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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 02 Apr 2019 23:24 #315471

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Haven't been on here for a while. Just thought everyone should know.

He made another website about his entire life too.

www.legacy.com/obituaries/hartfordcouran...y.aspx?pid=191324092
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 02 Apr 2019 23:48 #315475

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May he rest in peace.

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 00:47 #315477

Fuck... This really sucks. Rest in peace..

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 02:19 #315480

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Fuck. I can't believe it
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 03:20 #315481

Geez. This is very unfortunate.

A while back Brian reached out to me and wanted to send me $5000 (bitcoin). I told him that was terribly silly and not to do that. He eventually asked me so many times that I let him send me $1000 (bitcoin). It was his way of saying thank you/goodbye, although I had no idea at the time. He was a good kid, trying to figure out this world in spite of the health problem that he had (which was also news to me).

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www.brianbander.com/good-parts-of-my-life/

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Being really confused on the direction of my life, one night on YouTube I stumbled across a dope self-improvement channel. I had never even thought to work on myself before, and I definitely had a lot of improvements to make. During this time I started going to the gym consistently, got new clothes/hairstyle, and worked a lot on my anxiety and social life.

I started seeing a lot of results and was really proud of myself. This eventually gave me the confidence to start building businesses online, and eventually move to Thailand.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 04:10 #315482

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Yeah, I'm pretty bummed out about it too. Brian and I were never really "friends," but he came up at the same time as me. It was around 2014 when I started the AA Program, I believe, and I think he was writing lay reports and stuff at that time too.

Every once in a while, I wonder what happened to these guys, like FS-Ronin, Sam, and hollow. There was another guy on here too, Chance, I believe his name was.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 04:25 #315483

Jesus Christ. I saw the note about the suicide prevention hotline in there. I knew a little bit about his struggles but this comes as a total surprise.

It’s always fucked when you see this happen to someone who not only had huge potential, but also accomplished so much already.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 06:15 #315486

This is really sad. I can’t even imagine what he went through. It sounds too painful.

A lot of his earlier health problems are relatable. I’m going to check myself for Mercury poisoning.

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 07:57 #315488

Very sad news. RIP Brian. I'm so sorry for the suffering he endured. He is in a better place now I know it.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 03 Apr 2019 09:06 #315490

Rip brother.

These types of things always fucks me over. One thing that always makes me angry is the stupidty and ineptitude of the medical profession.

You don't treat candida with antibiotics but with diet. A carnivore or elimination diet with probiotica would have helped healed him.

The doctors, nowadays for everything, recommend a antibiotic or a pian killer.

Also I am angry that we could not help him. All these knowledge on the forum and we could not rescue one of over own. It makes me feel impotent.

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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 09 May 2019 21:36 #316865

What a tragic event... RIP Brian.

This just really reminds me of how delicate life is: one random day it begins and then another random day it ends.
The only bit that consoles me is to know he tried his best to live his life to the fullest.
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RIP Brian - AKA "Bendenherover"/Loser 2 Winner 09 May 2019 22:21 #316868

RIP man.

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