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Bad Idea Bear wrote: I'll be friends with a girl if she's cool, or if we become friends just by proximity. For example, this girl lives in my apartment complex, but has a boyfriend. She used to (probably still is) a prostitute so I love picking her brain about that kind of stuff. She has some interesting stories and I like hearing her perspective on things because it's so foreign to me.
However, I wouldn't be close friends with a girl that i REALLY wanted to fuck, because that shit is bad for your self esteem. If there's a girl you're fiending after, it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. But, if you're interested by the female perspective, it can be really fun to have a few girls that you hang out with as friends.
I think I've hit a point where I have so many fuckbuddies that it legitimately doesn't bother me to hang around girls I'm not fucking. I just don't care anymore - if they're fun to talk to, I'll hang out with them.
Yeah probaly have to get to that point first.
i had this girl that was a friend that i hadnt spoke to in a couple years that i wanted to do something with when we were in the same social cirlce (but never did) and all i could think about is that.
Then when i did have a chance and we were smoking chilled in a out of the way spot and i wanted to go for it so i did. And it didnt go my way. And i respected her decision. And you know what i was cool wit that. Cause i finally went for it.
Now we dont talk that much but i feel better as a man, that i tried, late, but im ok with that.
Maybe its just that i had unreconciled shit about it but it made me feel better, and more likely that she wasnt sexually available and/ or not attracted to me. (Cause I found out later that she had been with someone she trusted and had sex but he didnt clear it with her to not use a condom, which apparently can be called being sexually assaulted). And probably going through her own thing.
that aside i spent to much of my 20's putting girls on a pedalstal and not enough time puting myself on one. So yeah after having some modicom of suceesess, after gll, I realized how much.. i really dont like women that much.
And its kinda cool to see im not the only one.
"It is better to nut and lose a girl, than to never nut at all."
I've had girl friends who were either living in the same apartment complex so we walked dogs together or as activity partners with similar hobbies to me but usually they are either unattractive or taken, or I was in a relationship. The only girl that I have maintained a long term friendship with for many years who I find attractive is my best friend's sister but she is off limits obviously.
I do enjoy female company quite a lot, even if sex is not involved. When travelling and meeting new people I always prefer to hang out with females then males. I find its much easier to make a connection much quicker. To make a bond with other dudes you need to go through shit together or do shit together. With girls you can bond by just talking and stuff.
I dont think I would be able to be friends only with a girl that I want to fuck tho, that's a bad place to be.
Dude75 wrote: Damn. I swear I get why so many of you are depressed. The mindset is so wrong.
Yea, just spend some time in the States and you'll understand. In the States the relationship between men and women is all screwed up.
I still vibe better with foreign chicks, the ones that don't come from Anglo-Saxon countries.
The thing with chicks is that it comes down to whether you wanna fuck them or not. And if you don't it's a matter of utility. People use the word Friend to loosely.
I'd say it's easier keep them as acquaintances though. And they are good to have for social settings. For when you go out in groups, to look cool, meet other girls through them, or even cool guys. It's good to know some cuties for when you throw a party.
So they're really good to have if you wanna branch out. Not so good if you wanna do anything one to one with them. They'll often act like it's some type of date where you gotta go out of your way to make it work. It's annoying to even set boundaries with them for this kind of things. And even if you hang out that way, you can't even have a cool guy conversation with them.
If you plan of having girls be like one of your bros more often than not you'll be disappointed.
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