sad.

Back in the day I used to read his other blog (loser2winner). He was a great guy, he worked very hard and had many successes.

Like someone said here, at least he really lived his life to the fullest, he took control, he was brave.

I somehow knew he was in a dark place (because he wrote about it on loser2winner).
But I didn't know it was THAT serious. He made it sound like he just was in a bad season, like it was going to get better eventually.

But damn... this come totally unexpected.

Rest In Peace Brian.

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 11 May 2019 03:57 #316925

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Fuck. Poor guy. I used to follow his posts when I was more active

I know that feeling of being chronically ill with seemingly no hope in sight. I don't blame him for what he did but this is really sad.

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 12 May 2019 17:28 #316983

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Can't believe this happened , Damn this really hurts .
Brian was a great guy , always encouraging others on here and had good positive energy . Him and I joined the forum around the same time and we followed each others journey . He was really good on the business side and always had great ideas. Him and a few other good guys on here really helped me out during my struggles few years back and I really appreciated that .

R.I.P Brian

Just read his site ( www.brianbander.com ) and I know his situation was very difficult , I just wish I had a chance to speak with him again before all of this and try to help him out / talk him out of this . You will be missed man .

Just scrolled through my PM's , this was the last msg I got from him when I came back to the forum after taking some time off .

yo dude. once again, glad to see ur back.

a lot of us on gll talk on Skype now. if u ever wanna talk hmu there: losertowinner

just texting btw, not video :P

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